Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2007

2007-10-08 03:17:47 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

What have you learned in your years (or less) of marriage? What would you now change if you had the chance to? What would you never want to change? What kind of advice would you give young women about to get married? Please add how long you've been married and if you don't mind, your current age. Thank you so much!

2007-10-08 03:17:03 · 22 answers · asked by travelgirl 1

My husband acts like a teenager lazing around his parents' house, or an untidy houseguest. Not like an adult, that's for sure. He never puts his dirty dishes IN the sink, but leaves them on the counter. He leaves his trash on the counter near the trash can but never IN the trash can. And when he opens a drawer he only half closes it. Who is supposed to close the damn drawer? ME? What is this man thinking? Or has the thought process simply stopped.

2007-10-08 03:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by Trilby 2

I am happily married and love my husband but I am not in love with him anymore.
In 10 years of marriage I have fallen in love with 2 other men when I wasn't looking for love outside my marriage.
I have always been faithful and I don't want it any other way.
I have been judged and got answers saying what should or should I not do but these are not the answers I am looking for.
I LOVE my husband and want to stop falling in love with men that are not him.
Is there a professional psychologic explanation for this?
I am married and want to be in love only with my husband and nobody else. Why can't I control my feelings?
Help!
Thank you.

2007-10-08 03:09:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 years old and my boyfriend of 4 years is very interested in getting married -- I think he's planning to buy a ring around December.

A lot of people say I'm too young and that I need to enjoy being a bachelorette and living my life before getting tied down.

2007-10-08 03:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im soo sorry but really if you don't want them give them away
but don't kill them ...most of us love our kids and would do any in the world for them ...so how??? why?? i just don't get it ??

2007-10-08 03:05:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes another complaint about my husband. he will sit and talk to the cats and pet and spend time with them but when ever i want to talk he has to run off somewhere. yes i have told him this bothers me.

2007-10-08 02:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by rayhab 4

We have been married for 3 years and it upsets my husband that I stay up late almost every night. I have to be to work by 7 a.m. and he has to be to work by 5 a.m. He likes to go to bed by 10 or 11 p.m. and I don’t. So what’s the problem? We both get off at 4 p.m. and when we take an hour or so to wind down. By the time somebody cooks dinner or we go out to dinner, get back and get settled, it’s almost time for bed –well for my husband that is. We usually spend the last couple of hours (between 8 p.m. and 10 p.m.) with me on the computer, reading or on the phone and him playing the Playstation or watching the football game. He slips off to bed and I’ll head for the computer room. I still want to stay up and enjoy the night.I want to get on Yahoo Answers. I want to play online Scrabble. I want to work on my side business.

2007-10-08 02:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

I'll try to make this short....been married for a few years, have a child together, husband confesses to having several affairs, I left him and moved to another state, trying to move on with my life with my families help, but ex keeps calling. He calls constantly and sometimes uses the excuse to talk to our 2 year old child, but sometimes he'll call me at midnight or even later. What is that all about? He says he doesn't love me so why won't he let me live my life without him constantly calling me? He's the one that couldn't keep it in his pants for a couple of years and wanted to send me dissolution paperwork, but nothings come this way. I have to live in the new state for 6 months before I can file for a divorce...ugh!!!

2007-10-08 02:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by HeartbrokenGrl 1

I was brought up to tell it as it is, I have strong beliefs on God and unmarried mums getting married in white in church just to name a few I know I upset a lot of people, but I am very a honest person, who else is like this?

2007-10-08 02:51:58 · 20 answers · asked by Bill 1

2007-10-08 02:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never quite figured out what I "wanted to be when I grow up" ... didn't finish college, although I had a few great jobs. I recently found out I'm pregnant, have a wonderful relationship with a man willing to support me ... is it so horrible to just want to be a stay at home mom? I've always hated working, but I don't want to feel like I'm shirking all responsibility. At the same time, I feel it's important for a parent to be home with a child. I guess I'm just torn between being able to support myself and staying at home completely depending on another person -- it scares me. Any kind words of advice?

