I caught him in the woods with the neighbors wife. Now he's going broke, after I got 100,000 in the divorce. I'm free as a bird and living a new life. His friends don't know what really happened; he went around telling hateful lies even before we brokeup; he even lied to our daughter and his whole family, telling people that, "she's just crazy." He also had to pay for my new car we had just bought a year before not to mention 250 a wk. for 3 months before the divorce was final. He took our autistic son to a lawyer behind my back and had him sign a paper saying that he wanted to live with him. I just wanted to get away from him; she had him recording my phone calls and he was still spying on me 4 months later; they get drunk and call and harass me, and then I get into trouble if I respond to it; they take ME to court.
2007-10-08 14:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by dotell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He had to borrow the money to pay me on his property (70 acres and a 40 yr old brick ranch) not including his lawyer fees and his whore and all her pets (2 horses and dogs) she got nothing in her divorce (she's been married 4 times) My lawyer has moved to another firm in another town. My ex grew up with the local sheriff and I can't get any justice.
2007-10-08 15:17:46 · update #1
I tried recording their calls, but the judge wouldn't listen. He always was smallminded and bitter but how did I get the blame for all that? He's the crazy one! I've been told I got away with my life and that he is a sociopath. But, why won't they leave me alone? His company is laying off & his hours have been cut (no overtime) I once told him that he couldn't afford a divorce, that he would have to go bankrupt! Was I right?
2007-10-08 15:30:11 · update #2
My daughter is an agnostic; translation- sit on the fence; don't have to choose; I can understand that! But it hurts, because I called her that day; did she think I just made it up?
2007-10-08 15:34:30 · update #3
Changing my number would just cut my son out, not to mention all the job applications floating around out there.
2007-10-08 15:37:42 · update #4
I don't answer their calls, I just get the nasty messages & if I try to call my son, I get her nasty comments in the background.
2007-10-08 15:39:37 · update #5
I'm not whining; I'm just being jerked around by people who are good at lying and no one close to them will tell them what a jerk they are. Fighting back is what got me in trouble; you can't fight a liar. You have no defense when you can't prove anything. I know what I saw. I caught him, and he knows it; why won't he just leave me alone?
2007-10-08 15:47:23 · update #6
Anti-police TROLL
2007-10-12 08:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Record those times that they initiate the contact with you. Record the call itself if you can, or just tell them that you are going to do that, but try not to respond to their bad behaviors, either during the call, or afterwards. To get to you, is what they are hoping for.
If behavior continues consider changing your number.
He sounds like a small minded, bitter man, and you are better off without him. But if the bad behavior continues consider a restraining order on BOTH of them.
As to your daughter, is she old enough to hear the truth? And is your ex now with the neighbor he was caught out with? It could be easier to explain if she can see that they are together now. Ask her perhaps how long it took him to come up with someone to replace you.
As to the friends your ex lied to, and who believed him - no loss, let them go. If they didn't even give you a chance to explain what happened, then you don't need them.
2007-10-08 15:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a decent lawyer to get restraining order's change all your phone number's and reapply to have custody of your son , ring child safety , the school's and for god's sake tell everyone the damn truth why are you keeping quiet?
You are only their victim if you continue to allow yourself to be , how do I know? because I let my ex husband and his drug queen do this to me until this last weekend now he will find out my fight is back and my daughter's happiness come's above their BS.Good luck.
2007-10-08 15:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number, and conduct all contact via your lawyer. If you need to, charge him with harrassment.
2007-10-08 14:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you keep a log, it will stand up in court. Keep everything. When there's enough there, use it!
2007-10-08 14:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don't know how to change your phone number?
2007-10-08 15:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
record and start saving evidence against him. judges do not like his kind.
2007-10-08 14:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order. he's stalking you it sounds like.
2007-10-08 14:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by bee p 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