Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2007

2007-10-13 23:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by tony s 5

I'm 18 and he's 27. I was a virgin when I married but he wasn't. I don't mind having sex everyday but sometime he wants it twice a day when I just want to cuddle. Whenever I talk to him about him he just begins to strip me and I give in.

2007-10-13 23:43:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband 4 years after the loss of his oldest son.

It is now 1 1/2 years into the marriage, and 3 1/2 years into the relationship in total, and out of the 3 1/2 years he spent his time like this:

Year 1 when I met him he started writing a book about his son, all memories, collected from himself and everyone he knew.
He then put them on a website for people to read.
Year 2 the website wasn't good enough so he made a blog to reach people and then THAT became his new nightly obsession.
Year 3 we got married, I figured that he would stop this as soon as he was "finished" writing his book. Instead he has posted the entire book online almost, and continues now with writing articles in mourning magazines, and it just doesn't end.

It's 7 years now and the rest of his family holds his son in their hearts and they moved on. How long should I keep waiting for him to get on with it? I don't want to seem cold, but I have needs too. Ignoring me has ruined our marriage.

2007-10-13 23:39:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

have any married people tried this?
was it exciting, thrilling and did you end up meeting?

2007-10-13 23:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 23:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by devileyz 1

I am well qualified and well placed professional with business degree. Since long, I have interest in housework and quite expert in it.

Now I wish to quit the job and be a househusband to an ambitious, career oriented professional girl while assuming the role of housemaker. This way I will be able to fulfill my desire but also I will be a good support to my wife. She can be free from any household works and raising kids because that will be taken care by me and she can concentrate on her career. I can also add value as a advisor for her professional problems.

Will the girls accept me as a househusband?
Interested girls may also contact me though emails. I am ready to relocate any where in this world. I am 32 years old.
7 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-10-13 23:22:06 · 6 answers · asked by shiava02 4

For those of you who have been married for a while, what were the hardest years of your marriage. And how did you get past that?

2007-10-13 23:19:59 · 15 answers · asked by sleeping.b3auty 1

Everytime my husband and I have an argument it is always followed by days of silence. He will not talk to me, say hello, goodbye or anything. If I try to talk to him he might give real brief answers but it is very tense until he decides he does want to talk to me again. I hate how this makes me feel. I've talked to him about it during peaceful times and he acknowledges that he does it but it never changes. What should I do?

2007-10-13 22:28:11 · 29 answers · asked by aj nosmit 2

Should i send ex this bday gift?
it has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code he always wanted to read (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. of course, i'm not gonna lie, i would at least hope he will say thank you, but even if he doesn't, i would feel i have done my part and, just as a nice way for me to end this chapter in my life and move on.

I took the break up badly and I did ask him back before but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. i haven't called him in a couple of weeks and don't plan to.

If you had to put your money on the possibility of him calling back or even think about getting back, would it more likely to happen if i didn't send him gift or card on his bday OR if i do send him gift on his bday? Please answer this

2007-10-13 22:14:45 · 13 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1

If a paternity proves someone is the father of a child, can the mother request the court to not order child support if she does not want it?

2007-10-13 22:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by needhelp16 1

my freind is procesing divorce case,he is having one kid also,divorce cases reason is his wife is having affair with his freind,my freind is sensible charactor he explained her a lot but she is not agree with this, she wants to marry with that charactor,he is getting proper divorce yet, myself is widow,my age is 28,my releationship has started after after 2 years from husbands death, i have 2 yonger sisters & yonger brother & mother we all working ,but my both yonger sis.has not married I have taken their responbilities, whatever i am doing is correct or wrong should marry with this my freind or should wait for his divorce or any other option

2007-10-13 22:07:02 · 11 answers · asked by Pratibha R 1

well everytime my wife gets mad at me and her mother comes over she trys to get her mother against me by telling her the problems that we are having and not telling her the whole truth or tell me one thing and then when she comes over telling her something else i like her mother she's a very sweet lady but then theres times she's telling me of because she hadn't heard the true story what do i do when this happens

2007-10-13 21:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for 11 years and we have 2 children. Ironically enough, she's not the type of woman that I desire to be with. Well she's the type I would like to settle down with, but over the years I've not exactly behaved like I want to settle down.

I want to either s*** or get off the pott, but if I settle down with her I'll always feel guilty for not doing the right thing sooner and wonder "what if?"

If I do move on and find love with someone else, I'll wonder why I didn't treat my current GF the way that I will treat the next??

It's my deciscion, I know, I was curious about what someone else might say????

2007-10-13 21:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 21:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many good marrages have ended over seeking extermatial affairs now days where either spouce has sought a affair outside there own marrage where has morals went to now days was it worth it after eith thought about it when it was to late to fix .

