2007-10-08 06:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did he find out about it? If not, I suggest you never see the other guy again and forget it ever happened. If he does know, I highly doubt you will ever be able to make it up because your husband will be haunted by thoughts of another man ramming his di ck into you for the rest of his life!
2007-10-08 06:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Smooth Lyrics II 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the past. You and he both have to decide to put the past behind you and start fresh today. Then give to your husband 100% and accept that you are the one who derailed the train of your relationship. That means it is mostly up to you to put it back on track. Every day that you are faithful is a step closer to your husband being able to trust you. If you two are having trouble getting to the point of restarting your relationship without the past clouding it then seek professional marriage counseling.
2007-10-08 13:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you cheated on your husband for years and now you want to make it up to him because you are finally in love with him? does he have any say in this relationship at all? or do you make all the decisions on how he feels about it?
i dont think that making it up to him should be an option but i guess thats up to him.
pray he forgives you, but trust me, he wont forget
2007-10-08 13:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mindy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean your husband knows about this? You are going to have to show him that this is well and truely over and that in time he will come to trust you again. Be the best wife you can be!
2007-10-08 13:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you did it and don't ever stray again. That is adultery you know. There is dire consequences for adultery and you have free will to commit this sin, but you have no choice in the consequences which you will pay!!
2007-10-08 13:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good for you!
He's a lucky man your husband? Isn't he? He finally won some attention from his wife. Good man.
Get over yourself!
2007-10-08 13:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him bang the heck out of your sister for a few years and call it even.
2007-10-08 13:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Selvaggio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him hook-up with a woman he's attracted to and then get some counseling....
2007-10-08 13:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him?
2007-10-08 13:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by I've been blessed, just not with a baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't
2007-10-08 13:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Michael3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