Like you are missing out? How do you deal with that?
2007-10-17 16:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One thing about everyone life is the older we get, the more the regrets pile up.
So take heart. No matter what choice you may have or may not have made, the regrets still exist.
Just let them go, refuse to be a slave to them, and keep true to your marriage vows. That's one regret you will not want to add to the party.
Good luck.
2007-10-17 16:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married at 18, and I always tell people that if they are thinking of getting married that young, to rethink it and wait. I used to feel like I was missing out on being a young adult, partying--not caring, etc. I got pregnant at 17, so I had a lot of growing up to do and fast. I basically realized that I was now married and a mom, and I needed to do what was best for my family. I made sure that I didn't totally neglect myself though. I did have girls nights out with friends. We'd go out dancing at the club and go to breakfast afterwards. It was nice to get out and have fun again. My husband and I have been married for 101/2 years and it hasn't all been good. We've gone through some serious issues, but we kept communication lines open and work things out. If doing it all over again and waiting meant that my son and other kids wouldn't be here--I wouldn't take that option.
2007-10-17 23:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by yolieszabo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah....I was 27 and I think that was too early. I also rushed into marriage met him and within 1 year we brought a house and got married so rushed and I think I did it more for security and the fantasy of marriage and living that happy family life. This of course is not the best way to do things as now I have marriage issues.
So my advise to anyone is not to rush, live with your partner first and test the waters and go from there, there is no rush! I do think getting married later in life is the best way to go. We all need to experience life and we change so much as human beings, it takes a while to really know what we want.
2007-10-18 02:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by sonsby1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times, I've been with my wife since we were in high school.
but than I think hey how lucky I am I to have met my soul mate so early, some people never met there soul mate.
sure I missed out on sleeping with different girls and party hard with the boyz.
but I have a beautiful wife, great life and a gerogous little girl,
those years weren't wasted I've done and seen things I would not of done if I was single.
basically I think if I could go back I wouldn't of minded playing the field a bit more but not at the cost of losing what I've got. I'm very lucky.
2007-10-18 02:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married at 21 and my husband was 19 at the time. Thinking back, we both thought it may have been too soon but luckily we're both open and talked about how we think we missed out and we promised each other never to hesitate if one wants to experience something they feel they missed. I think that is why my marriage has been strong for 2+ years. Not only that, but we are not having children until after our late late 20's. That gives us time for have our 20's to both ourselves and each other.
2007-10-18 05:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chaseee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married at 35. It was a long transition from bachelorhood to married.
2007-10-17 23:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I do not think I missed anything and I was a teen bride!
2007-10-18 01:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesss....I married at 18....never had a girls night out...or any night out for that matter
2007-10-17 23:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