Marriage & Divorce - 9 October 2007

i feel a little bored and my life is getting worse and worse

2007-10-09 23:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by suha o 1

hi there this is koiel, i m married having a son of 2 years. My husbands loves me a lot and i also care him, we had a love marriage. but now after 3 years i started feeling i have infatuation with another guy, he doesnt love me at all,, y he luves me, i m married, a mother....i dont know where should i go,,,what should i do??

2007-10-09 22:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 35 year old physician. I have been sleeping with a 20 year old student nurse---who came on to me--not vice versa. now she tells me she is 6 to 7 weeks pregnant. I told her to get an abortion, but she wont. What type of child support would I have to pay? I live in Michigan. Someone told me they get 400 a month, but does it go on my salary? how can I convince this little tramp to just get an abortion and leave me alone? I am posting in several categories so I can get more answers--this is a ver real situation people-----Thanks

2007-10-09 22:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you felt your marriage was coming to an end would you try to save it somehow? By counseling or trying to work things out? My ex wife cheated on me. And I was more then willing to forgive her. But she decided the marriage was over. Without trying to even work our problems out. If anything I was trying to keep it together for her 2 kids that been through 2 divorces before me.

2007-10-09 21:59:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would like any ideas for something I can do for my wife. I'm in the doghouse so any of the normal marital physical fun and games are out of the question. Any ideas?

2007-10-09 21:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I require marriage certificate from mumbai how do i get it ?
my info-
marriage date & venue- 18-sep-2007 @ one of the famous temple near to dadar
Residence - Nasik (Maharashtra)
current location -Mumbai(both)
We both have age proof but dont have residential proof in mumbai .
can i get MC on the basis of my flat agreement as a residential proof? or any other ways to get it ?

2007-10-09 21:15:01 · 3 answers · asked by vgolesar 1

when I went to picture info that the pictures were taken 20 minutes apart. Should that make me more mad? Because it did! That means he spent some time talking to her--not just a quick picture. Makes me wonder if he spent the whole day or night with her. Yes, he was out of town in Sturgis for the biker rally--it was "work" related. Guess I'll never know, but is that a silly thing to make me even more mad that the pictures were taken that far apart?

2007-10-09 20:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

2007-10-09 20:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

girl is againest drugs...believes them to be toxins in body and bad for you.....guy won't give up pot..girl can't live with this...should they get divorced???

2007-10-09 20:01:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend met a guy on Friday, did some talking and got married on the following Monday. Do you think is it because she did it to be finally married since her friends are or is it possible to fall in love over the weekend or is it only a way to make it permanent in the US?? She's European, he's American.

2007-10-09 20:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by March 6

I mean, if they both have children, are over 35, don't want more kids...

My kids need a stepfather, and I'd like a good companion.

2007-10-09 19:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 19:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by krish 1

is it okay to only get pleasure from one position?women on top is the only thing that seems to work with me and ive pretty much tried everything. it makes my fiancee irritated a bit because he doesnt get to switch positions often because of it....

2007-10-09 19:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really embarrassing but I'm not entirely sure how to be on top during sex without feeling awkward. I've done it before but I never really cared for it because I couldn't get a feel for it and now my fiance wants to have sex with me on top.

Help?

2007-10-09 18:56:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

and have children he will require paternity test??? Am I the only one who thinks that this person is overly controlling and possibly going to be dangerous in the future???

2007-10-09 18:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im married at 23 unhappy a mother and i want to go out and meet new people. the problem is the finances with wanting to leave my hubby i dont have right now. sometimes i dress up just to go the mall or walmart hoping sumbody will show some interest in me. my hubby obviously doesnt, so i want someone else. do you think someone is out there looking for me? i am so depressed right now its not funny.. i need help... what do you think?

2007-10-09 18:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wish it could change but can they ever??
I mean not just that but this perosn is in their 30s, with they ever change???

ever??

2007-10-09 18:40:12 · 17 answers · asked by KittyMeowGrrrr 5

okay well my husband has a custody order stating visitation rights every other weekend and for 10 months never got to see them he took the mother to court several times to fight this the judge says sit down and try to come to an agreement and she admitted to violating court ordered agreement and has yet to see kids...best advice? she would rather he not se the kids but something needs to be done

2007-10-09 18:32:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubby and i have problems really bad ones too. well since he doesnt like me starting conversations with him i seem to leave and look for others to talk to. i have blurted out many times that i wanted a divorce. theres so many things that he has done to me since we've gotten married. he takes me for granted and thinks i wouldnt do that to him,but he always does it to me. lately, i have been conversating with my old boss from work. i dont know if its just infactuation or what? but i always feel better when i talk to other men.i was just wondering over time wouldnt he notice me and realize what he has done? he always does bad things and then tries to turn it around on me. will he ever see what he once truly had? i've tried marital counsuling and that didnt work. he claims we dont have problems. he gets mad when i talk to others about our issues then he gets mad??? why? i dont know. what i am doing is it wrong? is he ever gonna see what its like to alone and lonely?

