Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2007

Well, its like what it says above, except that he's actually a couple of interviews away from being one. I just want to know what that life is like. He says that the companies told him that they are very considerate about letting employees stay fixed when they have families, but others I've spoken to say this just isn't what happens. Also, they said that what would happen would be him going out to the oil rigs for 1 or 2 weeks, and coming back for 1 or 2 etc. What's this like, both before and after kids?

2007-10-13 10:33:33 · 17 answers · asked by Qing Jao 4

who have no life of there own mine mother in law calls my husband 400times a day and is always in our business oh by the way she has no husband and my husband always try's he's best for her even if it mean's him and i get into a arguement then that is what it is

2007-10-13 10:33:13 · 12 answers · asked by monalisa 1

They're married.

2007-10-13 10:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are planning to divorce in two years, I'm 14 at the moment and am considering whether it would be a good idea to leave home then. I have a reasonable amount of money in my bank, which would get me set up in a flat, and I have an apprenticeship at the moment which will become a fully paid job at 16, so I could finance myself, although I wouldn't have many luxuries. Are there any legal reasons for me not to move out?

2007-10-13 10:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me right a couple of months before we got married and I thought that I forgave him and he always says that I told him I forgave him so why do I still bring it up. Now 2 years later our relationship is falling apart, I have gained some weight after having our first child together and he is so mean to me all the time. He ignores me, we never talk about the reason we argue, we never end the fights I just end up walking away. I dont know how I am supposed to really forgive him when he treats me so badly. Also he is so happy around other women even his cousin (which makes me wonder sometimes) that is a whole different story but he will ignore me in front of them and he is never happy around me anymore. Can anyone help?

2007-10-13 10:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by Victoria A 2

sometimes he acts like a spoilt brat, i mean he is older than me (12 years older) but if he is doing a chore and the kids get in the way he moans. he moans about every mortal thing it really p***** me of sometimes i wonder what i have actually married my eldest son acts more mature than he does. if i say something to him about his moaning he tells me to shut up and if i dont he goes very mardy and it causes a huge row.
has anyone else got a husband like this and how do you cope.

2007-10-13 10:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I new this women for 13 years now. When I meet her we both were in a realtionship so we never got together...We both liked each other more then friends. I got married, divorsed and now am single. Years later she gets married, (year and a half now )contacts me to hang out with her and her friends at a club.I go with my a friend of mine. We meet up and dance all night long. Great time we had. more plans of getting together have been made. She tells me that she still has feelings for me even though she is married. I to have feelings for her but I dont want to be "that guy" who breaks up a marriage. on the other hand I want her for myself...I am banging my head over here. Any Ideas or comments would be great.
Let me add that we didnt do a thing. Kiss, sex, nothing but dancing

2007-10-13 10:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by adam J 1

my husbands a cheater caught (twice). And I think I hate him but our children adore him. Should I suck it up and be miserable for them? And I've kicked him out of the house so were obviously seperated. Would I be cheating if I decided to go on with my life? Since he wont pay for the divorce. I am a college student JR. and a security guard his income is triple what I make, really i just want out

2007-10-13 10:09:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 09:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by iamz14u_76711 1

do you sleep cuddled up with your spouse or on seperate sides of the bed? can you sleep if your spouse is touching you?

2007-10-13 09:10:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

am so fu-king piss, my bf and future child father just called me by his ex wife first and last name.(they been 2gether for 10 and divorced for 5yrs now).I was askin a question about her, then we stopped and were talking about me , and how its going to be for my delivery,then halfway in the conversation he fell asleep, so i asked him a question about something and he just out call me his ex 1st and last name, so i didnot believe it, so askesd what then he called me her 1st name only this time then paused.So when i got up and start crying and cursing him, he said he was only joking. I am not talking to him right now and i plan to go and spend sometime at my mom place. any advice on what to do?

2007-10-13 09:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by ms attitude 2

My boyfriends ex wife of about 7 years has recently started coming over to his house and bringing the 9 year old daughter that he signed rights away to 7 years ago. She never wanted him to see the child until now for some reason. He tells me that she just comes over to let him see his daughter because this is what the child wants, but I feel there is more to the story. She is also having problems with her husband. She even stayed at my boyfriends house. He swears that nothing is going on. He tells me he loves me and that he wants to be with me. What do you think this woman is up to?? SHe is not going to get anything from my bf beccause he has no job, no money and no transportation. And up until a week ago I was paying his bills but I am not going to let him use me anymore. I need help figuring this situation out. She divorced him so why is she coming back now???

2007-10-13 09:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by Sunny 2

For a good few years now, my sexual desire and passion for my husband has pretty much diminished. It wasn't always like this... We both wondered if it was something hormonal, etc. and always believed that something was wrong with me since he has the desire and need to go multiple times a day. Even though I'm not interested in having sex with him per se, I do masturbate and have been turned on by other men.

What do you think the problem is? Can I ever have the passionate, must-have-sex-now feeling back for him that I crave? I know that I'm not dead down there! oh, and yes, he is willing to do whatever I want him to in bed... I'm just not interested - with him. WHAT HAPPENED??!

2007-10-13 09:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by girl 123 2

Im not sure that in the bible there is any reference to marriage ceremony but I kno that there are married people in the bible. So are you married by having a ceremony or by sleeping with some one(intercourse)?

2007-10-13 08:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Hat kid 1

do you think i should still take my wife to a meal for our 14th wedding anniversary even though shes aving an internet affair?

