My hubby is allways...?

Question

Wanting sex and it bugs me why! and Why.........

well we have to plan it and He getts mad if its not done when Its soposed to be.

Answer 1

The thing that men don't realise is that when they want sex, they always seem to go about the wrong way and tend to make us feel like 'objects' without meaning to. Thats what puts me off sex. I want to feel both love and sex at the same time but my boyfriend makes me feel the opposite

Answer 2

Sex is a normal part of marriage. If the two of you have different sex drives then you have to work it out. Take the time to talk and each of you express your opinion and needs so that you can work out some compromise that will work for both of you. If you continue as your are disaster will strike sooner then later, either you will get upset with your husband's desires or he will get upset with your refusals. It is too bad this was not discussed before you were married or that you did not realize you had two very different sex drives. Work on this so it will not destroy your marriage

Answer 3

so you mean, your hubby has sexual feelings stronger than the average men? and thats why he's more sex-driven than the others?
if so, then you would be happy that he's expecting the response from YOU, his wife...not going to anywhere else or practicing some pervertions to satisfy his physical needs. besides, may be it's just because he loves you a lot and finds you very attractive.
please don't express it before him even if it bothers you. respond your best, but if you are not willing to, tell that politely. the sexual issues are very sensitive. so, don't be rude anyway.
i'd also suggest both of you to go to a therapist to have some counselling. may be it would be possible to settle the problem down.
best of luck.

Answer 4

To me, sex is a physical comfort and an emotional comfort. Tell him to start getting a weekly massage at a legitimate massage shop (not some sex shop) and then start talking to him about his life and see if he is hurting so you can offer some verbal comfort. You shouldn't have to keep having sex simply because he wants to. That is wrong and an abuse of your body.

Answer 5

This is a good thing indeed. That means he loves and feels you all the time. You'll feel not loved if you'll see he prefers to sleep than loving you, or he prefers to watch tv or god knows what else. So, i think you are lucky to have someone who wants you all the time.

Answer 6

is it possible he needs more intimacy in general or affection in general or more quality time and sex is the only outlet he identifies with the feelings he gets from any of those things

you could explore that and maybe you would not be bothered if you all expressed intimacy in different ways than sex

Answer 7

I dont know what is up with that. My hubby does the same thing. It got to the point that if its been a while he will start humping me in his sleep. LOL. I wish I knew!

Answer 8

I only wish I had your problems. Even though you might not think so now, things are likely to change someday, and you might be the one in his shoes. Women peak sexually much later than men, how are you going to expect him to react to you when this happens?

Answer 9

It's your hubby? What is the problem? Sex amoung married couples is right............ and by the way do you live in the dark ages?

Answer 10

Most men marry someone who they not only love, but sexually desire. He just finds you irresistible, and I know the feeling because my boyfriend of 3 years does that same ****; and I'll be tired and he will still want it! Men are just horny creatures, but be glad, he is just really really really really into you!