Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2007

I'm not married of course whats the secret?, I just want advice,thanks for answering

2007-10-08 13:13:57 · 22 answers · asked by Nando 3

2007-10-08 13:11:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for seven years, she was 21 and I was 27. We also have a 4 year old child. today she tells me she's not sure she wants to stay married any longer. Her reason is that, we don't have any passion left. She say's she loves me, but she is curious about other men, and living on her own. She did tell me she has been talking to a man for a week. What can I do?

2007-10-08 12:46:18 · 31 answers · asked by Doug S 1

2007-10-08 12:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by SAM K 1

I am 24 and my Husband is 9 years older than I am. We met online and have been married for a little over 2 years. I love sex and could do it at least once daily- he cares nothing about it and if I try to bring it up to talk to him, he turns it around on me and says that is all that I ever think about. He says that his age has alot to do with it- not being able to stay hard--etc.
I know guys his age and people that are older that didn't have that problem.
Before we got married we had sex all the time and I know things change once you do get married, but that much? I just don't know what to do.... Is this normal? how can I make him want me (I have tried MANY things!)

I am very open and am willing to do pretty much anything! any answers are appreciated! Thanks!~

2007-10-08 12:10:00 · 21 answers · asked by Nessa131 2

im in california

2007-10-08 12:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by montrosehorse 1

2007-10-08 10:54:57 · 19 answers · asked by bbq 6

She is saying that she wants to do whatever she wants and not have to answer to anyone.

2007-10-08 10:47:34 · 54 answers · asked by M W 1

2007-10-08 10:33:25 · 39 answers · asked by mdaly05 1

2007-10-08 10:15:37 · 40 answers · asked by Page 4

Yesterday when we dropped off the children at the designated meeting spot, her car wouldn't start. She was huffing and puffing and cursing under her breath and treating him really badly....I have not spoken a word to this woman in three years other than hello. Yesterday she acused my husband of having jumper cables in the car, the second time she said this if front of the kids, i said they are in the other car...the oldest 16 told me to shut up that it was none of my business and the second oldest 14 started yelling at me because of....honestly I don't know what. Today her family gave her money to take us to court because she says that I am disruptive and a poor influence on the kids....that she is physically afraid of me. Why? I don't know In past years she has told his family that i am a drug addict...they beleived her because they at the time hadn't met me. I am going out of my mind right now. I feel I need to take legal action for slander and alienation. What would you do?

2007-10-08 10:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Rein 5

If so, did you? What was it like? Would you recommend it? Thanks, just very curious.

2007-10-08 09:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by . 7

any good Ideas?

2007-10-08 09:54:59 · 29 answers · asked by Just me OO 1

7 years ago I used to live with my 8 brothers, dad and mom but things happened to the family business, so the family went apart.

When the family went apart my dad bought 6 bed rooms house for me and my brothers to live in. After 2 years me and my brothers got on but since my brother decided to get married. I was upset when he told us but I couldn’t do nothing really about it. The reason I didn’t want him to get married because I felt bad.

After he got married I met his wife and honestly I cried because I didn’t want her to live with us. The first couple of months I decided to get on with her. After about 6 months I found out she pregnant. Omg I went crazy I didn’t want even to see her face ever again but really I didn’t had chance because I haven’t seen my dad and mom for 4 years ago, so I couldn’t do any really. When she had her baby omg I felt just to kill myself really then after a year I found out that she pregnant again. I couldn’t do nothing again. After another I found out she pregnant again. OoH god I went crazy honestly I tried to kill myself. I tried to shut at her and tell her to just having unprotect sex, so that b*tch decided to tell my brother that I been violent toward her…so my brother kicked me out of the house at 12 clock in the night…I slept outside. I couldn’t believe it that my own brother kicked me out of the house. Next day I had to him £300 because I shouted at his wife and honesty I didn’t even touched her I just shouted at her and nothing else.

Since that day we haven’t spoken to each other for over 1-2 years. I have to buy my own food…..and pay for the room.

5months ago I found out she pregnant again. Now she has 4 kids and 1 on it way. I only have 5 months left and his going to kick me out of the house…Don’t know what to do?

I will never forgive her and god help me she can’t even look after kids. I really really feel sorry for her kids. I do treat respect. I take them to the shop buy for them from my own money…..

The reason his going to kick me out because he daughter going to sleep in my room…

I tried to ask for help but I don’t much people. I keep myself to myself and I try to think about my future but times I just can’t.
What should I do please help I only have 5 months left? Help pls…I don’t even know where is my dad…I haven’t seen him for over 7 years…
Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By the way Im 17 years ago

ALL TRUE!!!

2007-10-08 09:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got married back in February of this year. We dated for almost a year before that and have been friends for about 2 years now. Things were great until we got married. He used to be sweet and generous. He's always been a slob, but it's gotten completely out of control. He's mean to me, he's always putting me down and making me feel worthless. When I tell him how I feel, he tells me that I'm overreacting and he's not being mean to me. But it doesn't stop him from doing it again during that conversation. On top of all this, he likes to make promises to me that he has no intention of keeping. And when I mentioned that it bothered me, he told me that he makes them so I'll shut up. Another issue is that he's into things sexually that I'm not and he basically told me that sex is more important to him than me and he can't guarantee that he'll spend the rest of this life with me if I won't do what he likes. I guess I'm looking for some honest advice about what to do.

2007-10-08 09:45:36 · 27 answers · asked by Heather 2

hi im paul 28 and te wife is 22 and from newcastle upon tyne
where discussing havin a 3 sum or a full couple swap do u hink its a good idea we been together 4 5 years and r sex life going abit stale
what do u think

advice needed

2007-10-08 09:25:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

50/50?

