am so fu-king piss, my bf and future child father just called me by his ex wife first and last name.(they been 2gether for 10 and divorced for 5yrs now).I was askin a question about her, then we stopped and were talking about me , and how its going to be for my delivery,then halfway in the conversation he fell asleep, so i asked him a question about something and he just out call me his ex 1st and last name, so i didnot believe it, so askesd what then he called me her 1st name only this time then paused.So when i got up and start crying and cursing him, he said he was only joking. I am not talking to him right now and i plan to go and spend sometime at my mom place. any advice on what to do?
2007-10-13 09:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess it's hard for me to understand the context in which he said it but you're probably more upset than you really need to be. When you're pregnant sometimes hormones take over and you're just extra sensitive about everything. I would try to let it go. It's not to anyone's benefit to be upset.
2007-10-13 09:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know your hormones are all over the place right now, and that you are very sensitive.
So, you did what you felt you had to do. Nobody can blame you for that.
Still, as you were saying, 10 years is a long time. besides, they may even have known each for a few years before getting married.
So, this lasp is only normal, come on.
Especially since you've just been talking about her.
Don't be too harsh on him. You are going to have the most beautiful thing together, it's not time to start creating unnecessary problems. You'll have plenty to deal with in no time with your new one! Right now, you need some TLC, from mum and dad and hubby too.
All the best.xxx
2007-10-13 16:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you're mad. Who wants the man they love to call them by another woman's name? If you were having a conversation about her before he fell asleep then it was probably still on his mind and that's why he called you by her name then. The second time could've been the same reason. If he thought it was an appropoiate joke though, he was wrong. I'd ask him if he still has feeling for the ex. I'd tell him how upset he's made you, calmly. Men just don't listen when we get hysterical. In the future I'd leave the ex out of your conversations. She's his past, you're his future.
2007-10-13 17:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by engle129 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just a little emotional. You probably brought up something he hadn't thought of in awhile and it was on his brain. He was with her over 10 years. He fell asleep and the conversation you were having was still fresh in his head. Let it go you crazy pregnant woman. By the way my second kid is due in a couple days. Congrats to you and your man.
2007-10-13 16:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound insensitive, but grow the hell up.
2007-10-13 16:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you quit acting like her, he wouldn't get the two of you confused.
2007-10-13 16:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
2007-10-13 19:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are pregnant, you must not fight with anyone. it directly affects your baby's health. cut the drama. you need someone to wash your filthy mouth out. and, if you are so concerned, why are you having a baby out of wedlock?
calm down, you are hurting your baby. not nice.
2007-10-13 16:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by jaded 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah dont talk to a man while he is asleep!!
2007-10-13 16:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Aspen & Kendra S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was probably a slip...Get over it, DAMN.
2007-10-13 16:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