2007-10-08 02:48:11 · 40 answers · asked by boo_boo_flower 2

my bf and i have been together for a year and a month now. we've been together twice b4 and that was 4 years ago. i broke up with him twice cuz i was young and i din feel ready to commit and i was afraid of all of the responsibilities. now its been a year straight. we live together i'm 19 and he's 20. we communicate realyl well which is surprising and i've been thinking of marriage simply because of the old tradition that u have to be married to be living together. he says he already feel like we are (and so do i) and we don't mind getting married i just want to know from more mature ppl who maybe have done it what do you think.

2007-10-08 02:47:16 · 14 answers · asked by Kimz 2

honest answers plzzz!!!

2007-10-08 02:42:48 · 42 answers · asked by wht is diz (BOYCOTT ISRAEL) 3

And this week on October 12 will be his birthday. This is killing me.....so much pain and anger and hate and I don't know how to go on with my life. I need a friend to talk to and someone who can give me some advice..........

2007-10-08 02:41:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes. Like a divorce.

2007-10-08 02:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by AAA 2

2007-10-08 02:37:12 · 23 answers · asked by sirreesamom33 1

i married a guy a month ago and we've been living really happily. but he has 3 kids and i have 1 daughter. his kids immediatly accepted me. but my daughter refuses 2 accept my husband and hes tried just about everything 2 try 2 win her over. she says she wants 2 live with her father only her father is a horrible man that does drugs. if i lose her i'd be devastated. wat can i do 2 get her 2 accept her new stepfather and step siblings?

2007-10-08 02:35:02 · 19 answers · asked by Eliana 2

With all this 2 group of people whats their various advantages of marrying any of them and also whats the disadvantages of also marrying any of them?

2007-10-08 02:32:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has decided behind my back without even telling me to pack up and leave to arizona with my kids. my 12 year old has just got his first love and doing great in school. same with my 15 year old and my other son is 3. things are financially tough right now. my wife says she cant get a job here so she wants to start fresh in arizona. she doesnt care what i have to say about any of it. she does not even care what the boys think. i have told her if she goes i want a divorce, she flipped out. what do i do and why does she not even care for her family. she tried to pull a fast one on me but when i had taken the truck to the store she left the rental agreement in the truck and thatis how i found out. when i approached her on it, she yelled and cursed me out and called me every name in the book, she even told me she hates me. hate is a pretty hurtful word to say to anyone but more devistating to your husband. i work my butt to the bone to afford this 1.3 million dollar home. help please.

2007-10-08 02:30:53 · 12 answers · asked by And your point is..... 1

If you took a drug test on Thursday at 1:30pm, when would they have the results to let you know if u passed? It was a urine test, and I was told 48 hours, that's why I asked. The test was taken at Lab Corp for a job.


I know this is the wrong section, but thought I would get the best answers since this is the section I am normally in.

2007-10-08 02:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a woman thinking of having a 3some with my husband and another man. What do you think?

2007-10-08 02:20:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please solve our problem.Both of us in job.

2007-10-08 02:17:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been cheating on my husband some 20 times over the last 4 years. He's a good man but cant please me....what should i do

2007-10-08 02:17:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this man who cheated on his wife with different women, ended up leaving his 3 young boys and divorcing his wife to go and stay with the woman he was cheating with, he also cheated on her before they moved in together. Do you think he will do the same thing to her. Everyone I know says he will......but he hasn't yet......so do cheaters settle down - his father did the same thing and stayed with the woman he cheated on with.

2007-10-08 02:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do men always cheat with other women when u give a men all u got?

2007-10-08 02:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am afraid that if they come to live with my husband and I our lives our going to be turned upside down and I honestly don't know if I will be able to deal with them. They call my husband stupid, idiot, tell us both to shut up and that we are pissing them off. I don't approve of this language and lack of respect but my husband says nothing to them. Lately I have been. The worry here is that their mother works nights and weekends and the oldest (16) takes care of the other two, 14 and 10 as far as making sure they brush their teeth and take their medicine, they have developed asthma from poor diet. The oldest is in bed still at 9:00 her bus left at 7:15 because she didn't finish her homework over the weekend. She missed three days of school last week. Truant officers have been to their house in the past. I think we should persue custody for their sakes, however there is a part of me that wants selfishly to live in peace and keep my daughter away from them and their attitudes.

2007-10-08 02:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious if there is a winner

2007-10-08 01:58:39 · 29 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3

2007-10-08 01:54:05 · 22 answers · asked by Z B 1

2007-10-08 01:45:38 · 21 answers · asked by sherry l 1