And this week on October 12 will be his birthday. This is killing me.....so much pain and anger and hate and I don't know how to go on with my life. I need a friend to talk to and someone who can give me some advice..........
2007-10-08 02:41:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he is better gone. Why haven't you found him? Is there more to this story? #
2007-10-08 02:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 16⤋
you probably did the main suitable component. in basic terms because of the fact she carried this toddler does not make her a mom. She is a donor. She made the choice to sign her rights away. Legally, it is not her toddler any further. in the excellent interest of the youngster, she shouldn't even settle for visitation.
2016-10-21 10:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by starcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it matters how long its been dont think it will ever be easy but to know you have made it this long means it will be ok just take one day at a time maybe speak to others an let them know theres freaks out there that will take kids..start maybe by putting your anger an hate to something good in memory of your son it could him with the pain also..unless you've been there no one on here will be able to give you the answer or the help you may be looking for but it all helps so hang in there
2007-10-08 02:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Annouyed 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Was he kidnapped by a relative?
I am so sorry to hear about this and can only imagine how you must have felt over the last 5 years.
If he has been kidnapped by a relative overseas he may makw contact with you when he is 18 years. You have to hold that hope in your heart.
Are there any cousellors in your area you could talk to or someone who has been in a similar position.
I have found a link that might be helpful to you
http://www.care2.com/c2c/group/wherearethey
Good luck - hope things work out for you.
2007-10-08 02:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I lost my child in a somewhat similar manner 23 years ago.
people say it gets easier but it doesn't, I think of him every day, I used to buy presents, birthdays and Xmas cards and post them to nowhere.
I used to look at every child in the street to see if it was my child.
I have accepted that he is gone, but it will never stop hurting.
But what ever way you find to cope with it, never lose hope.
This is all I'm prepared to say here.
If you want email me and I'll reply to you:)
2007-10-08 02:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by well.theres.a.few 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
U need to start a new petition to open his case back up, and make his birthday a celebration and ask a local tv station to come and film it in hopes he may see it , my heart goes out to u and your family as i know this is a tough and emotional time, but please get some counseling and dont give up hope... god bless u and your family...
2007-10-08 04:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am sorry for what you are going though.Was it a custody thing?I only ask that because then you would at least know he is well.When my oldest Son was killed we didn't have the Internet but I'm sure there are groups online for people going through the same kind of hell you are.Good luck.
2007-10-08 02:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by notagain49 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I am sorry to hear this has happened to you. I will keep you in my prayers. I don't think there is a whole lot anyone can say to help you feel better about this. It must be very hard. I am not sure what all you have done to get him back but, I hope someday you find peace and he is returned......
2007-10-08 02:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
you have my sympathy. you need to get some counseling to deal with this because there are questions regarding this that you can discuss with a counselor - for example, do you know who took your son or was it an ex husband?
you may even contact John Walsh at America's most Wanted since he went through that and survived and he can give you support groups in your area or perhaps feature your son on that show.
2007-10-08 02:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I am so very sorry to hear about this awful thing that has happened to you and your son. You need God in your life, and a church family that can help support you and pray with you.
You can write to me if you would like.
2007-10-08 02:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
i'd spend his birthday hanging up fliers.; or starting pictures of him to pass around the internet..
2007-10-08 03:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 5⤋