2007-10-17 17:33:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You married one person not the whole family.
2007-10-17 17:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were not very clear, is it yours or your partners family. Either way, family want to see both members of the relationship happy, but if you have problems and you talk to them about it, they will see this as an automatic right to step into your relationship. As problems are a natural part of any relationship, even good ones, it is best to talk to someone neutral rather than family because it oftens taints your family's view of your partner.
2007-10-18 01:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling them that your marriage is non of their business and that if you want them to know anything, you will tell them.
2007-10-17 17:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them..."Butt Out" in no uncertain terms. They need to take a crash course in boundries. Good fences make good neighbors.
2007-10-17 17:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by haditforgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, they'll always be there...but you can limit their visits and contact with you guys by being away when they stop by or busy when they call.
2007-10-17 17:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling them your business.
2007-10-17 17:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by star77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them that it is none of their business. Do not tell them things and do not listen to them.
2007-10-17 17:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not letting them in if they don't know anything they can't get involved
2007-10-17 17:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by wkemrer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who family are you talking about, hers or yours?
2007-10-17 17:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