Marriage & Divorce - 8 October 2007

We did have intercourse.. 7 times over the last 3 months.. I know this is low for newlyweds
He is initially aroused.. but cant keep it up... thats the main problem ...and now hes scared to try !!
I think he should use some medication

2007-10-08 17:20:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 17:17:15 · 26 answers · asked by BudLt 5

I feel like my parents screwed me over on a lot of things. Your parents are responsible for you development and since I hate myself and my life, I feel like they failed me. A lot of times they put themselves before me. Is this normal? Does everyone feel like this?

2007-10-08 17:10:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this Indian guy for nearly a year. We are both students. He went back to India during the summer vacation, and hasn't returned to school yet. He says he is doing a research survey for his master's thesis and will come back to school when he's done with it. But it's been a month and half since the semester started, but he is still in India. This semester is his last semester, so I understand that he has nothing else to do but his thesis. Before the summer, his parents were giving him pressure to get married (to an Indian woman they selected for him). He keeps telling me that he is coming back, and is looking forward to see me. But now I doubt if he got married during the summer in his home country. I know his name and the city he resides (Delhi). Is there any way for me to find out if he is officially married recently? Without confronting him directly, of course.

2007-10-08 17:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in love with another man. how should I tell my husband. This isnt a fling it is a man from my past. and i love him with all my heart. And you should know that i havent been happy for a while in my marrige.

2007-10-08 16:53:43 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 2

Why do people sometimes need to talk to their ex?
My ex husband has been emailing me and he just wants to talk, he is dating around and I am in a relationship but he just wants to talk as friends. he said he use to look at my picture sometimes: I know he cares about me as a friend but why would he do all of these things if he isn't in love with me?

2007-10-08 16:43:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 16:41:39 · 7 answers · asked by confusedchristine 1

what do you think?

2007-10-08 16:38:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I have been thinking alot about how my life would be if I wasn't married, and didn't have a child. I got married when I was young ( 19 ) so I figure its just because I thought I would be doing different things then what I am doing now...but now Im thinking about it all the time....having my own place, seeing different men, having friends around...and I don't want to make things in my marriage weird because I thinking about life without my husband...Am I just over reacting?

2007-10-08 16:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by nebthet1 3

Please don't take this wrong, but I keep reading from women who say how wonderful their marriage is and they or their spouse would never cheat or lie or deceive. Don't you think most people felt that way at one time? Many of the people tell you, after 23 or 25 years of marriage their spouse is having an affair? Do you really think you are the 'chosen ones' and this could never happen to you or by you? Isn't there vulnerablility to this for everyone? Can you really say 'he will never' or 'I will never'? (Thanks for your answers - just wondering)

2007-10-08 16:36:13 · 10 answers · asked by pussycat 5

my brother is going to try and get custady of his daughter.the mother is living in cali.he lives in texas.she is wanting to go into the air force.she has to sign over all rights to the child,but wants him to do the same so her new husband can get the baby. my question is how does he stand to full custody of her? any help is appercited.

2007-10-08 16:33:36 · 4 answers · asked by sexyhartley3 2

I have an ex that broke my heart worse than anyone I've ever been in love with. . .then he left me for scum and made it seem like he never loved me at all. However, recently he has been prank calling me and texting me. I'm just wondering why he would do this if he treated me the way he did (cheating, lying, psychological abuse, etc.) I've started to heal and move on, but I'm lost and just don't understand why he would make such an effort to prank call from random phones and send random text messages to me? Someone please help me understand what is going on!

2007-10-08 16:25:29 · 27 answers · asked by Psalms 2

Been happily separated for a year. My ex lives hours away and we have no contact with each other. I recently received a phone call from a woman that I know but not too well (she was a friend of my ex ). I am not fond of her at all but I have been cordial when I saw her. The last time I saw her was five years ago and she drained the s--t out of me. Anyway, She got my new phone number by showing up at my house when I wasn't there and telling my daughter that she and I were very good friends and she needed to talk to me. When the woman called she kept asking me how to get in touch with my ex because she was getting a divorce and HER Ex-husband (who is 500 miles away) was looking for a job with my ex husband. (She and her ex have always had my ex husband's phone number and email address. They did not have mine because I had changed both and never kept up with them by choice). She kept digging for info about us etc,. but I would not give any info and she seemed frustrated.

2007-10-08 16:16:15 · 22 answers · asked by Pam1962 2

After dealing with my son's continued lying, not doing homework, lazyness,you name it, its becoming glaringly obvious, he needs to go live with his dad.

I have had my son evaluated by professionals in "hopes' something was wrong with him, he tests fine.

He is polite and well liked by everyone, but you can't trust him, he will lie through his teeth for absolutely no reason.

His dad is a known pathological liar, and has lied many times to my son. No matter what I do for discipline, nothing works, so for the sake of my sanity, I am going to send him to his fathers.

I know I will pay child support and have figured it out to what it would be. I am thinking that we will do a 'temporary' order and try it for a year. If it works, I have no qualms with him staying there. His dad can't hold a job, isn't a stable person, but maybe a taste of the 'other side' of life will be a wakeup call?

No disciplining has worked to get his grades up nor fix the lying.

