Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2007

a hindu girl can marry with a muslim boy without any hurdles of society as we know in indian judicial system it is legal and fully valid,both are legally mature,

2007-10-04 23:03:23 · 14 answers · asked by Dr.J.U. B 1

Real question is, how many of you, who are involved in a serious and long relationship and either you or your partner have cheated, and still are together? If you are still together, is your relationship sucessful? Have you truly forgiven the issue?

2007-10-04 21:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by Sesoid 4

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!

2007-10-04 21:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Ursula M 2

I am married to a great woman and she has a great personality, we have been together for a long time but in recent months she has gained too much weight and now looks like a diabetic walrus that got kicked in the face by a drunken midget wearing platform shoes, she is hideous and if you try to take her food away she will foam at the mouth and throw a frying pan at you!!

What do I do?!

2007-10-04 21:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by I Like Cheese 1

i hav been married to k for da pass 5 yrs. i hav been put through hell. i hav tried to make things work hoping things will be good with us but i find myself living a big lie and i cannot play this role anymore. im a malaysian and i hav a 3yr old son. im worried about his future as i cant see any future wit my husband. i need legal advise from sumone who can give some good advise on getting a divorce. i have thought this through n this is my final my decision. i would really appreciate if someone out ther could sincerely assist me. tks.

2007-10-04 21:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by lilady_d 1

my partner for almost six years have recently decided to call it quits. I could not accept it, and after pleaing and cajoling and throwing tantrums, he began saying things that i found hard to believe to be coming from him. He had not thrown invectives at me but the things that he said tore me apart. Every thing that I thought he meant when we were together were all just a front. I want to break his neck for just saying things that draggled my pride. I just want to move on. But I dont know how to start. I loved him

2007-10-04 21:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by eluded one 2

I have been with my partner 2 years and we have a 5 month old baby he has started wearing boxer shorts & sometimes tracksuit bottoms in bed he has always slept in the nude previously and also gets dressed downstairs now I am lucky to have sex with him once a week I have asked him if he still loves me and said I am concerned he said not to panic and he still loves me but things really dont feel right. He says he is just worried about providing for the family in the future and his stressed. should I be worried he is cheating or bored with me

2007-10-04 21:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if they told you their dad was abusing them, locking them in the dark, spanking them, etc?

I am getting so much mixed advice from family and friends. I am so lost, I dont want his father to be out of his life - but I need to keep my child out of harm's way.

Should I get the child custody arrangement redone? We have a 50/50 legal and physical.

2007-10-04 20:47:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Given that there are no tax benefits, and that children are the responsibility of both parents whether you are married or not?

Also, if your reasons are stability, what sort of stability - emotional, financial?

Was there social pressure in the era/region you got married in?

I'm just curious.

Thanks.

2007-10-04 20:37:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

And he got home late AND you actually thought you saw lipstick on one of the boys, what would you do?

2007-10-04 20:36:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he has reported that he's been spanked and locked in the dark, alone. I asked my ex and he hung up on me, refusing to answer my question.

I want to call authorities, but I don't know what they might do. What are your thoughts on this?

I am also thinking of having the child psychologically evaluated.

2007-10-04 20:19:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which couple would you and your partner be if you could be any couple? Keep in mind that when you pick a couple that you have good reasons to pick taht couple. You should know that couple well enough to say the facts that lead to pick such couple. Think anywhere between Romeo and Juliet to Charles and Camilla to any other point in history. Basically this question is what couple inspires you so much when you take into account their struggles, their heartbreaks, and yes, their triumphs.

Thank you. Take your time to use detail. I have the time to listen.

2007-10-04 20:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

...I'm with my boyfriend 2 months...and he is complaing all the time moslty about food...otherwise he is a very good and positive guy...but here you go likes to complain....

I'm not feeling comfortable with that attitude...and also there is a sign that tomorrow he will do the same with me....

My gut feeling is telling me that something is wrong...I know that bothers me this attitude of complaining but not just that...there is something more than I cannot explain....

Any similar experiences....

I'm I overeacting or am I right to be afraid that he is not the one...?

2007-10-04 20:11:12 · 10 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

My marriage has not been peachy cream, however I hold true to "for better or for worse". I got pregnant he walked out of my life when I was 3 months and left me with the mortage and no financial support. We have been seperated 7 months to this date and he has indicated he has moved on with another women and has admitted to cheating on me from day one. I have delieverd the baby and I can count on one hand how many times he has visit her. I never hear from him and when I call he never answers the phone, I dont know were he resides. Its like he just packed up and moved on as if I never exsist...This is very puzzling to me because how could a man whom you married do such a thing....Part of me loves him and the other half would like the opportunity to whoop his a$$! He has not filed for divorce as of yet and I feel why should I be the one to do so when he walked out on me and plus how could I afford it? I have cried so much these past months Im suprised I still have tears. Dont judge!!!

2007-10-04 20:01:56 · 22 answers · asked by canonlybeloved 1

My ex-husband & I share custody of our daughter & she has pierced ears, my ex had put some gold small hoop earrings in her ears (she's 3 yrs old & normally she wears studs) & I expressed my concern about them. He told me not to worry & she would be fine. Now I am against the whole thing with babies having pierced ears, but it was done without my consent or knowledge & I never took the earrings out because I wanted to keep the peace. Anyhow, being 3 years old she plays a lot at pre-school & toss & turns when she sleeps. One day I noticed that the earrings were missing & I couldn't find them. My ex wants me to give him $75 to replace them. My ex has a court order to pay half of pre-school costs & has never given me one cent towards it. He owes me thousands & thousands of dollars for pre-school. He also owes my Mother about $800 for misc. things from when we were married. Should I give him the $75? Should I deduct it from the money he owes me? Or should I not owe him any money at all?

2007-10-04 19:50:25 · 16 answers · asked by italian_princess_oc 3

i have no experience in contraceptives and what is best to use. Please advise me on what contraception i can use. It will be my first time.

Thanks, God bless

2007-10-04 19:11:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 15 years has had four very part time jobs. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. The problem is she is friendly to everyone around and she goes out of her way to say hello to good looking men. I have caught her in very close encounters with more men than I can list. I know some of them have been closer than I think most men can tolerate. She tells me she is just being friendly. I just think that she wants the attention and it makes me wonder how far it goes. She has said for the last year that she doesn't go out of her way to be friendly where in fact she has three very close men all over her. Why do I worry? Four short jobs and 7 guys have told her that they wanted to take her to bed. I guess that is the friendly part I worry about.

2007-10-04 19:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for the past 12 years, We got together because I got pregnant I was only 15 at the time. I told him It's best if we separate but he doesn't want to. He says If I don't like it maybe I should leave but I don't want to leave my kids. What should I do?

2007-10-04 19:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

like if your just unhappy

2007-10-04 18:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4

What size do you consider perfect or is it just bigger is better ?

2007-10-04 18:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by "THE DEVIL" 2

My brother broke up with his girlfriend, because she's always saying that her parents hit her and even send her to the doctors, last night he called the cops to take her home and also so they can talk about her issue about her parents threating her like crap. He really loves her and now we are seeking for help but he is going to trun 19 on dec. and she is 17....!!

2007-10-04 18:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by Liz 1

i have married to man for last 2yrs, it is a love *** arrange marriage. i love my husband very much, he too loves me but he is not ready to live his parents, his brother and his wife always tries to create misunderstaning between both of us. i am a working women whole day i am out of house, my sis-in-law is a housewife in the afternoon time she comes to our place and also create misunderstanding about me in my in-laws mind. some time i feel to kill her and her husband and even my in-laws who tries to keep me and my husband away from each other. Help me friends i am confused

2007-10-04 18:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

kind of forced by family for financial purposes. aski g this for a friend its from a womans perspective

2007-10-04 18:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4

How do women want to be loved? What does it take for them to be happy with their spouse?

2007-10-04 18:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by csn_zm 1

I'm 23..I was born and raised in America but my parents are of Lebanese decent but have been here for over 40 years.. My parents won't let me marry a guy I have been in love with for a year now because his parents are not from the same village as my parents. We (me and him) are both Lebanese and have the same religion, but come from different villages (a village I have never seen because I've never been to my parent's country). What do you think?

2007-10-04 18:10:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 18:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by ishe 1

2007-10-04 17:58:19 · 15 answers · asked by cristelle R 6

I heard in some countries; married women are allowed to have sex outside marriage; and husband has no right to stop her is it so ?

2007-10-04 17:49:19 · 19 answers · asked by cietadelarock 1

I met someone online and we have shared a couple of emails. I am not married yet nor have I had children yet. Kelly said she was married and had children and said in one email she had been busy "being a mother and a wife" that week. I can understand being busy being a mother but what does a wife do that takes up so much time?????????? (Seriously.)

2007-10-04 17:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll try to make this as short and sweet as possible: There was this girl I know, and her and this guy grew up together in this small home town. He was 17, she was 18 when they fell in love. They were ripped apart by the girls parents because of religious differences. Because of their youth, and immaturity and the girls desire to please her parents, she remained out of contact with the guy despite the fact that the guy spent years searching for her.

A couple years later,the girl met another man. Because of the same religious issues,they married. The girl didn't want to marry, but this man had committed some minor sexual indescretions with her, and told her that they had to either marry or tell her dad what they had done.

This girl had an unnerving desire not to displease her dad with this info, and thought she was in love at the time with this man, so she eloped with this man.

Years of unhappiness followed. After four years of unstable marriage, a child was born....

2007-10-04 17:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by lockedbeauty 3