Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2007

My divorce was early this year, but I think I have enough evidence to convict my ex-wife of Adultery before our divorce. Can I still use it? What kind of punishment can she get? ANy lawyers out there wanna take the case, pro-bono?

2007-10-08 23:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by zelgadiss 4

I don't know how to say this but I think I done something silly , this boy loved me for me and I ask him out but at the time I was only making fun out of him and then I went out with this guy name chris and we used to wait for him outside his home in front of his door waiting for him to come out or come back from school we all was same ages and me and my BF used to french kiss each other ever day for 2 full years so he can see it and then we cost him 1 year of his school cause he wanted to get his own back of what we was doing to him , anyway it went to court and he won us. 7 years later I saw him and we both looked into each others eyes and he still look hurted but same time he still look so mad at me. after all this time why can't he just drop it ! and if I see him again what should I say cause it wasn't just me ! I looked into his eyes after 7 years and I saw him being so mad but same time he given me abit of soft look but before all of that 7 years ago I called his mother a fat cow

2007-10-08 22:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your wife sent nude photos of herself via email to her ex-bf and he sent (inappropriate) sexual material of himself to her via email is that considered cheating?

2007-10-08 21:56:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was involved with someone who i felt was abusive to me. Mentally and verbally. This guy would withhold money from me as a form of control/power over me. Im talking small money. Any little bit of money he would make me beg for. So i started making my own money, left and now hes become out of control. He is spreading rumors, sick rumors around about me. Personal things 'made up' yet involving myself and my family, telling people that i make my money through sexual means yet everyone knows what i do, 'most people', i now make a lot more than he does and am well off. He knows this and is going to incredible lengths to harrass me. Trying to get in touch and make up and bully me at the same time. Why is he doing this?

2007-10-08 21:31:17 · 14 answers · asked by v 1

My marraige certificate has X prakash (say my name) and X lakshmi (my wife name), x being my surname. Is it valid? or should marraige certificate should have her maiden name?

Now i am chaning her surname to my surname in passport.
My question is should the name on passport should be consistent with name on marraige certificate?

In the case of marriage certificate has maiden name, and in case of surname change both will differ..

so what is the right thing...i mean should the marraige certificate have her maiden name or my surname?

2007-10-08 21:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by mohan 1

what does a 35 year old single mother, want with a 22 year old?

I met a new friend of my mothers the other day, becuase she is helping me paint my moms bedroom and kitchen, before she comes home from the hospital( Lung removed-cancer) We spent most of the time chillin in the living room, just talking about life and other stuff. She happens too be going though a devorse after 12 years, so I thought she just may need a friend, but she was telling me about stuff I don't need to know about. At the end of the day, on Friday she gave me her number and said " I know your mom won't smoking/drinking I could us a compaion...or somthing close to that. She even told me that she hadn't been having sex with her husband for quite awhile? Why tell me that? It just seems like she was hitting on me. I can't figure out why she gave me her #. We have very different lives.

2007-10-08 21:06:52 · 36 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1

Been married for 3 years and found out early this year when my wife's close lady friend told me that my wife told her she was having an affair. I confronted my wife and she said it was all an imagination story. She has always denied she did anything though there were previous situations like when she went on a vacation for two weeks she never called me. In a way I gave our marriage a change but 8 months later I now find I don't even love anymore, I don't trust her and she has changed by living more her own life by going out more by herself with friends. Has anyone still tried to save your marriage or did it just fail anyway and its better to start my new life again.

2007-10-08 20:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have two kids, one in second grade, one 4 y.o. He moved out a year after he started an affair with a women who lives four blocks from me. My husband moved 3 blocks down the street.

It has been a year and I should be over this by now. It is hard because I run into them all of the time. Friends and family in the neighborhood have just taken to them like they are the couple of the century. I have tried three therapists and they all say that it is natural that I am having a hard time with this given that it is in my face all of the time. I can't move because of the terms of the custody order. Also, my daughter's school is two blocks away. If I leave this house, I can't afford anything that is less than ten miles away. That means that when I have my daughter, I will have to get her up an hour early and drive 50 minutes to get her to school.

The divorce is pending but he keeps asking for a continuance.

Anybody have a similar situation? How did you handle it? What helped?

