Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2007

I have gotten many good replies to my previous questions. I have one more. Is there anything else I can do to disrespect her? I've cheated on her, slept with my girlfriend in our own bed, been caught sleeping with my girlfriend in our bed and I even slept with her sister. Please help!

2007-10-08 08:13:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to receive a restraining order, I don’t want to go to court. I don’t care if this girl gets one on me, I know I was wrong, nothing violent, but just emails and text since we broke up. What will happen if I don’t show up for court? I don’t care what she says about me, the judge is going to order the same RO either way. So why should I go to court I will just have a bad attitude? I don’t care if I ever see her again, and yes I lied to her and will get it either way, so what is the difference? This is not a criminal matter so what difference does it make? We have no kids, and live in the same state. I just want all of this to be over so why should I go to court?

2007-10-08 08:08:07 · 23 answers · asked by simsad31 2

We don't live in Illinois but would like to speak to a pro bono lawyer to see if they can help with a custody issue we are having. Mom and child reside in Illinois, father lives in Delaware.

Obviously we don't have access to a phone book to look them up ourselves.
Is there a directory of pro bono lawyers on the net? I can't find anything in a directory format.
We need someone in the Chicago or Champaign ish area.

2007-10-08 08:07:12 · 2 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7

can you ask your mate anything

2007-10-08 08:06:37 · 30 answers · asked by me1234529 1

2007-10-08 07:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by me1234529 1

I read in a magazine that a lot of men fantasize about their wife sleeping with another man. I have talked this over with a friend and his explanation is that fear is intensely erotic, as such the guy ends up loving what he fears the most. The torture and tension of your wife being unfaithful to you is relieved by actually wanting it to happen. My take on that it relates to the alpha male syndrome, the male subsconscously feels his wife deserves better, and he matches her with someone he considers superior to himself, more worthy of her and more capable of giving her sexual gratification. Would like to anybody with an opinion or experience to contribute. Thanks

2007-10-08 07:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by NK 1

I'm so over it! One minute and then OH!! What's left for me!! dissapointment....

2007-10-08 07:21:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to be 22 and my boyfriend is going to be 28. We have been together for a little over a year. When we first got together we stayed up hours upon hours just talking. By about the 3rd week we pratically knew everything there was to know about each other. We both had children before we got together. Then we had a child together. He has previously been married. I have not but my other child's father and I was together for about 5 years. I feel like I have known him for so long and he feels the same way. He talked about wanting to get married before our son was born. I told him I wasn't ready yet. I told him I don't want to get married just because we have a kid together. I came from a home where my mother and father got married when they were 18 because they had a child together. They then had 2 more and the got divorced when the youngest was 2. I don't want that. I mean I love him to death and he loves me to. I finally have made the decision that I am ready. Am I ready?

2007-10-08 07:16:39 · 18 answers · asked by TJW21 1

What is cost of a parternity test anf where do you get one?

2007-10-08 07:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by gin2634 1

I know this sounds really shallow but if you were a supermodel would your husband/ partner still think other women were atrractive? In other words even if you looked like the prettiest woman you could imagine, would your man still think other women were pretty too or would he think you were the best thing in the world and never comment on anyone else?

2007-10-08 06:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

husband is indulged in extra maritial affair with a bar girl. wife does not know what to do? she wants to get rid of this problem. is there any way ? what kind of support police or any social org.can provide?

2007-10-08 06:56:30 · 6 answers · asked by pkg_066 1

i mean like in an admiring way and nearly loose control of the car while hes looking.

2007-10-08 06:49:46 · 82 answers · asked by seahorse 5

cooking dinner while wearing an apron ???

2007-10-08 06:42:18 · 30 answers · asked by Me 3

2007-10-08 06:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by SANAT 5

I dont have my license to drive anywhere, my daughter is getting sick... and family is not here... and Im really heartbroken

2007-10-08 06:36:39 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Proud Mommy♥ 3

It was only a sexual relationship.Now he is married has a new baby he takes care of.What stops her?

2007-10-08 06:36:37 · 9 answers · asked by gin2634 1

2007-10-08 06:26:26 · 18 answers · asked by natasha n 1

2007-10-08 06:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Alexa 1

I recently found out that my fiance used to be a call-girl working in California over 18 years ago. We are in our 40's and on our second relationships now. She is wonderful in bed, and once she broke down and shared her past with me it disgusts me that she is so skilled. I appreciate her honesty, I fell in love with her now not her past, and She was only "employed" with the escort service for 3 months till she got busted by an undercover cop. How many guys can you do in 3 months? A Lot I bet!!! And to get to the point in life where it seems like an OK option is scary also. Not wanting to end the relationship over her being honest, I am not retarded, but trying to deal with my own feelings of judgement(I know it is not right), disgust, and embarassment if anyone I know ever found out. She€ came clean since we are getting married and she afraid of apply for a government job and the background check showing her pandering charge.

2007-10-08 06:16:36 · 30 answers · asked by Al W 1

My wife walked in on me and my girlfriend this past weekend and kicked me out of the house. She won't answer the phone or emails. Would it be trespassing if me and my girlfriend went back to the house and have sex.

2007-10-08 06:15:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I think about it all the time and my wife doesn't think about it at all.

2007-10-08 06:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years (I'm 18), and we are very serious about our relationship. For me, I think family is more important than a career, so when I have finished university I would like to get married and start a family and get a 'normal' job (and use my degree when I'm a bit older, e.g. mid/late-twenties).

However, my grandparents are saying that I am too young, I'm being stupid, I should live life a bit first, I won't be able to enjoy myself, etc, etc. But I don't enjoy going out partying - in fact, almost everything I do enjoy are child friendly activities - e.g. theme parks, bowling, etc. My Nana in particular also says that our relationship will not last, I'll have other boyfriends, and I'll have changed my mind before I am 21. I disagree, but she doesn't care!

So, please could I have your [sensible] opinions on the matter? (I don't mind if you think it is too young, but justify your answers please!)

Thanks in advance! =)

2007-10-08 06:08:14 · 44 answers · asked by .єmιlч. .ωєmιlч. ~♥~ 5

I have known this male friend since high school and we always been good friends. We would hang out, go to the movies, restaurant and etc. We lost touch with each other since I been married but he contacted me recently and wants to hang out again. My husband does not believe that a female and male can have a friendship without developing feelings occuring. We're both in relationship and have never crossed that line with each other even when we both were not in a relationship. I told my husband I think he feels this way because he always ended up in bed with his female friends. I would never do any thing that my husband did not like but I just think he is taking it out of proportion because I believe two people from the opposite sex in a relationship can be friends. Is it possible or am I being selfish.

2007-10-08 06:08:11 · 20 answers · asked by Palyn 2

2007-10-08 06:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do women ever find young adult males attractive, ages between 24 and up?? Just wondering, how you can tell a older women, that you find her attractive without being rude and getting shot down.

2007-10-08 06:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3

2007-10-08 05:58:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I run my own business, maintain 7 vehicles, take care of a couple dogs, have plenty of time to date and vacation, I keep my own house, do my own laundry, shopping and cooking.
The housekeeping related chores take less than an hour a day and maybe 2-3 over the weekend.

Women talk as if it is some insurmountable task to dust or vacuum.
The worst part is some guys actually believe it.
These women are at the spa, or salon, they're shopping or at Starbucks with their friends, or they're boning the gardener or UPS man. They spend an hour doing house keeping chores and when " He" gets home she b!tches what a hard day she has had .
I gotta call a big B.S. on this one.

Anyone else know where I'm come'n from on this one?

2007-10-08 05:57:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what man has to do if a women withhold sex without reason.

2007-10-08 05:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by rudy3107 2

what man has to do if a women withhold sex without reason.

2007-10-08 05:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by rudy3107 2

I get paid like $3200 per month and my ex only gets paid like $1800 per month. I spend 100% with my child. Will I still get child support from him? I live in Ca

2007-10-08 05:47:33 · 20 answers · asked by Hot MILF 1