2007-10-13 20:59:43 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3

is it really possible that he'll be spending his life with me?..they have a daughter and he loves her so much...my boyfriend and his wife has been separated for almost a year now..his wife is trying to fix things up for them...he told me he loves me now..we've been on for 6months..will he choose me over her?

2007-10-13 20:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by cleopatrix 1

I was told just over a month ago that my partner of nearly 10 years,of who i have 3 children to,had been cheating on me.I was told this by someone who my partner had to sack,(as he was causing trouble at work) This man is a horrible person and a born liar and has threatened us so much after losing his job that we had to involve the police as we were literally in fear of our life!.Which..I know..Theres no way i should believe him about the cheating,and i dont.My partner swore none of it were true,he had put his self in the position of doubt for 1 reason or another but that this man was just trying to cause trouble.However,after having this hanging over me for a month now..did he/didnt he?..i just cant cope.I love my partner dearly and could never face leaving him but im so tired of what this man keeps saying & doing,im making myself ill,i dont trust a word my partner says,i always presume he's lying to me,i cant sleep,im hardly eating a thing,i cant get medication to help as im...

2007-10-13 20:49:54 · 13 answers · asked by mel 2

Should i send ex this bday gift?
it has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code he always wanted to read (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. of course, i'm not gonna lie, i would at least hope he will say thank you, but even if he doesn't, i would feel i have done my part and, just as a nice way for me to end this chapter in my life and move on.

I took the break up badly and I did ask him back before but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. i haven't called him in a couple of weeks and don't plan to.

If you had to put your money on the possibility of him calling back or even think about getting back in the long run, would it more likely to happen if i didn't send him gift or card on his bday OR if i do send him gift on his bday?

2007-10-13 20:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1

My friends are always looking to get married. Thinking about marriage ruins the fun of dating. All the guys I date want to eventually settle down. I just want to have a good time but I don't ever want to get married. Don't you think marriage just ruins everything?

2007-10-13 20:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lina 1

2007-10-13 20:37:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know he handles him self but we have sex maybe once a month or even that, it has made me feel insecure and lately its like i do not know how to aproach him for sex i do not feel sexy because i know he always checking out porn or anything with young girls {not under age}i am frustrated and lonely HELP ME I NEED SEX!!!!!!

2007-10-13 20:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by maree2007hamill 2

We have seperated for about 2 months now. We have 2 kids together. I think it might be better if I wrote him a letter to let him know how I feel, or should I just tell him face to face? The only conversation that I can get out of him is about the kids.

2007-10-13 20:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by bambi10 4

2007-10-13 20:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am hes first g/f ever and he not really in to sex how can i make him more in to it
i am not fat or ugly

i wont leave him because of it but i love sex
i wont cheat

need help

2007-10-13 20:16:54 · 20 answers · asked by SARAH 2

why and husband are two sides of coin they cant face each but they stay together. IF THEY CAN FACE EACH OTHER WHY THEY STAY TOGETHER?

2007-10-13 19:54:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if you aren't seriously behind, but you just wish that you could have them paid without even thinking about it?

2007-10-13 19:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i try 2 let my boyfriend no that im feeling insecure because of him acting sneaky, he gets angry and blows it all out of poportion resulting in yelling & screaming without being resolved, then acts like nothings wrong. then the nest day same thing over again...WHY?! i wont b able 2 move on till my feelings r addressed. Somebody please help!!!

2007-10-13 19:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Melisa A 1

My friend told me this. She found a condom in her her husband's bag when he came back from a business trip. He said it was his friend who bought the whole pack and ask him to keep in his bag.and the 1 condom she found was proberly becuz when the friend took all the packs,he accidentally left one there.

The hubby has always been good to the family and he 's committed to the kids n her.Their love has always been strong and he always does stuffs to show his love for the family.He kept saying he will never leave them

Becuz of these,she don't know what to do as she has no further proof.She won't beleive whatever the friend say cuz she think men always help each other to cover their tracks. I don't know what answer to give her. Any ideas ?

2007-10-13 19:46:17 · 27 answers · asked by beauty guru 3

2007-10-13 19:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a 6 year relationship with my guy,for the past 4 years I' m the one who has to initiate sex ,my guy is really lazy by the way but it gets really agreviating that if I want sex I have to keep looking for it. I would like to feel wanted for once .I haven't gained weight or have let go of my self in any way, but its fustraaating !I have tried to not initiate sex see if he does it but weeks passed by and no response. I think he has stopped wanting me. I have suggested to try different things but hes always in blah mood! I am 11 years younger than him and I dont know if that has anything to do with it .He really has some bad excuses for me when were alone , he tells me stuff like my head hurts, I have stress, or he always wants the little one to sleep in our bed.I am not pestering him.I give him his space but,Idont know anymore it is really fustraiting.I think he's cheating .

2007-10-13 19:38:35 · 15 answers · asked by carinna h 2