2007-10-08 16:13:51 · 15 answers · asked by Mulereiner 7

Does anyone know or have remarried their ex spouse? I am beginning to think there is a possibiility that my ex-wife and I have a chance to get back together.

I was married for 23 years and then it was gone. I htink we both regret the divorce and now she has a medical condition and will need some help.

I am looking for serious replies.

2007-10-08 15:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by will_955 3

Would you leave your hubby if.... My hubby does not let me see what he makes and I just found one of his pay stubs and I'm SO UPSET!!! For one he works away from the home Mon-Fri and he always say's "I forgot my pay stub or I put it in the trash"... Me and my two kids eat like s**t all week and I'm sure by what he makes he eat's very well... Right now we are past due 2 mo's in rent, I have 2 Elc bills, and I had to go to the Salvation Army to get help paying my water it get's better I had to go to a church for food last week... He always say's well they take out so much out in taxes so on and so on... I have been with him for 16 yrs and I'm about to walk... The thing is he makes about 900 a week and gives me 200.00-400.00 A WEEK.... OHHHH and he has only paid in 1,358.00 in federal taxes all YEAR wtf is up with that....

2007-10-08 15:57:02 · 21 answers · asked by ~~Lisa~~ 4

She initiated it, and he briefly rubbed her arm as it finished.
very quick hug
He says the rub was nothing, I know he is completely trustworthy, but am still really bothered and insecure. HELP

2007-10-08 15:56:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 15:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by chris s 1

is this normal or dose everyone else climax everythime they make love

2007-10-08 15:24:08 · 1 answers · asked by nena 1

My divorce will be final next week & my husband and I haven't even talked about it. He cheated...I filed. We live 4 hours away so we don't see each other that often except when he comes to visit our son. I feel like I want to talk to him about some things & maybe that will bring some closure to this, but I don't know if I should bring it up or not since he hasn't. He knows I know he cheated but has denied it.(i have proof) I want to question him on why he's done this to his family. We've been married for 7 years & have a son together. Should I try & discuss what went on & why or should I let it & him go w/out saying anything? I don't want details about him & any other women I just want to know what he's thinking & feeling & I want him to know what I'm thinking & feeling. It has bothered me that he didn't even put up a fight for his family. I mean NOTHING has been said between us about the divorce. (and he does know about it..he has an attorney, too) What would you do?

2007-10-08 15:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by love my life 2

2007-10-08 15:13:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men have to always lose

2007-10-08 15:11:47 · 2 answers · asked by tanmoorer 1

We've been together for five years but I just dread the idea of marriage. It's like a life sentence to hell for the man. Even the wedding is all about the woman

2007-10-08 14:57:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband has been on answers in the past, he asks questions like "girlfriend problems", or "ex-wife is a *****" . It is strange.... we have been married for 14 years.... he also has alot of girl "fans" .... Should I care??

2007-10-08 14:55:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 14:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by muzzella 1

Healthy sexual satisfaction results from harmony in other areas of marriage.

2007-10-08 14:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I caught him in the woods with the neighbors wife. Now he's going broke, after I got 100,000 in the divorce. I'm free as a bird and living a new life. His friends don't know what really happened; he went around telling hateful lies even before we brokeup; he even lied to our daughter and his whole family, telling people that, "she's just crazy." He also had to pay for my new car we had just bought a year before not to mention 250 a wk. for 3 months before the divorce was final. He took our autistic son to a lawyer behind my back and had him sign a paper saying that he wanted to live with him. I just wanted to get away from him; she had him recording my phone calls and he was still spying on me 4 months later; they get drunk and call and harass me, and then I get into trouble if I respond to it; they take ME to court.

2007-10-08 14:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by dotell 3

My divorce will be final next week. I'm the one who filed. He was unfaithful.(more than once) I was doing alright at first but now the anger feels like it's wearing off into just sadness. But he doesn't really even seem to be bothered. I didn't tell him beforehand that I was filing & yet he still hasn't even said 2 words about getting divorced. But his lack of words has made me think he doesn't care. I can't help but think of the good & not the bad when I think of him. I don't want to get back together b/c I don't trust him & things wouldn't be the same. I miss him though.. the man I THOUGHT he was. I don't miss the man he really turned out to be. I hate the idea that someday(if not already) another woman will be w/my husband(& possibly married) He was supposed to be mine forever & now he won't be. What if he treats her better than me? Has anyone else felt like this after divorce? If so, does it get better? I just wish we could be together the way it was supposed to be.

2007-10-08 14:28:22 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2

Its not bad, but does anyone have any suggestions on anything I feel like I'm a bore.

2007-10-08 13:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by alex-mommy 3

I've been living with my partner now for 5months and some how i still feel like a single woman.
Everyday he comes home from work all he wants to do is eat then straight to bed, he even does that on the weekends to so we never really communicate and have conversations unless we are arguing which i'm getting fed up with cause we argue everyday.
We was happy together before i moved in but since i've been living with him (which he wanted me to) this started to happen, I've tryed telling him my feelings but he makes it out like it's my fault and if i leave him i will never be happy with another man and i would want him back.

I love him but this has been going on for to long with the arguing and feeling lonely and sometimes i feel like leaving but im not sure what to do.

Pls any advice on what to do or should i move on?

2007-10-08 13:28:25 · 37 answers · asked by Pink_lady 2