2007-10-13 08:40:18 · 14 answers · asked by i love anne 5

My fiance and I are planning to get married, but we have a little disagreement. I want the legal paperwork and a marriage certificate and he doesn't. He says he will go through a wedding and ceremony, wear a wedding ring and call me his wife, however he doesn't want to deal with the legal side of it. He says he will never go through that again (he was married once before - this will be my first).

How important is the marriage certificate? What are the pros and cons of getting one or not getting one? Any personal experiences or opinions would be appreciated! Thanks!

2007-10-13 08:38:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you divorce because you did not love him or her? Did you divorce because different religious views? Did you divorce because you did not enjoy your partner's company anymore?

You can share a story. I do not mind details. I got the time to listen.

Please do not answer if you are happily married because then this question does not apply to you. I am doing a research paper in psychology on love. So answers of "happily married for 7 years" is something I cannot use.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-13 08:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres the deal... Ive been with my man for 4 years now... We werent commited for the first year and then I gave him an ultimatem... title or nothing at all... I got tired of being in limbo... Anyways 6 months after we made it official I found a horrible msg from his ex on his voicemail talking about having had sex w/him earlier that week... Well I called the *****- who knew about us!!! (GgRrRr) and talked to her four about 4 hours and found out everything... turns out he was still seeing her the first 6 months we were together, then stopped for a year and did it again, when I found out. I told him I wouldnt be able to forgive him and that I didnt think I'd ever forget it but we really felt a strong connection and decided to try and work things out... I still have my doubts almost three years later... My question to you mature men out there is do you think he learned from this? and if so, have any men ever been thru what I just explained and stayed faithful? HELP!

2007-10-13 08:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by KyewReeUz 2

He is the last born in his family and I'm the first. He postponed decisions and I deal with them quickly. Because of the way we handle things differently, we were left with a sizable mortgage, no kids, and a hurtful relationship.

we have (too) many ups and downs in our 11-year marriage. Two months ago, I moved to my bedroom because of some argument. He was trying to start the conversation last week (we haven't talked to each other since) by asking about my preferences for dinner and nothing else. This week he asked if I wanted to move back to his room because the heater there is working better. He did nothing when he saw me crying in my room.
I cannot recall any happy anniversaries we had over the years. I need a man who is the head of the family, and not a man behind my back. I'm tired.
He always said he is a good man, doing the housework and the DIYs. But, does a good man make a good husband??

2007-10-13 07:39:48 · 53 answers · asked by melanie_lanc 2

how long does it take for a lawyer to get divorce papers drawn up? and if the papers are promised and you go to sign them and they arnt ready, and your promised they will be ready in a few days and they arnt should you get another lawyer? Is 3 weeks a long wait just to see the simple no frills divorce paper work from my layer

2007-10-13 07:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by e 3

I live in texas and I'm 4 months pregnat with mine and my husbands 2nd child and my husband left us a couple weeks ago and has not been sending us any support of any kind. My son and I have no money and my husband is under the impression that since we're still "married" that he doesn't have to send us anything. I want to get divorced and set up child support but since we live in texas we can't get divorced until after this baby is born. I was wondering if I could file abandonment and claim child support and spousal support without being divorced?

2007-10-13 07:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by Megan 2

I can't stand it when you want to talk to your boyfriend/husband and they just tell you to quit being a girl! It drives me insane to the point that I don't want to talk to him when it is important.

What to do?

2007-10-13 07:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by bluecamocorvette 2

my fiancé and I agreed that one night a month, we should each have a "night out" to go to a movie, shoot pool, or do as we wish. I think it's a good idea, as no couple needs to be together 100% of the time. Anyway, I made plans to go out, and he agreed that he would be home @ a certain time to be with the kids while I went out for a couple of hours. He didn't get home until midnight, and by then it was too late for me to go anywhere. I think he did it on purpose to keep me from going out. What do you think and how would you deal with this situation?

2007-10-13 07:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

Can a marriage survive with out passionate sex? Is passionate sex life long? Is it over-rated as time goes by? Help a scared young (less than two years still) married guy out.

2007-10-13 07:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl i like that just got a divorce, the divorce is not final yet but will be shortly. She has 3 kids, one with her ex husband and two with another guy. She is 6 years older. While she was still married we made out on a couple of occasions. We also work together. I asked her out earlier in the week and she said yes, but i kept asking if we were still going out and she said yes. Well yesterday i asked and she said that i was being too pushy and was starting to aggrivate her.

I got advice from a friend to act like she cant have me whenever she wants and she will want me more. Do you think that is a good idea, and if so how can i do that since we work together?

If you have anymore ideas please share them i need all the help i can get.

2007-10-13 07:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Juan D 1

2007-10-13 07:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by breanna w 2

My kids are old enough to figure out what the squeaking bed means and I find that disturbing and mood dampening.

2007-10-13 07:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by Karrose 5

I met the most amazing woman almost a year after my divorce. My now ex wife had a relationship with a coworker after being together almost 16 years.. I'll be 34 in Nov. and for some reason I think I'm still working through pain from my divorce and afraid to commet as I was hurt very deeply. I know this woman would never hurt me like my ex but I seem to be the one doing the hurting..loving her then pulling away..what's wrong with me???please help

2007-10-13 07:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 06:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you love someone, like it was your last breath?

2007-10-13 06:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5