Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2007

She has consulted with lawyers but she has to find him first and has no clue where to start. If she can't find him she can't get divorced. He is no longer incarcerated. No family members... How can she get divorced???

2007-10-17 17:53:58 · 18 answers · asked by Adriana 1

2007-10-17 17:49:46 · 24 answers · asked by Boogie27 1

2007-10-17 17:48:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubbys is cheating... and I want to know who this girl is...

sangidsis15@aol.com
how can I find out??

2007-10-17 17:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by LiLmamma 2

I broke with hubby and now my lover is seeing someone else because he never got a commitment from me. I feel vindictive and I want him to see how hurt how I am, even though he is still nice to me. I don't want to get back with hubby ever. I want to move on but I can't seem to get anywhere. Lost interest in sex, become unsocial.Nothing to look forward to, becoming a hater.Am I depressed? Is there a way out?

2007-10-17 17:46:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where can I find information about the dis-qualifications of alimony?

2007-10-17 17:45:39 · 9 answers · asked by myminime05 2

Im in a divorce/custody dispute, and have court tomorrow.. im the mom and got my rights taken away temporarily
because @ my court date their father said i was an addict, which ive in the mean time gone to psychologists, and counselors to determine that i am not an addict, i have been injured in 2 car accidents and have a physical dependancy to 2 certain mind altering prescriptions that im in the process of weening off of to my own free will. The judge never "ORDERED" me to under go counseling, or random drug tests, but i have agian on my own will.... I have had 2 tests since my last court date, the first one i asked the judge to send me that day, that one came out good. Still traces , but at lower levels than the previous. Then i JUST NOW " TODAY" got the results of my second one.... AND i know alot of you like to judge , BUT I HAVE NOT TOUCHED A SINGLE DRUG , EXEPT FOR MY PRESCRIPTIONS, since prior to my last screening, So ive been clean now for about 7-8 weeeks. My kids are too impo

2007-10-17 17:42:32 · 5 answers · asked by sassygrl702 1

My best friend is married and I´m helping him a lot with his work. We talk a lot and everybody seems to think there´s something going on, but that´s not true. His wife doesn´t want him talking to me anymore. What can I do to prove we´re just friends?

2007-10-17 17:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by Marian Ruthven 3

I am unemployed, so i need to do alot around the house. but how to i get motivated to clean. its really freakin hard for me.

2007-10-17 17:41:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got married when i was 19 (only one month and a half before 20) and they all thought i was pregnant or something because i wanted to get married so young...

I WAS NOT preggo!

I AM NOT preggo at the moment.

we just loved each other and wanted to be with each other...
we both make great money...we have our own place...no one helps us financially...we get along great (well most of the time) and we love and respect each other!

we are a family of three...my son walks on all fours and barks (Petey, he's a yorkie)

we have been going strong and we have been married for a year on december 2nd!

my question is....why would people think i was pregnant? it hurt because i was a virgin until my wedding night....

2007-10-17 17:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by Mia ღ AJ ღ Faithy 6

Ok, Well my hubby have a child from a previous relationship, that child is 3 yo , we are in a 2 yr relationship with only 6 months of marriage and a 3 month old babyboy.When I 1st was meeting his son I was excited until I saw him, what let me down is that this child of his OBVIOUSLY DOESNT LOOK LIKE HIM what so ever. I never brought it to his attention because he acknowledges his son, well not until I was 8 months pregnant and realized that not only didnt the son look like him by just a glance but this little boy have features that neither the mother have nor my hubby have, such as his shape head, ears, and eyes but definitly has his mothers nose, mouth and smile. I understand that you can look like another relative but this child doesnt look related to either family on both sides of my husbands. Our son looks just like my hubby. My husband can make child that look like him and has stongs genes. Can his son just not look like him and ONLY like the mother? Is that geneticaly possible?

2007-10-17 17:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anxious 1

2007-10-17 17:33:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 5 years with one child, our marriage has gone down hill and we have drifted and fight all the time, we basically live separate lives and have not had sex in 5 months. We still spend time with our child together as a family, because we don't want her to feel the tension etc. We have been to counselling and it helped for a while but things went back to the old ways. We can't talk without fighting and we don't know each other anymore. I can't see myself spending the next 40 or 50 years with him, but yet I am scared to say it is over, because of my child, I will turn her little world up side down and am I being totally selfish in wanting to be happy. I don't know how to approach this.
My husband is a good guy and a great father, I know we are better off as friends, but I know if we do break up that won't happen as he will have alot of anger. Also we are both from European families which makes it so hard, as they do not believe in divorce. Advice please!

2007-10-17 17:29:37 · 18 answers · asked by sonsby1 1

when we talk about are future togher we always use the word ours ( our kids, our house, our backyard) but when he talks to his family and friends it suddenly becomes HIS house,HIS cars and when HE has kids. this really hurts that he says these things infront of me....is this a sign of the future that he really doesnt want to commite to haveing another person to share his life with?

2007-10-17 17:24:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for several years (before he had anything) and now he has asked me for a prenup. I am pretty well off myself, but I feel that a prenup is a sign of mistrust. I feel that marriage is a give and take (compromising) relationship. If you are going to say "I do for enternity" then you should have no problem putting it all on the line as I am willing to do. What do you think ?

2007-10-17 17:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 17:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by ccupp2003 1

Im 20 and divorced, wondering if anyone else feels the same. I rushed into my marriage and realized i didn't take it very seriously. Im not sure id ever want to get married again. I have no children but i deffinitly want a few in the future, but at this point i dont feel the need to marry the father of my future children. Id much rather have children before i get married again. Does anyone else feels this way or has someone gone through this?