2007-10-08 09:17:34 · 14 answers · asked by John 2

Ok, first of all, me and my husband are very old fashioned and he is head of the house, so I don't wanna hear any feminist crap or yelling abuse at me cause of how we live.
So the yesterday while my hubby was at work my girlfriend and I decided to take his '66 Mustang out for a drive, which is a HUGE no no. Let's just say while backing it up I barely scratched it on the mailbox. You can't hardly see it. Here's my delima. My husband is a spanker. And he spanks hard too. Should I tell him the truth now and settle for a pretty harsh spanking but probably just with his hand or my hairbrush? OR, lie and hope he doesn't find out...BUT...if he does my punishment will be three times as hard and he's more than likely gonna use his belt on my bare butt! I HATE the belt. If any of you other wives ever gotten the belt, you know what I mean. My girlfriend said that I should just tell him now and get my spanking over with cause she's been spanked with a belt from her husband and knows how much it hurts. So ladies, and gentlemen, what should I do?!?!

2007-10-08 09:07:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see shows and know of men who call a baby awful names, I guess to punish the babies mother, but if she changes her cheating ways, and you still love her, why would a man not accept the baby as his? I mean what difference does it make, it will become a loving person, if treated lovingly, right? What difference does it make if the babe came from your blood, or not?

Yes, I know men probably cheat on women more than men, but that isn't the question. Thanks, folks!

2007-10-08 09:07:28 · 14 answers · asked by xenypoo 7

and telling her he doesn't want to go. What can I do to make this transition easier and things easier on my ex-wife?

2007-10-08 09:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are divorcing, and he's not being cooperative about the house. The mortgage is in my name, as his credit is very poor, bu tthe house is in both of our names. I volunteered to take over the mortgage payments and our remaining balance from when we put work into the house (15k) in return for him moving out. We've lived there under 2 years, and with the poor housing market we won't get close to what it's worth. Since the mortgage is in my name do I have al legal right to ask him to leave?

2007-10-08 09:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ama married woman I have 2 beatiful kis and I work nights 5 pm til 2:30 am. Well my husband works during the day because daycare is just too much I work nights. My daughter is the only one home because my son is in school full time. Anyways, heres my dilema. I am with the kids all day and I work 5 nights a week and I do all the cooking cleaning appointments.Anything thatgets done around the house. Well my husband goes out the 2 nights a week that I am home and I am stuck with the kids. He wont let anyone watch the kids for distrust. Which I understand a friend of our loss a child last year. Iam so misrable because all I do is work and take care of the kids I neverget time to go out alone, with him ,or with friends and this has been going o for almost 3 yearsnow and I am at my wits end. I feel as if I am a single mother because I have the life of one. He's never here! My ? is do u think this is right? What should I do? Leave? Help Please :(

2007-10-08 09:01:08 · 45 answers · asked by littlemama 2

he says she listens to him and she says she will make a better wife than me

2007-10-08 08:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by holla 2

i am going to buy a home but am not divorced yet? is it possibile to have wife sign something legally stating she will not go after home in divorce proceedings?

2007-10-08 08:41:00 · 21 answers · asked by raistlin7262000 1

2007-10-08 08:33:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for five years now, but I am not in love with my wife. To be honest, I'm not sure that I ever was in love with her. I do care about her as a person, and I do love her like a friend.
I know I never should have married her in the first place, but I did. To make matters more complicated, we have a daughter together. I adore my daughter, and I am a devoted father. I am sickened at the thought of a divorce and the pain this would cause her.
On the other hand, I would like my daughter to see a loving relationship. I do believe my wife deserves a partner who loves her, and I do believe I deserve someone to love.
I want what is best for my daughter, and I am not sure what to do. I have been able to tolerate my current relationship because my daughter is a part of it. She is only four years old, and I want her to be happy. Should I stay in my relationship for my daughter, or will this only make things worse for everyone? Please help. Thanks.

2007-10-08 08:25:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

So heres the thing my now husband and I started dating in May of last year when his ex girlfriend decided to pop up a month later and claim she was pregnant and it was his. He proposed to me in October we wed in March while the whole time planning a wedding we were coping with the possiblity that he may have a child. She had the baby in January, 3 months before we got married so my husband being the responsible man that he is told her in the beginning that he would pay for things if she would get a paternity test done. She didnt agree and so this has gone through the courts. A court ordered paternity test was done about 2 months ago now mind you the baby is now 9 months old, her mother is a complete psycho and would love nothing more than to make my husband miserable. Well she has drug her feet on everything, calling and making excuses about why the test results havent come yet we finally received them on October 4th. The baby is his. How do I deal with her feelings towards me?

2007-10-08 08:19:16 · 24 answers · asked by One Confused Chick 2

TYPE A Women

I have an ideal image of "my kinda woman" (Type A) - my mom is a strong, confident and attractive woman (even at the age of 50) and a perfect role model. In my teenage years, I was attracted to both my Physics and Biology teachers who were confident, charming and highly mature.

TYPE B Women

Every time I dated in life, it had to be the same attention-seeking loser specimen (Type B) who're not sure about themselves. I was p!ssed off at their indeciseveness and their inability to judge properly- also they showed psychological dependence on men for every aspect of their lives and were looking for their "father" as a male mentor in their prospective boyfriends. I had to sit and console them, listen to their emotional wham-wham and it was such a one-sided affair.

Honestly, I do see the Type A women around me (though it's like 3 out of 50) and most of them seem to be older (35>).

Is something wrong with me in not being attracted at all to Type B women majority?

2007-10-08 08:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Tripitaka 2

2007-10-08 08:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by me1234529 1

Do you think Divorce is right? Why & Why Not.

2007-10-08 08:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by Bud 1