Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2007

He locked me in the house,closed my yahoo account(I think I forgot to sign out),took my cellphone etc, because I was honest enough to tell him I had cheated on him.

2007-09-30 23:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by adasnameismalika 1

Am married for 3 years now , but my husband doesnt spend time with me , he is not busy at work , he is always at his family he remeber he has wife when he needs to have ...........
so i need some attention in my life , love ,

2007-09-30 22:42:56 · 20 answers · asked by ZED 1

she is working. rich.

2007-09-30 22:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by jens george pulpally 1

For all ladies in relationships-

I need to prove to my husband that I am not the only woman on this planet who feels this way and so I would like others comments.

How would you feel if your husband/partner was living away from home; wining and dining with other women; taking them out; sightseeing; letting them lodge in his flat?

What would you do if your husband said it was all just 'innocent' when everyone around you is raising their eyebrows and wagging their tongues?

What would you think was going on? What would any normal, half decent human being think was going on?

Your comments, suggestions and experiences would be most grateful so I can prove that I am not the only cynical and frustrated wife out there.

2007-09-30 22:04:21 · 22 answers · asked by missylassie 1

2007-09-30 21:57:47 · 19 answers · asked by crazycovey21 3

I am looking for a man with a business oriented mind, that respects foreigners and that is interested in traveling to other countries. ( Also is not afraid of a well educated woman). Most of all, a man that doesn't try to control me, beat me and allows me freedom of thought. I've looked at church...nothing. I've asked friends to hook me up... nothing . Where do I need to look? And plz don't reference Match.com

2007-09-30 21:23:17 · 22 answers · asked by tigeress 1

2007-09-30 21:15:39 · 14 answers · asked by ms_mint 1

2007-09-30 20:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by safeen q 1

2007-09-30 20:27:09 · 15 answers · asked by mackem 1

My best friend travels a lot to Morocco, he met an 18 years old beautiful girl at a local club. She was making money in exchange for sex(prostitution). They were dating for 2 years, she stoped prostituting and they are very much in love. He had decided to mary her and bring to the states where they can start a family. He told me that he loves her and most importyantly saving her from a rough and hard life of prostitution. What is your opinion???

2007-09-30 20:15:19 · 25 answers · asked by lucky_not 1

2007-09-30 19:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by johnnie j 1

My boyfriend has been seperated for a few years now from his wife. They have one boy together. In the past few months she has refused to let my boyfriend see his son because he is not paying her what she wants in child support. She wants double what he is supposed to be paying (nothing is court ordered but he has a copy of the Family Law charts).

They have no set visitation schedule and are not yet divorced. When he started getting the paperwork going a couple years ago she told him she couldn't afford a divorce. He wants full custody of his son but he is not in the living arrangements to do so therefore he is holding off on the divorce as if they got divorced a custody battle would start.

What is really bad is his son's mother lives over an hour away and has recently moved so he does not even know what school his son is attending.

What can he do to be able to see his son?

2007-09-30 19:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by CSF 6

I found out that my Husband cheated with his coworker, at first he said they were just friends, but I found love letters and poems telling eachother how they want to do eachother. We've been Married for 8 yrs and have five kids. I'm so hurt and confused.

2007-09-30 19:14:53 · 28 answers · asked by so_delicious79 1

Don't get married, by the dubliners

Either for men or women:

Don't get married girls, you'll sign away your life
You may start off as a woman, but you'll end up as the wife
You could be a vestal virgin, take the veil and be a nun
But don't get married girls, for marriage isn't fun

Oh, it's fine when you're romancing and he plays a lover's part
You're the roses in his garden, you're the flame that warms his heart
And his love will last forever and he'll promise you the moon
But just wait until you're wedded and he'll sing a different tune
You're his tapioca pudding, you're the dumplings in his stew
And he'll soon begin to wonder what he ever saw in you
Still he takes without complaining all the dishes you provide
But you see he has to have his bit of jam tart on the side

So don't get married girls, it's very badly paid
You may start off as the mistress, but you'll end up as the maid
Be a daring deep-sea diver, be a polished polyglot
But don't et caetera...

2007-09-30 19:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got 3 properties of which 1 of them my fiance don't know about it. He is currently renting in one of my properties. We planned to stay in one of my properties after we got married because his house is far from our work area. He found out that I've put my son as the beneficiary of everything I have so he demands that I should make him a joint beneficiary of my house together with my son. What is your advice.

2007-09-30 18:47:29 · 19 answers · asked by ntso77 1

I live in northern California. My soon to be x-wife and I have been separated since July 2007. We have agreed through mediation to 51%/49% custody of our two and half year old daughter. When I have her, my x shows up unexpectedly and un-invited to make sure I am alone, not drinking or doing anything else that might put our daughter in jeopardy. I want to know if it's legal or not? There is no provision in our divorce that states she (or me for that matter) can check up on one another. It's anoying, frustrating and I am getting mad. Does someone know??