2007-10-08 20:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me to move on..im a battered wife emotionaly abvious,i feel so down i left nothing to my self,i used to understand him everytime he make mistakes even in his betrayal i forgive him but i cant be with him anymore i feel so empty...all i want is to move on with my past relationship,but one thing that always remind him is our 1 child every time i saw her i remember him.how can i move on incase?please help me!thanks to all!

2007-10-08 20:54:30 · 13 answers · asked by Casey25 1

its one of the most expensive cost to endure, divorce. since i have been through it, its better to leave (especially when the love is lost). i would marry again; i do believe in marriage though.

all answers are welcome

2007-10-08 20:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

Background: Married 8 years, 2 daughters (6+7 years old), I moved 3932 miles to be with him, now live in a foreign country.
This morning was just not a good morning. My oldest daughter is home sick with acute tonsillitis which sparked an argument between my husband and I.
I never nag to my husband or ask him for much of anything. Every morning I make sure everyone is ready on time. I lay out my daughters' clothes for school, make sure both their school bags are packed, make everyone (including my husband) lunch for their lunchboxes, make breakfast, get everyone up and out the door, etc.
My husband has the habit of getting out of bed late, despite me telling him to get up 5 times. Then he blames me!
The only thing I ask of him is to drop our daughters off at school because it is on his way to work. He acts like he should be rewarded Father of the Year for this one act.
Well this morning, I dared to ask him to do one more favor for me. Continued...

2007-10-08 19:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are recently married and he just spent a lot of money on a new computer. Now he spends up to 5 hours at a time playing his game. He spends most of the weekend on the computer. Whenever I even try to interrupt him he becomes frustrated. I feel incredibly left out and ignored. Last night he had been playing and I told him to come to bed which he said he would he was just going to turn off the computer and I waited for him for an hour before falling asleep.

I'm out of ideas. I've asked him if I could play too. I've already tried the 'standing there naked' thing but it only works temporarily haha. I've tried ignoring it and I've tried doing other things and getting out more myself but the truth is I really just want to spend time with him. I miss him. But I know its important to him and he enjoys his time on it. I feel selfish and foolish for being jealous of a computer.

Any creative ideas or personal experience advice would be helpful and greatly appreciated. Thanks :)

2007-10-08 19:13:20 · 37 answers · asked by Kris W 3

2007-10-08 19:08:55 · 25 answers · asked by yvett_dm 1

2007-10-08 19:03:00 · 28 answers · asked by joezen777 5

i wanted to know from women, if there is anything you do specifically..eating, what you eat, or do, drink, excercize to get fit. i want to get to 150 so i am not one of those girls who need to be a size zero,i just i need a little help and guidance and suggestions may help...thanks ...any tricks or ideas would be appreciated.

2007-10-08 18:43:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage for a while now. I know he plans on asking me, I'm pretty sure he even has the ring. But there is a long standing traditionin my family that the man must ask the girl's father for her hand in marriage before proposing. My parents both love my boyfriend a lot. But I don't know how to go about telling my boyfriend about the tradition without actually telling him.

2007-10-08 18:40:49 · 24 answers · asked by torn cynic 1

My husband just hit me square in the because I said I did not want to be with him any longer. THe children saw this and was devasted they love their dad how can I ease their pain. also he was arrested and is on parole for a violence offense I think he is going to do some hard time.

2007-10-08 18:37:17 · 17 answers · asked by Regina C 3

I m married. My ex cheated on me. He cries even me too. He miss me and I too. I m married to my husband and I get irritated with him. My ex said, he made a mistake and now time has gone far. He asked me to be thr for him. And we both will live like this. What shd I do? I really love him. I am not sure why married before I recovered from the break up. what shd I do?

2007-10-08 18:30:24 · 20 answers · asked by jenni 1

About three weeks ago my girlfriend of seven years and I moved in together. On saturday night, she came out of nowhere and said that something was missing and she needed some time to think. This hit me out of the blue, she said that she still loves me but doesn't know if she loves me enough to last forever. We're not kids, were both getting close to thirty. The strangest thing about this was that she was spending alot of time bothering me about when we were going to get engaged this summer, and at one point came to me crying thinking that I would never ask her. I've been planning her engagement for over a year and was trying to keep it a suprise, but I did tell her soon. I just don't know if this is her getting scared of the future, or if there is someone else, or something that I haven't thought about. I'm trying to give her space for now, but if someone is willing to walk away of seven very eventful years that quick I'm not sure I should be with them. I need some advice.

