7 years ago I used to live with my 8 brothers, dad and mom but things happened to the family business, so the family went apart.
When the family went apart my dad bought 6 bed rooms house for me and my brothers to live in. After 2 years me and my brothers got on but since my brother decided to get married. I was upset when he told us but I couldn’t do nothing really about it. The reason I didn’t want him to get married because I felt bad.
After he got married I met his wife and honestly I cried because I didn’t want her to live with us. The first couple of months I decided to get on with her. After about 6 months I found out she pregnant. Omg I went crazy I didn’t want even to see her face ever again but really I didn’t had chance because I haven’t seen my dad and mom for 4 years ago, so I couldn’t do any really. When she had her baby omg I felt just to kill myself really then after a year I found out that she pregnant again. I couldn’t do nothing again. After another I found out she pregnant again. OoH god I went crazy honestly I tried to kill myself. I tried to shut at her and tell her to just having unprotect sex, so that b*tch decided to tell my brother that I been violent toward her…so my brother kicked me out of the house at 12 clock in the night…I slept outside. I couldn’t believe it that my own brother kicked me out of the house. Next day I had to him £300 because I shouted at his wife and honesty I didn’t even touched her I just shouted at her and nothing else.
Since that day we haven’t spoken to each other for over 1-2 years. I have to buy my own food…..and pay for the room.
5months ago I found out she pregnant again. Now she has 4 kids and 1 on it way. I only have 5 months left and his going to kick me out of the house…Don’t know what to do?
I will never forgive her and god help me she can’t even look after kids. I really really feel sorry for her kids. I do treat respect. I take them to the shop buy for them from my own money…..
The reason his going to kick me out because he daughter going to sleep in my room…
I tried to ask for help but I don’t much people. I keep myself to myself and I try to think about my future but times I just can’t.
What should I do please help I only have 5 months left? Help pls…I don’t even know where is my dad…I haven’t seen him for over 7 years…
Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By the way Im 17 years ago
ALL TRUE!!!
2007-10-08 09:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your so selfish, be happy for your bro
2007-10-08 09:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by daniel 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I'm really sorry about your situation
But your brother shouldn't have kicked you out of the house just because you yelled at his wife or whatever. But you shouldn't get mad over that. If you really feel angry about this and really upset tell your brother and talk to him about it even though you two havent seen each other in a while talk to him and sort things out. Really you shouldn't get angry or jealous she will never take your brother away and she can't never take him away he's your brother your family he will realize that you are more important. But still his wife is now his family since she had his kids. You don't have to forgive her theres really no reason to so I agree with you on that
If talking things out with him doesn't help you should find a job and start saving up or rent a room. Hopefully this helps
Good Luck!!!
2007-10-08 10:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Puppet Master! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check the law because your brother may not be able to legally evict you because he does not own the home. However, why do you want to live there? All you do is complain about how your brother chooses to live his life. This is none of your business you should not judge your brother. You are being very selfish. He has his own family now and you are being rude. Start saving your money, stop spending it on your brother's kids. Find a roomate and move on.
2007-10-08 10:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by aj's girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like you have something against her and you brought all of this to yourself, you shouldn't had to behave like that, I don't like my sister in law either, but I'm not rude to her and I have never shouted at her, if they want to have a dozen kids that's their problem. I think you're very immature and obviosuly your brother saw an opportunity to show you how life is. If you want to stay in the house you should apologize to your sister in law and your brother, and tell your brother that you have the right to be there as much as they do. You can sue them for the part of the house that belongs to you. But of course you don't have any money right now, you're better of apologizing and promise to be responsible and stop the drama!
2007-10-08 10:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to move out into your own place, you should definitely consider it. It isn't worth bickering back and fourth with your brother over his girlfriend/wife.
That is your brother's choice and he has to sleep in the bed he made with her. All you can do is be there for him if and when it comes time for you to say, "I told you so."
When you move out on your own, you will find a sense of peace and you will be glad you did. You won't feel the animosity you had before when you were living all together under the same roof. -Good luck.
2007-10-08 10:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off u need to get ur life in order.
no girls. forget about them until ur settled and happy
File for bankrupsy if u need to.
do u have a job? get one. if u cant get one, well get the best one u can get
find a little crappy apartment near ur job. rent it.take out a loan if u need to.
get some basic furnature. dont go to a good brand store..just walmart or something get some basic nessesatoes
go food shopping. buy food that is on sale. u might have to like of hraft diner for a few monthes.
eventually ul make some money, and u can move ito a slightly better place, and only then can u start thinking about getting into a relationship. and please have protected sex. god.
2007-10-08 10:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you are moving out when you are 18. You could try going to social services and see if they can find you a small flat or something.
Looks like your father is a moron who had way too many children, then decided to be even more stupid and have a bunch more. There is nothing you can do about it, but move out and get on with your life. Let them carry on with their stupidity. You are soon to be an adult, so you can just move out and get on with your life. Either go to college or get a job. In any case get out of the house.
2007-10-08 09:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your brother. If I understand right, your dad bought the house for you and your brothers, not your brother and his family. There's nothing wrong with kids sharing a room so you can have a room. You're too young to be out there alone. Tell your brother this.
2007-10-08 09:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to see a lawyer and find out if the house is in both you and your brothers name if it is than he may not have the right to ask you to leave.
2007-10-08 10:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by Julius C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You either need a better education or psychiatric help, I can't tell which. There is such a thing as verbal abuse. Yelling at people is out of line. You are living under their roof...you obey their rules. How many children they have is none of your business.
2007-10-08 10:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your in a horrible situation , it sounds as if the wife is jealous of you and you of her.its time to be an adult your almost one, get a job , move out , take care of yourself and show them that you dont need them and that you can be better off without them !!
2007-10-08 09:58:30 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