Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2007

In my mind, it is obviously the woman’s fault that she goes astray, no one else’s. I know someone who is having an affair.

Should I or should I not tell the husband? So sad that this kind of decadence is creeping into many families. I wish women will see the need for strengthening family ties not just by providing material needs but also by providing role models who are morally upright and God-fearing individuals.

2007-10-07 23:47:12 · 23 answers · asked by hottstuff 3

My husband blurted out to me last night that he wants another child. I have always said that i didnt want another one. We have a daughter who is 7 and his son stays with us on weekends he is 10. Aparently he has been thinking about it for the last year or so but never had the courage to tell me till now, because he knows how i feel about it. I dont know whether i could have another one or whether im getting too old? Im 31 and me hubby is 29. I just dont know what to do hes got me thinking now and now im stuck?????

2007-10-07 23:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my ex boyfriend about a month ago. I've just started seeing someone new, and I really like this new guy. He's really sweet, and he does things that my ex never did. He doesn't seem to mind the fact that I am one of those people who need constant attention. I can talk to him all day while he's at work on email, then turn around and talk to him for hours on the phone when he's at home and not get bored. But lately, I've started missing my ex, and I find myself wondering if I made a mistake. Sometimes I still wish we were together. I feel bad because I know this new guy really likes me and wants to be with me. I need some advice, and please don't be rude to me, I already feel like crap over the whole situation.

2007-10-07 21:30:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We (I) still have a mortgage around $95000 to pay off and there is more money going out than coming despite my best efforts to curtail spending. I allow myself $10 per week after doing a 45 hour week. Quite frankly I am ready to sell up and walk away.

2007-10-07 21:24:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says that there is no obsticale but illness of him make him stop to marry me cz he will die in sometime..he says me to marry someonle else n he ll b happy to c me happy n if he remain alive he will cm smday n kiss my kids...do he loves me???

2007-10-07 21:12:08 · 9 answers · asked by gudgirl 1

2007-10-07 21:07:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime the girl got something sexy looking, the woman, in her 50's would yell out,"Girl you wear this, and you're husband will never leave you. The older guest thought it was funny, but some of the younger, less experienced girls was embarassed by her outbursts. The older woman, who happens to be bisexual, just couldn't seem to restrain herself. By the way, she lost her own husband in death. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-07 20:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by Robert L 1

she begged us to moved in with her bec. she was hospitalized but now it's been 4 years and she changes alot from nice to very mean in law...i agreed to move with her for i thought we will be moving out once she gets better!!!!don't know what to think...and do???he is being manipulated by "momma!"

2007-10-07 20:53:28 · 17 answers · asked by honeybabe 1

still......... i am not able to manage my self......................

my lover soons to be marry with another girl.

i want to cry for my whole life..........................................

2007-10-07 20:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by raameen 1

2007-10-07 20:36:58 · 16 answers · asked by dumaguetejoe 3

I recently found a picture of my newlywed wife and her ex-boyfriend laying together in an embrace and kissing. What should i do? Should I expect her to get rid of it, or should i bring it up at all?

2007-10-07 20:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Casey M 1

2007-10-07 20:18:09 · 1 answers · asked by kenny 6

she wants my husband to marry the same race as hers... in short no other ethnicity....

2007-10-07 20:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by honeybabe 1

i dont mean for a legal separation but a separation which might be the equivalent of a divorce but without having to appear in front of a court for this.

2007-10-07 20:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by Ada 1

I have been married for 9 years and been with my husband for 12 years. 4 years ago, I found out that the lady that my husband made go see and became friends: we went out, wash clothes together, etc. And come to find out this woman was carrying my husband's child. He didn't tell me until the child was at least 6 weeks old. I let this woman move into my house for a week because she got evicted from her apartment AND her husband wasn't around. My husband has taken food out our house to give to this woman, brought a lot stuff to make her life easy and etc. I don't have sex with him anymore and I do not have the same feelings for him anymore either. I have feelings for another man and I hated him at first but he is growing on me now. I am confuse and I don't know what to do or how to handle my feelings for this man. Or if I should give him a chance to see if he would treat me better than my husband. He did tell me the other day that he hasn't seen his girlfriend in months. What? HELP ME!!!

2007-10-07 19:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know how many registrars of marriage (Government marriage registration centre) situated in Ahemdabad, address and telephone nos. of all these marriage registration offices of Ahemdabad.
Whether marriage certificate issued by any of these offices is valid for submission to US Consulate for obtaining spouse US visa?

