Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2007

i am under shock, we just got back together again 5 weeks ago ,and now he left me again, to go back to his co-worker whom he left me for the 1st time. yes i took his sorry behind back and was willing to try to make it work, (we been together for 6 years) . i knew he saw this girl everyday at work and called her a lot but i was hoping and praying he would stay with me. i am devestated and can't go to work tonight, how do i deal with this mess, i am in tears and atthis moment feel like dying. he left me a letter explaining it was all my falt and he is in love with his co-worker that hurts! help somebody

2007-10-04 07:44:48 · 24 answers · asked by maria s 2

I read it a on a friend of mine's blog...I thought it was very interesting. I agree with some things on it and I disagree with other things

lemme know what you guys think?

"Don't hate me because I am white.

You pass me on the street and sneer in my direction.

You call me "Cracker", "Honkey", "Whitey" and even "The Man" and you think it's OK.

But when I call you, "******", "Kike", "Towelhead", "Sand-******", "Camel Jockey", "Beaner" or "Chink" you call me a racist.

You say that whites commit a lot of violence against you, so why are the ghettos the most dangerous places to live?

You say that you want to make a change in this country.

How? By protesting everything that we believe in? By trying to change everything that has made this country run fine for centuries?

You have Martin Luther King Day.

You have Cesar Chavez Day.

You have Yom Hashoah

You have Cinco de Mayo

You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi

If we had a White Pride Day you would call us racists.

In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your race and rights.

If we marched for our race and rights, you would call us racists.

You enjoy the thought of Driver's Licenses for illegals.

We enjoy the thought of people obeying the laws of the land in which they reside. No negotiations.

You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you're not afraid to announce it.

But when we announce our white pride, you call us racists.

You call each other "******", but when we call you that, you call us racists.

You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us.

But, when a white police officer shoots a gang member or beats up a drug-dealer running from the law and posing a threat to society, you call him a racist.

We work hard to preserve our history.

You come along and try to re-write it.

We want a safe environment for our families and children.

You want to bring the ghetto to our neighborhoods.

I am white.

I am proud.

I am an American.

But, you call me a racist.

2007-10-04 07:40:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got divorced 4 years ago. 2 years after my divorce i met who i thought was Ms. perfect. she seemed great with my kids, seemed to be the perfect woman: watched football, drank beer, beautiful, intelligent. then 2 months into the marriage she started getting real jealous, moody, argumentative using incredibly foul language, and then like a switch turned off her feelings for me and left after she had an affair and then had an abortion. she told me i was the love of her life and to never leave her then turns around and leaves me. it's my 2nd divorce and i thought i did it right the second time. i was careful. she was so good in the beginning but was so ugly on the inside after something switched inside her. her family always told me "she'll cut you out of her life in a second" and "she needs to be on her meds". i'm heartbroken because i loved her and gave her everything else i had left after my first divorce.

2007-10-04 07:39:45 · 28 answers · asked by survivor 1

Marriage gives the husband control over the wife's sexual services, labor, and/or property; gives the wife control over the husband's sexual services, labor, and/or property.

If one side withholds sex would that be a breach of contract?

Would such a breach of contract justify the other party to withhold any income received from their labor, and/or property?

2007-10-04 07:37:37 · 23 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

He is in the Army and we live on base so paying for houseing is not a problem. We have been married for 8 months and we seem to never have money. He got paid Fri, and with out paying any of our bills we now have $30. He spends atleast $50 to $60 aday. He wants kids but how can I have kids with him while being scared that we wont be able to take care of them. I only have enough food for dinner to last 3 days and payday is more then a week away.

This is making my life very hard. I have been depressed and it is hurting our sex life. I sold my car to move out here with him and I quit a great job. I left my whole life behind and he tells me things will change. I am very limited to where I can work because of old injurys I got while in the Army.

My heart is telling me to stay with him. But my stess level may be killing me. I dont sleep any more except maybe 4hrs aday. Im sick after eating. Im already on Meds.

What do I do???

BTW I dont spend any money other then grocreys.

2007-10-04 07:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by This Sucks 3

Marriage gives the husband control over the wife's sexual services, labor, and/or property; gives the wife control over the husband's sexual services, labor, and/or property.

If one side withholds sex would that be a breach of contract?

Would such a breach of contract justify the other party to withhold any income received from their labor, and/or property?

2007-10-04 07:37:18 · 4 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

i had a affair with my husband co-worker who is black and found out that im three month preganet and i don,t know what to do since im from mexico and i have two little ones with me ! and i don,t know how to tell my kids or my mother in-law.

2007-10-04 07:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by carmen g 1

Hi! Where do I even begin. My husband has had custody of his two kids (13 and 11) for 6 years. We have been together for 2 years and I love them like they were my own. Their mom moved 6 years ago 360 miles away to be with another man. Now that I am in the picture, the claws are out. She is constantly claiming I am trying to be their mother and badmouthing me to the kids. The 13 year old boy blows it off, but the 11 year old girl worships the ground she walks on. My theory is this...Their dad and I are the ones that run them to all of their activities, games, campouts, and school activities. We come to their band concerts, parent lunches etc. We stay up and help them with 4H projects, study for homework, and other things. I am so frustrated though because I feel that if SHE was the mom they needed - they wouldn't come to me for all those things. I just don't know what to do. I am trying to be positive for the kids sake. But..I dont want to overstep my boundaries. Advice?

2007-10-04 07:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a Friend That needs a Divorce from Her Husband that she Fears For Her Life. How Does She Go about making this Happen without Him knowing where she Is???

2007-10-04 07:28:30 · 1 answers · asked by saintmichaelisme 1

a DNA test was done to the child, and is my husbands child. I cannot forgive him. I found out he cheated and had a baby with some else through a phone call. I have a baby with him too who is 10 months old. Should I try to work things up ? or should I leave him?

2007-10-04 07:12:56 · 21 answers · asked by BONITA 1

How many secrets have you been told that you will never repeat and of those secrets would someone’s life change if you would sever the confidence placed on you?
Are you a good secret keeper or would you rather not know?

2007-10-04 07:09:44 · 19 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6

I hear it all the time at work at winn-dixie. It sounds like an hispanic guy singing it but nothing is in spanish.
What is the name of this young and who sings it?

2007-10-04 07:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband lost his beloved sister this weekend, and we were discussing periods of mourning and what it entails, for example no social gatherings, not going to movies, etc...? I needed some help and want to know what is the acceptable time period, and what activities one should not engage for during this period? I know people mourn in different ways, some go on trips and some year black for a year or so. I guess it depends on the person, their culture, and religion. I feel guilty accepting a friend's dinner invite, but my husband seems not to have a problem if I do accept, or so he says. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-10-04 07:00:09 · 22 answers · asked by Laura C 2

2007-10-04 06:58:35 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

with denis having a kid that is not mine

2007-10-04 06:54:51 · 16 answers · asked by BONITA 1

I just don't get it

2007-10-04 06:54:41 · 12 answers · asked by Me 3

I'm 26, been married for 9 years, we have kids together and I've been completely dependant on him. I stayed home and took care of my family. So, I have no way of supporting my children let alone myself. I can't go to anyone in my family since they don't have enough room for us. What do I do? I'm at my wits end. It's not just being unhappy; it's also putting up with abuse. I don't want to take my kids to a shelter but what other options do I have?

2007-10-04 06:52:17 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1

I really need to leave home i am 14yrs old but i dont want to run away. I live in England what can i do?
I get treated badly by my parents please HELP ME

2007-10-04 06:52:04 · 5 answers · asked by everybodylookatme 2

adults only.

2007-10-04 06:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is very dear, but his jealousy does not do our relationship any good. today he crapped all over me for taking one of our workers to his work site in my car. to me I am simply doing our job. we have a construction business together and is doing very well, but I cannot accept living under this continious strains anymore. after the "drama' this morning I switch of my cell and just "disappreared" for the day...how do I handle this

2007-10-04 06:50:01 · 22 answers · asked by wife in South Africa 2

2007-10-04 06:32:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recieved a call from the prosecutors office saying my ex says my son lives with him 50% of the time. But he only is there 6 days out of the month. My brother watches my son so I don't have reciepts for all the daycare expenses. Now he says he is getting a lawyer to take it to court. Any advice?

2007-10-04 06:31:46 · 7 answers · asked by Intrigued..... 2

orally let her husband, you know, do you think she will be mad if she finds out?

2007-10-04 06:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by It wasn't me... 2

Hello i want to know that is there any way to find in first night that my wife is virgin or not

2007-10-04 06:29:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 7 years (together for 10) We both came from troubled pasts (abusive parents, rough childhoods) and have had some bad luck in our marriage as well with-job loss(2 full years), money trouble, health troubles etc. We have two children and like most people very busy lives. My question is that it seems we have lost each other...we don't get along like we used to, we fight, I feel bitter towards him and I am sure he feels the same towards me...neither of us really feels like the other respects the other. One day things are good and the next it's like we barely like each other. I love my husband and I want my family to be happy. Can you give me some marriage advice to try and bring the happiness back into our marriage? What do you do in your marriage to get over the rough spots? I feel lost and like I can't make it work. I want so much to be a great wife and mother. I want my house to be a safe haven for my family....any advice would be helpful. Thanks

2007-10-04 06:26:54 · 27 answers · asked by aerofrce1 6

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and recently we took it to the next level. And he wrote me a letter which quoted Exodus 22:16, which states that if a man takes the virginity of an unmarried female it is his responsibilty to marry her (or there about). Is this some odd way for him to ask me to marry him?

2007-10-04 06:11:58 · 40 answers · asked by ash_night2001 1

I married an old lady about 10 years older than me .She does not loves me .My father and brothers hate me because of my lazyness .My mother died .How can I remain Happy and who can support me . Should I adopt a child or hire a servant.

2007-10-04 06:11:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Again for those who did not get it from this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...

I want to know how you would react or do if you were married to the one you love the most in this life and your faiths decided to battle over who has the rights to your child? You are already married because you LOVE one another already. Most missed the question totally in that so I am re stating it again differently so more understand it.

This is about what you would do if you were already married to someone with differant beliefs and you are NOT going to leave but your Church, Synagouge or whatever is trying to interfere with it? What do you do then?

I hope that clarifies this questions
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...

TY.

2007-10-04 06:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Legend Gates Shotokan Karate 7

My ex dumoted me and told me he didnt want to be a dad, and that he didnt want the kid, now since ive been dating another guy and hes been involved in my pregnany. my ex has been calling me and texing me telling me hes the only father and my bf cant love his son and if he thinks hes gonna be a dad to his son hes gonna kick his ***. and hes basically being a jelouse ***. now he wants to be involved in the pregnancy and in his sons life.. can someone peferably guys help me out with this question. hes also saying he wants nothing to do with me he just wants his son and he wants me to give him custody. this is a kid that does drugs and parties all the time. he could never handle a kid.

2007-10-04 06:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife refuses to go to work - she doesn't want to put our son in daycare. But she just lays around the house all day. She does do housework, but so do I. I have asked her to join Ebay and other ideas. It is now getting to the point where it is interfering in our marriage. Help please.

2007-10-04 06:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by willie_tell 1