2007-10-08 18:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by doodad 1

I have a 15mth old and cant go back to work because of some immigration problems but the bills are killing me we will lose our house if some more money don't come in the home soon

2007-10-08 18:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by islandgirl 3

I'm in love with a married man who says he wants to divorce his wife but can't afford a lawyer or to even move out. He has children and I support him wanting to be with them and give them everything. But waiting for the perfect time??? It'll never happen. I think filing for divorce or moving out are some steps he could take, but he wants to wait til he can do it all.

2007-10-08 18:27:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've posted this before, would like to get more insight. Please read..I've filed for child support and am deciding even though I told him to file since it's what he wanted to maybe take the initiative to file because he hasn't handled his business in the past...made other wives file so all he had to do was sign. We were married in California a community property state. I want to try to get the house and at least half of everything...me and the kids have a right to it. He thinks he can just do whatever, I need to let him know I am not playing games.

read this
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhwpalEnl5AQLytEgpP4k4rty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070915154159AAtaHQY

Mature and serious answers please. This is a very crucial and important decision I have to make, Dec. 9 is when I'll be able to file. I would love to have my marriage completely restored, and I will pray that if it's not God's will for this divorce to go through he will intervene.

2007-10-08 18:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep flirting with the idea that he never will. I gave him a few ultimatiums, but he always has excuses. Yet when we're together, its like he and I are the only 2 on the planet. Nothing else matters and I lose myself in him....I can tell it's just as intense for him, yet I want committment...Will I get it anytime soon???

2007-10-08 18:10:11 · 32 answers · asked by 2much_luvin' 1

CLOSE friends for 3 yrs and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT we decided to be friends and not to rush (i would be his first girlfriend and said he wanted somethinf more "real, long lasting" with me - "shy guy type") When things were getting normal, "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

Now i feel that he's changed, i don't know if it's pain he's felt when he lost his friend (or something else) and this is going to take years (or jut time in general) for him to be that normal guy i met. I know people change but it's not "growth" - he's different. He used to be this fun-loving guy and now he's so serious about things. He's not as open and vulnerable and would say certain things to put up a front and "seem" like he doesn't care (although i KNOW he does) i feel that we're starting over from the very beginning from when we first met. He was sooo unusually quiet with me and normal and outgoing with everyone else. He's closed up and seems to not care AS MUCH and has these defense mechanisms... Everything is okay with us agaiin but everytime we get close (in general) like before, he'll step back - WHY? What do i do? Do i leave him alone completely so he'll know that he can't take people for granted? Or just swallow my pride and work hard for it? Do shy guys close up when they experience tragedy?

2007-10-08 18:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be a father in about 7 months, it was unexpected and the women is so mad that I am not going to marry her, but I don't want to get married with her. I am going to be there for the baby, I just can't marry her just because she is pregnant.She thinks I am the worst person in the world for not doing it and I don't want to argue with her because she is going through a lot right now.Am I a bad person for not marrying her?

2007-10-08 18:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by Polar Bear 2

I ask cause my family is on my back about me leaving my wife. Telling me i will loose Gods blessings and that i will be on my way to hell and that i will ruin my kids lives.

So yea, can God (Jesus) bless a second marriage?

2007-10-08 17:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by Jason F 1

I need to move out because husband and I are divorcing, but I don't have a car, I don't have a job, I live in a city so walking everywhere is an issue obviously, and I have a baby, so I need a good enough paying job to take care of her and I. I don't have any friends that can help me out, and my family lives far away and disagrees with my choice to divorce hubby.

What would you do? I need a car to get a job, and I need a job to get a place.. just a little frustrated. Any suggestions?!

2007-10-08 17:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by In over my head 2

Do men mind if their wifes masterbate when they are not home? My spouse does not mind if I do it in front of him but gets mad if I do it when he is not at home. What do you think?

2007-10-08 17:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2

And why?

2007-10-08 17:28:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 17:20:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous