When my husband has been on answers in the past, he asks questions like "girlfriend problems", or "ex-wife is a *****" . It is strange.... we have been married for 14 years.... he also has alot of girl "fans" .... Should I care??
2007-10-08 14:55:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, we are still married. (14 years) He makes his questions out to like he got screwed, so when he gets answers they are all like " dude, that sucks" . so his responses are sympathetic....and he sounds like this nice guy.
2007-10-08 15:11:30 · update #1
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2007-10-08 15:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be asking ex-wife and girlfriend questions? I would do some digging. I have many female friends but it seems strange he asking those types of question. Unless he is trolling for a sympathetic ear.
2007-10-08 22:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on the nature of questions he's answering and asking. If they're relatively innocent, along the lines of "My hubby and I are having a spat. How can we get past it?", then I wouldn't worry.
But if he's always answering "I'm bored with our sex life. Married guys, do you ever feel that way?" or "What do YOU fantasize about in bed?", then I think he's sending signals that you need to have a serious heart to heart.
2007-10-08 22:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Greg R (2015 still jammin') 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess my first Question is ....Are you still married? It's not clear in your question. Is he referring to you as his -ex-wife? If you are still married then ...yes you should care. If you are not still married I wouldn't waste time reading his posts! I know, it's easier said then done. If you are no longer together...start asking some fun questions of your own...Like " how do you handle a man w/ an unusually large ... ? you know what!!!
Good Luck!
2007-10-08 22:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Chestersmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must be looking for entertainment to be making this stuff up. I personally don't see what his thrill could be to act as tho he has these problems that don't exist, and neither do the people he is referring to. I would be upset that he's being ignorant about it. If he were on here for the reason you are on here, and had fans, big deal. But I wouldn't take this so lightly.
2007-10-08 21:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should care if he can't talk to you about his problems with you then its pretty well over by doing this he is putting himself back on the market and I would be very insulted that he is winging to the world and not to you its like putting your problems up in lights for all to see except the one who counts if there is no trust or communication then theres not much left except for him to say poor me poor me and is there anyone out there who will feel sorry for poor me.
2007-10-08 22:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by beebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about should you care, but DO you care? I mean, if you are having an issue with it, then it's an issue, right? I wouldn't take the "fans" on this site too seriously, but if it bothers you, then you should talk to him about it. I don't think my husband would like it if I started connecting with "fans" on this site, so I think you have a legitimate issue.
2007-10-08 22:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by KC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha......Thats typical what a S***Head!!!! well he probably knows he is the one who is in the wrong and is looking for sympathy online.....problem is he should be turning to you!!!
I say join the fun....ask questions about him...or boyfriend problems....turn the tables & see if he reads them or responds....id be curious to see what he says.....Good Luck!!!
2007-10-08 22:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by justbcuzitzfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to stir the pot, but it is a bit odd that he refers to you as his "girlfriend" or "ex-wife". I'd be watching for other signs that something's wrong.
2007-10-08 21:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way you are going to know if you should care is to ask your husband.
I hope it works out for you.
2007-10-08 21:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible he is just trying to entertain himself with that stuff, but my guy can entertain himself just fine on answers without saying things like that. yeah, i might care if it wasnt a joke between us at the moment.
2007-10-08 22:01:17 · answer #11 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