Sincerely,

K :|

2007-09-30 18:47:03 · 15 answers · asked by jasoncorbett99 1

my friend, a ldy of 26yrs got married 2 a person who works far off. IT was an arranged marriage he couldnt take her along citing visa problems , they stayed together for 7 days , they had lots of time togethe,r both liked each other, lots of foreplay but no lovemaking . he was not impotent ,he came back after 6 months but again every thing fine but no lovemaking citing tiredness due to lag jet ...stayed for 14 day to come back after 6 months...... this time same story .. was very shy even to buy a condom....... she went and got one but he never thought of using it...........meanwhile she was very depressed he started blaming her for every thing used to side with others when she had a tiff with his relatives . she finally left him but couldnt find answer to this strange predicament , any suggestions

2007-09-30 18:44:48 · 8 answers · asked by emily 3

This friend of mine is also married ,so we are actually couples friends.I find that my husband is so very nice to her to the point that he constantly calls everybody around him by her name if she is present like hello that is all that is on his mind.I talked to him about propriety in certain relationships and we agreed that he was going to stop and he says he did not realize that he does that.When walking together he keeps pace with her and not me and I am quite disadvantaged being pregnant and all so I am not really walking at everybod's pace.Is this something i should worry about and confront him again about it and if so how should I do it or should I just let go

2007-09-30 18:38:54 · 9 answers · asked by sunshinecee 1

My husband and I are located in Texas and discussing divorce. He wants me to leave the apartment where the lease is in my name with his name as a tenant/roommate. We began renting this apartment after we were married and his credit was so bad the apartment complex would not put him as an actual lease holder.

Additionally, he has been unemployed for 2 years now, only working for about 2 months out of that, and I have been paying for everything. I know...I got myself a catch...

So my question: Does he have a right to kick me out? And if so, will I still be liable to pay rent as he is expecting me to do?

I will be discussing this with my apt complex tomorrow, and possibly contacting a lawyer, but I just wanted to know people's thought/suggestions until then. Thank you for your help.

2007-09-30 18:11:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife wants a divorce. i don't. She is unwilling to work things out. We have been married for 3 years and together for 6. She says she does not feel the same way about me as she used to. We have an 18 month old son. How do i let her go?

2007-09-30 18:07:37 · 9 answers · asked by bingobrozz 1

He is already next in line to his female boss who is also married and is the daughter in the family who owns the business.

2007-09-30 17:49:26 · 27 answers · asked by Tita 1

do you think it's a time bomb waiting to explode in the longwrong

2007-09-30 17:07:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were going to get married to the person you're with now in a few years, and you and your best friend planned on her being the maid of honor, but then something happened and your other can't stand your best friend and really don't want her to be in the wedding...would you drop her and find a new maid of honor, or would you keep her? I already know what my answer is, just wanted to get other peoples ideas. Also...you know that her being their would mess up his mood, which would mess up your mood, which would mess up the mood of the wedding. Oh....and who's getting the Jungle Book dvd?? I keep seeing commercials for it! Yay! ok.

2007-09-30 17:00:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i keep seeing questions from children, why? this is suppose to be for married/divorced adults. who lets their kids read this stuff? can you block them?

2007-09-30 16:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by paula t. 3

my name is Emma i'm 12 and i live with my dad, and 2 little step sisters and step mom. my step mom is only live to my step sisters which are her kids. when she moved into our 2 bedroom house (it was my dad and i , thats why it was so small) i had to move into the attick, which is my room now. and my 2 step sister got my room. she makes me clean the whole house, wassh dishes, do laundry, baby sit, EVERYTHING. when i said no she smacked me across the face. ive been talknig to my dad but he says shes a great person. HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME ANYMORE. my mom died last year, and i dont have any other siblings or family members to live with. HELP ME PLEASE.

2007-09-30 16:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when she hears some one call me by my nick name she will repeat it sometimes and she walks pretty close and sync with me. I walked really close to her one day and as i walked by out of the corner of my eye i could see her eying me down and she constantly fixes her hair and clothes when im near. Today she hid something on me and i still cant find it but i know she is the one it moved it but she hasnt told me. I was sitting next to her and she kept brushing agiasnt me and she would keep her arm touching mine more a while like it didnt bother her at all we were touching. ME make eye contact quite often with blank expressions in croweded places

im 18 in high school this is all pretty subtle and we know eachother but not really good

2007-09-30 16:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 16:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn E 1

got a detailed bill, his boss says their just friends, he says just let them be friends,whats the matter with that...i said he's married to me not a bar whore. goes out at nite her husband knows doesn't care dsnt care not going thr. another divorce.tells me to ride by work,see him,he's on the phone, not his. tells me i'm delousional ,crazy,seeing things,i'm trying to work it out (hard)what tipe of friend would do that he gets every thing he needs at home...&more.how can i get over the hurt?i'm trying to work this out,but his friend thinks i'm making a big deal..he even told me he was leaving me for her, she won't leave her mill$$$husband.. not totally stupid has their cake and eats it too..hurts everyone in between we've been with each over28yrs.

2007-09-30 15:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by amber 1

I completely destroyed my entire life. I betrayed and lied to the only person who ever truly loved me. In doing so I ruined my family, and hurt my daughter by splitting up her parents. I lost it and messed up everything I had worked for my whole life nor to mention all the pain and anguish I caused my wife and daughter. I don't deserve sympathy, I am ashamed and embarrased of what I did. I cannot do anything to repair it, some things you just can't take back. I have told everyone we know the whole truth and taken full responsibility and apologized profously but no apology could ever be enough. I don't want to die, I just don't think I am worth being here anymore and think everyone would be better off without me.

2007-09-30 15:35:47 · 42 answers · asked by eleroth 3

i want to spice up things again what can i do? any ideas? please help...

2007-09-30 15:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by pink! 2