2007-10-09 18:31:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby has been very inconsiderate and mean. sometimes I think he is just plain immature. He wants me to ask my dying father to repay a loan and I refuse to ask. I thinkits a horrible way to treat my father on his deathbed. I baby my hubby and do everything for him except wipe his butt and I feel disrespected by his selfish behavior, we dont need the money. I dont want my last memories of my dad to be about greedily asking for money, that I never really expected to get back. Im soo mad, but I dont want to fight with him..but I want him to know im serious about this. what do I do? Should I sleep onthe couch til he says sorry or should I move to the camper for awhile...or stay with a cousin til he comes to his sences?

2007-10-09 18:15:10 · 22 answers · asked by kissy_karissa 2

I know it is wrong and although I am not legally married, I am in a relationship with someone but, I cheat on him all the time. I have tried to stop but, its like second nature to me. Can I get help for this that does not involve counseling because I have already tried that and it has not worked.

2007-10-09 18:09:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is alone, literally. I'm the only person in the world he has. His mother...well, haven't got even a call in almost a year. He tried to speak with his brother on messenger, and he didn't answered... he is just so sad sometimes... I want to cheer him up. I'm always hugging him, calling him etc, but i know that form the inside he still sad. I want to cheer him up, but how?

2007-10-09 18:05:36 · 22 answers · asked by Pinky 5

I've been with him for four years now and nothing.When i ask him if he'll ever marry me he gets frustrated and says he dosen't believe in it.Or he says maybe he dosen't know.If i ask him if he'll leave me for another he says he can't say.Hes the kind of guy that can't promise anything cause he just dosen't know so he says. PLEASE HELP WHAT DOES IT SOUND LIKE TO YOU????

2007-10-09 18:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help figuring out what it is my wife is looking for. Ive recently discovered that she isnt happy with our sex but she wont tell me what it is she really wants. I need help in figuring out what it is she needs, I know she "likes it rough" but not to crazy. Ive always felt kinda awkward doing that kinda thing but Ive been trying hard to please her... no joy. Help?!?!!

2007-10-09 17:59:20 · 10 answers · asked by prydespride 2

I cant seem to go a week with out fighting with my wife.
My wife sleeps works and spends time with our kids and thats about it throw in some chores and call it a day.Why cant she still do some stuff with me make an effort to spice up our life.

2007-10-09 17:43:25 · 22 answers · asked by Timothy M 1

2007-10-09 17:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by kenya 1

2007-10-09 17:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by ronald s 2

Say it was just a 1 night stand, not a long term affair. Would you leave or not?

2007-10-09 17:31:06 · 18 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

We are both 23 yr olds........I am studing abroad in Computer Science while she is a dentist back home. We both will be completing our studies this year. Ill be looking for a job abroad and hopefully I should be doing well by next year.
In her case however her parents are in a hurry to find someone for her and get her married. They already know about us but they are not ready to give me time till my parents send them a proposal. She wants to get committed too as she is under pressure from her parents all the time. Sometimes we end up fighting about it and I dont know how to console her.
My parents are very conservative and they want us to wait till I am stable, to approach her parents. Also there are other issues involving family differences. But I think things will workout once we are married
So when should we get committed? When would be the right time for us to get married............good enough for me to be stable, support her and also support further education for her

2007-10-09 17:25:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father just had a massive heart attack this past week and the Dr. says he will not live much longer with the damage to his heart. He has had several heart attacks and has had open heart surgery and there is no more they can do for him...the Dr. says he will die soon. I love my father and want to enjoy what time he has left...But,I lent my father $400 earlier in this year for a Dr. Appt., I never expected the money back..I told my husband that and I told my dad that. Dad keeps telling my hubby he owes him soo muchand will repay him and that he loves and appriciates us. However, my husband asked me to ask my father for the money back tomorrow..I told him I refuse to ask. My hubby wants the money back now because my father recieved some money recently and lent $2,600 of the money to my oldest sister. I dont think the $400 is worth starting a fight about, expecially now. I cant get him to stop pressuring me to ask for the money back. What do I do?

2007-10-09 17:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by kissy_karissa 2