2007-10-17 17:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by dots101229 1

After only 1 year, how do you bring yourself to get a divorce? I've only been married for less than 1 year. We've tried everything, and it just doesn't work. I've always been kind of against divorces, but there's no way around this. I made a mistake, and that's it. How can I bring myself to cope with this? My husband REFUSES to work any job, no matter what the pay is, and he's bipolar and an alcoholic. Any suggestions?

2007-10-17 17:02:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I noticed that our son was very wet after he had been holding him a while so I said that he made me sick because he's to lazy to change him. Then he said that to me. He has no respect for me. I don't know what to do anymore.

2007-10-17 16:51:11 · 22 answers · asked by ... 1

We have been married for a little over three years. I am so concerned about myself because my mind is rarely on having sex and mainly on other things such as bills, work and starting up my home-based business. I have always been a night owl and I usually stay up until after midnight, sometimes as late as 2 a.m. For whatever reason, I seem to be more productive late at night when things are quiet and I have had a chance to wind down. My husband has to be at work by 5 a.m. so he goes to bed fairly early. Usually by 10 p.m. I have to be at work by 7 a.m. He sometimes will make a sarcastic comment about how late I stay up.

I have tried to be honest with myself in hopes of finding the problem. My husband isn't ugly or fat so I am physically attracted to him. I am satisfied with him sexually. I think the biggest turn-off for me is that he "expects" sex to happen and if it doesn't he gets up. I don't like the fact that he becomes angry behind sex.

2007-10-17 16:44:00 · 26 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

My husband closed on refinancing his house today. He filled me in on bits and pieces of what he was doing but never really explained his decision to me. We have only been married for 3 months and I gave up a free home, a corporate job and my extended family in another state to move here. I learned about the closing yesterday, confronted him about it, he felt obligated to invite me this evening to it. I have been struggling to find the right job here and when I first moved he made me feel as if he would help me out much more than he has...his life has continued while I am worried about my future. I felt I made the right decision, not for money or my own materialistic gain. I doubt my decision now. He refinanced to pay off all of his bills and rebuild his credit, not discussing it with me. I said I was worried about my future he said he would try and help me rebuild and "see" if he could put me on his life ins. policy. He is leaving it to his 28 yo hx of drug use son. Help pleas

2007-10-17 16:42:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

she finds anything to pick you on, and put me down and my husband, im working with settings boundaries but i need more advice. Let me know what experiences you have been through with a parent like this.

2007-10-17 16:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Green Gaint 2

My husband closed on refinancing his house today. He filled me in on bits and pieces of what he was doing but never really explained his decision to me. We have only been married for 3 months and I gave up a free home, a corporate job and my extended family in another state to move here. I learned about the closing yesterday, confronted him about it, he felt obligated to invite me this evening to it. I have been struggling to find the right job here and when I first moved he made me feel as if he would help me out much more than he has...his life has continued while I am worried about my future. I felt I made the right decision, not for money or my own materialistic gain. I doubt my decision now. He refinanced to pay off all of his bills and rebuild his credit, not discussing it with me. I said I was worried about my future he said he would try and help me rebuild and "see" if he could put me on his life ins. policy. He is leaving it to his 28 yo hx of drug use son. Help pleas

2007-10-17 16:38:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a guy in may. we want to be together but he lives in a community where u cant keep horses. i tried to sell them for as low as 300 and no takers. i have to leave state cause of an abusive ex. what would u do with the horses. i dont have the finances to board them. ive exhausted all my options. what would u do

2007-10-17 16:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by innocent annie 7

I have a happy marraige but my husband and I work and invest and work very hard to achieve this. I hear more and more and more couples who are married getting divorced, cheating on their spouse even on line, why are a lot of marriages unhappy?
How does a couple on thier wedding day filled with happiness and joy and love to I hate you and I dont love you anymore?
It is almost that marraige has become an option instead of a priority. Do you think there are more happy couples or unhappy couples now a days?

2007-10-17 16:32:54 · 10 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

ok my bf of 2years has been saying he wants to marry me. I finaly say yes to find out he means a COMMENT ceremony. his moms been married 5times he 37 has never been married. her ideal so what the hell is that. I'm not worth his last name cuz moms relationships were doomed/////????????????? HELP

2007-10-17 16:29:46 · 9 answers · asked by ladywolf 1

I've been dating a guy for about 8 months now. we r from diff cultures (sometimes it becomes prominent cuz we have slight communication problem, we both speak good english btw) but we do love each other. the problem is my parents r pushing me to have an arranged marriage with this other guy and they keep convincing me that cultural diff will become a big problem for my boyfriend and I....what should I do...Im having arguments with my parents every day cuz of this!

2007-10-17 16:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by kera 2

My husband has a habit of asking me "Are you Ok? You sure?" during sex. And he doesn't ask just once or twice, but several times (I counted 11 times on just ONE occasion). It really ruins the mood and makes me uninterested in finishing. I've told him, MANY times, that its ruining it for me and to please stop, but it continues. I just don't understand how he can't tell that I'm perfectly fine during sex, especially with the heavy breathing, moaning and huge smile I usually have on my face. And if for some reason I'm not OK, I'd tell him to stop. Please help me...I want to enjoy sex again!

2007-10-17 16:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by ME 2

if yes how difficult was it and do u regret your decision now?

2007-10-17 16:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by kera 2

Like you are missing out? How do you deal with that?

2007-10-17 16:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2