2007-10-07 19:41:20 · 2 answers · asked by ad d 1

When my 30yr-old wife of 1 year is suspicious, she responds provocatively, doing things that she thinks *I* am doing--short of having an affair. Later, as little clues appear, I snoop a bit and find blatant dishonesties (usually online profile flirtations, which she claims are purely innocent friendships) and feel crushed at being subjected to a double standard. Trying to start couples counseling, sharing enlightening books, etc--still in process.

She says that having access to my PC will give her peace of mind, as she fears not being able to see what's going on in my online life. I resist for 2 reasons:

1) No amount of viewing my computer account will erase the fear that tech-savvy me has created secret alternate email/chat identities.
2) There are journals, archives, & emails of private soul-searching that were never meant for her to read. I fear reading these (going back as far as 15 years before our relationship) out of context would make her even more insecure and reactionary.

2007-10-07 19:40:50 · 17 answers · asked by Lord of Lemurs 1

when they dont want anything to do with them anymore?
They could just say that they want to end the relationship or take a break or. . . whatever. This would be a kinder way, instead of saying things like, if I saw you on the street, I would ignore you!! How mean is that? Are they too chicken to end it in a decent way, or are they hoping that the woman will just figure they are a jerk and move on with her life? would that not be the easiest for the guy, then he wouldn't have to break her heart?

2007-10-07 19:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Dreamer 2

My good friend is tall, slim and very good looking. She is a working mother, has kids and people have remarked that she doesn’t look married. She doesn’t even look her age. She gets admiring looks from other men, even women gives her stares.
She is a very good cook, whips us dishes for her family. She coaches her kids on their studies and is always there for them. She makes a lot of effort for her husband, ensures she looks good for him, and satisfies him sexually, being a moral support to him when he has problems. She is very protective of her husband and kids. She is kind, humble and prays everyday. She is very understanding and she doesn’t nag at her husband like many wives do. Is she too good to be true as I know many men wish they had a wife like her.
But yet, her husband was running after a married colleague who is so butt ugly that one would really puke if you had ever seen her face. Believe me, I have seen it.

Why is the wife not good enough for him? What did she lack?

2007-10-07 19:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by Rave 2

I have been married for 10 yrs and with him for 15 yrs and 4 yrs ago I found out that he was a drug addict, I have put up with years of mental abuse and even though he is at the bottom of the barrel and starting to get better I just do not feel the same about him anymore. I left him over a month ago and he just keeps asking if there is hope and I do not know how to break his heart easy. There is also more I have been seeing someone new that I really like alot and he is good to me, I can not tell my husband that because he would freak out. I have 3 boys also. If anyone has any suggestions or help for me please feel free to help, be honest to what you think I should do Please.

2007-10-07 19:10:03 · 24 answers · asked by kschall2 2

2007-10-07 19:07:52 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1

I married for what god only knows. I feel I did a mistake. I am a nice person atleast I think. My husband says he loves me, he is so cold in everything. when we talk, he does not know what else to talk, looking at that I feel sad and then I also say, 'ok then..' Sometimes he does funny things, that time I could just feel he is a friend . We fight a lot, if I say something out of anger, he will revert back as a threaten. But he says he loves me..I feel he wonders if I love. What shd I do? I need a change, its just 2 months of marriage and I am like this. What shd I do?????

2007-10-07 19:07:47 · 26 answers · asked by jenni 1

2007-10-07 19:04:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wanting sex and it bugs me why! and Why.........

2007-10-07 19:00:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you found yourself all of a sudden, married with 2 dogs, but without kids, without a job, in a new area, so without friends, what would you do all day? This is also assuming you didnt need money, so there was no need at all to get a job. Really, what would you do all day?!

2007-10-07 18:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by Barefoot 6

Guy A called woman B stupid for unknown reasons. Then he disappeared without any promises. Woman B continued praying, waiting for his Prince Charming (man C). Now that man C is here, going to marry woman B, guy A appeared out of nowhere, claiming that he loves her and he has been watching her closely. He told her that he has been working hard to earn enough money so that he can marry her. Woman B is speechless and she doesn't know whether to trust guy A. Guy A is now having a 'fight' with man C for woman B. Should woman B say something or does she just let both the men decide who wins? And one final question, will you ever hurt the one you love?

2007-10-07 18:54:16 · 15 answers · asked by superb2dmax 3

2007-10-07 18:50:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

think about the woman they left behind in a relationship that never really got off the ground, because of other commitments? Or do they just move on with no thought of the past. Especially when there was no final "goodbye", just "we'll talk again soon".

2007-10-07 18:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by Azul 2

2007-10-07 18:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6

Can you actually stop loving someone or do you just ignore the feelings you have, put the past behind you and move on with your life?

There was no abuse, no cheating, no fighting...things just didn't work out due to circumstances beyond your control.

2007-10-07 18:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by ncgirl 3