Ok, first of all, me and my husband are very old fashioned and he is head of the house, so I don't wanna hear any feminist crap or yelling abuse at me cause of how we live.
So the yesterday while my hubby was at work my girlfriend and I decided to take his '66 Mustang out for a drive, which is a HUGE no no. Let's just say while backing it up I barely scratched it on the mailbox. You can't hardly see it. Here's my delima. My husband is a spanker. And he spanks hard too. Should I tell him the truth now and settle for a pretty harsh spanking but probably just with his hand or my hairbrush? OR, lie and hope he doesn't find out...BUT...if he does my punishment will be three times as hard and he's more than likely gonna use his belt on my bare butt! I HATE the belt. If any of you other wives ever gotten the belt, you know what I mean. My girlfriend said that I should just tell him now and get my spanking over with cause she's been spanked with a belt from her husband and knows how much it hurts. So ladies, and gentlemen, what should I do?!?!
2007-10-08 09:07:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I'll tell him now and get my spanking over with. Either way it's gonna be on my bare bottom and either way it's gonna hurt, but I'll feel better for being honest. I agree with the one girl who said I should offer my friend to be spanked too, I'm sure my husband wouldn't mind but she has her own husband to answer too. So don't worry, I think she's gonna get her butt blistered tonight when my husband tells her husband. He's more strict than mine.
2007-10-08 10:11:45 · update #1
How can you give anyone that much power over you? No one has the right to punish you physically. You are an adult. Act like one and get out of that abusive relationship.
2007-10-08 12:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Who's sarcastic? 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
As it's apparent from your post that this is consensual, then you need to confess and get it over with. A domestic discipline relationship is founded on trust, and you trusted your man to take you in hand when you first agreed to this kind of relationship. I have a few such relationships that include discipline, and I would want those individuals to come to me with something like that, rather than allowing me to learn it on my own. It would, of course, be worse in the long run. Even if you're turned on by this kind of treatment, I would figure out how to make it unpleasant, even if it meant NOT spanking you to teach you a lesson. Tops are wily creatures.
On a side note, I commend you for pointing out at the very beginning of your question that this is a consensual act, even if it's not something that you're looking forward to. Some people need to learn that just because you don't WANT something, doesn't mean that you're not WILLING to submit to it. Discipline, in an adult relationship, is one of these things that can be consensual without being desired.
2007-10-11 15:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think its best you tell him and swear never to do it again. EVER!!! perhaps if you go fetch the brush and present yourself to him with bottom already bare and confess to what you did and that you deserve a good fanny tanning, maybe...just maybe he will not go too hard on you. I suspect he still going to tan your bare fanny red raw though. I quite frankly agree you deserve it. So take your medicine now and get it over with. Having a spanking hanging over your head and living with the guilt is probably worse don't you think!
2007-10-10 17:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dean M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you've had a lot of negative answers. I think you made it pretty clear it was consensual. Lucky you, having an old-fashioned kind of man!
I think you should tell him now, not just because you'll get a worse punishment for lying, but also because it shows a huge lack of trust and disrespect not to tell him when you know you should. Good luck, hope it's over quickly x
2007-10-09 10:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sally 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you know the answer to this question.....
Tell him now....
Good grief....
Don't stew yourself more than you've already done.....
Unless, of course.....
what you're looking for is a belting??
Hell, I'd put it off, just to get in more trouble.....
But then again, a belt on my bare bottom is a huge turn on for me.... I'm not into the DD thing to that level (currently)... it's just a turn on.... (being spanked)
But I have plenty of friends that are... (practicing DD/HOH, etc) and they'd all say go ahead and tell him....
You're saving your butt (literally) in the long run.....
And don't worry about the ppl puttin' ya down on here... they just don't understand TTWD...
and they have that right...
We are on a public site, and we are asking public opinion... so let 'em say what they wanna say, and take the advice from us real spankos.....
MUAH!;)
2007-10-08 14:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Get the spanking over and done with it'll make you feel better. If you wait not only will the spanking be worse your conscious will be eating away at you so it'll make it that much worse.
2007-10-11 08:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that deep in your heart that you need to be honest. Lieing is a slippery slope in any relationship and I'm sure you know that its not acceptable. Tell your husband what you did and be prepared for the consequences.
I wish you and your husband the best
2007-10-08 18:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Villain 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would never be able to keep that a secret. I might try, but I would wind up being so nervous about it, and feeling so guilty about hiding something from him, that I would have to confess.
I don't think it was your friend's fault at all though. I wouldn't bring her into it.
2007-10-08 15:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by crc00000 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend's right. He's certainly going to find out sooner or later - if he treasures the car no scratch, however tiny, will escape his notice - so tell him now and take your spanking. Good luck!
2007-10-08 11:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Offer up your girlfriends bare bottom to spank as well i bet he would go a lot easier on you..
2007-10-08 09:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