Again for those who did not get it from this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...
I want to know how you would react or do if you were married to the one you love the most in this life and your faiths decided to battle over who has the rights to your child? You are already married because you LOVE one another already. Most missed the question totally in that so I am re stating it again differently so more understand it.
This is about what you would do if you were already married to someone with differant beliefs and you are NOT going to leave but your Church, Synagouge or whatever is trying to interfere with it? What do you do then?
I hope that clarifies this questions
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...
TY.
2007-10-04 06:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Legend Gates Shotokan Karate 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
CC I cant answer that, its not me they are friends of mine and who knows why, they love each other that is all i know.
2007-10-04 06:21:07 · update #1
I never thumb down unless someone is rude to me so any one that gets one its not from me. it only breads more hate.
2007-10-04 06:22:01 · update #2
Its not a question of picking some one of your own faith or not, THAT choice was already made and they have no problem with it, THEIR Church and Synagogue DO! They just want to live in peace.
2007-10-04 06:23:12 · update #3
janetrmi & A -Sexual - I agree with you they should butt out, but they are not and my friends of course being believers fear being damned or excommunicated or even worst their kids. It is a sad day when parents are not allowed to raise their own kids as they see fit. i agree let t hem learn both or all aspects of religion both theist and non theist and let them choose. The Religions do not want that, they want yo uat birth to do baptims and or what ever they do in the Jewish faith. I agree a compimise much be reached but how to comprise with two fanatics? If they were normal like most then their would be no problem. I say leave them alone but All I can do is ask advice how to assist them I cannot actually do anything more than that. Thanks you both understood my question also.
2007-10-04 07:57:13 · update #4
I didn't read your other question or the answers, but what i gather is that you are asking what to do when the churches are fighting over a child that is the product of two people with different religions. If that is the case, this is what i would do (and I'm not a religious person):
There needs to be a compromise, not only between the parents, but between the churches. it is my understanding that "God" lets the people choose how to worship Him. Many churches want to baptize children when they are really young (which I'm almost assuming is what is going on right now and thus the fighting). So, i would Bless, rather than baptize, the child in both churches. Take the child to each church on an alternating basis, and when that child gets old enough to decide for itself which church it likes best, let the child choose. When the child chooses which church it wants to stick with, have the kid wait till he/she is older to get baptized in that church (kids and teens can change their minds so often...). Honestly, i don't know why people always have to fight about these things instead of compromise.
2007-10-04 06:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by JaneDoe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, why did you marry someone out of your faith if you knew it was a problem? These are things that should have been discussed before marriage.
I guess I still don't understand the question. If this is a rhetorical question and I was placed in this situation, and we didn't discuss these details before marriage, we would have to come up with some sort of compromise. What compromise is that? Not sure since I'm not religious.
Then maybe they need to switch churches. They can choose to live in peace, if that is what they wish. Again, I'm kind of ignorant when it comes to religion, but can they practice their beliefs at home?
2007-10-04 06:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would tell the churches to butt out. That it is none of their business. I would teach the child both faiths and then when the child is old enough to understand, let that child decide which faith he wants to belong to.
2007-10-04 06:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the church to butt out. Wait until the child is old enough to decide what faith(if any) that he/she wants to be.
2007-10-04 06:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seems to have sixty seven contacts& all of them will by no ability be lively contributors in RS area, some in politics & few social involved persons may be. Their entertainment time should additionally enable them. You glide form of matters & can not assume all respond concurrently. there may be some inner politics which i don't come for the duration of.
2016-10-21 00:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your faith is that strong that I would hope you would choose someone with the same faith.
However, if you have fallen for someone of a different faith, then you have a choice to make.
You decide what you should do with your own life, not your faith deciding it for you.
Tell all of the outside interference to mind their own business.
2007-10-04 06:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Classic religious people's reactions. Yeah let's fight about it.
Unfortunately those are the kinds of things that disgust me about all religion.
I would tell both of them to f**K off.
2007-10-04 06:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