Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2007

2007-09-30 05:21:13 · 26 answers · asked by fastflyer14 1

is 62 and this man "Bill" is like 73. He is total opposite of my dad, and he does stupid b.s. to my Mom like if he thinks she takes too long visiting with her family while he is home, he will call up another lady friend and take her to dinner. Anyway, this type of treatment is new to my Mother because my Dad never acted so stupid. The newest thing was yesterday. She called me and said she wanted the picture back of my Dad that I had taken of him up in the mountains in Montana on vacation and had frammed for her after he died, which she gave back to me after she moved in with Bill. I ask her was she putting it up at Bill's house and the way she answered "yep!" I knew it was a revenge move. I said why, does Bill have a picture up of his wife? She said 'yep!" and I told her no, that I wasn't going to allow her to use my Dad's picture for some stupid little immature jealousy game over two people that have died! Then I hung up. Was I right or wrong. Please be honest.

2007-09-30 05:19:23 · 18 answers · asked by Corona 5

Ladies, what is the best naughty(aka, sexual) gift you have given your man?

2007-09-30 05:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is 41 years old , but he is still very attached to his mother, he tells her every personal things about me and things she should'nt know , and he gives her all the updated information about our lives ,he knows it bothers me and i warned him many times but he still does it .what is your advice!!!!!

2007-09-30 04:28:48 · 19 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

2007-09-30 04:07:24 · 16 answers · asked by tony s 5

In 2 weeks I have to appear in court for the State against my ex hub for lack of paying child support. I need to know how others feel, if I have a right to the support or not. Here is the situation: My ex and I were married 17 years. We have 4 beautiful kids. In the divorce settlement, I gave him everything. I just wanted out.. I gave up my childcare business ( I couldnt keep it --license does not travel with you,and anyway I moved into an apartment-kinda hard to take 16 kids with you lol)He got the house, the 4 snowmobiles, 2 boats, his car he was restoring, his business I helped him build, most of our household goods-furniture--including lots brand new, I took my china huth, a few home interior pics, and the vaccume. I bought my own dishes and towels ect. He wouldn't even let me take the kid's beds they got for Christmas. When we first divorced, 2 kids stayed with him and 2 with me. He got a lawyer, i didnt get one. He decided the child support. I didn't contest anything-

2007-09-30 03:29:22 · 17 answers · asked by tammie h 2

I just wondered if women really believe that all men are the same. They are all dogs. Also, the old saying once a cheater, always a cheater. I just wanted to see what people think.

2007-09-30 03:25:37 · 17 answers · asked by swtme810 2

When we were in college everynite for 4 years was a party, but we all graduated. Well one of my friends just don't get it we have been out of school 4 or five years now and to him every day is still a party. He does not have a job he does not want a job he says he does but he doesn't actually look. Then the job he did have mind you it was a great job, he quit because the schedule interferred with his party time. I try to tell him man we out of college u cant do the same things anymore. Now my girl lives with me. He asked to come stay wit me to find a job, mind u my girl knows his habits so she doesn't want him there. I understand her he wants to stay out till 4 everynite knowing i would have to work, this would not be good for my carreer or my relationship. Then i try to explain to him you have one chance at your life i know u don't want to be 35 wit a dead end job, you get out of life what u put in. It seems he thinks u don't put in **** and get it all back, will he change

2007-09-30 03:20:24 · 16 answers · asked by raradaone 2

2007-09-30 03:11:39 · 37 answers · asked by Soilderblue 1

2007-09-30 03:10:33 · 6 answers · asked by nahsss.. 1

I have recently been feeling like my boyfriend and I are on shaky ground. I've just been considering the possiblity of ending our relationship. One thing I have always loved about him is that he believes in monogamy with his whole heart. He would never cheat on me. He doesn't even look at other women. This seems to me to be a very rare quality in a man. Men and women, what do you think?

2007-09-30 03:02:07 · 24 answers · asked by Missy 5

I am taking the kids to Australia for 5 weeks over Christmas, I have already paid for the tickets and my ex has now said he will getting an injuction to stop me taking the kids??? my dad who lived with us died last month and a holiday is just what me and the kids need, we went last after my divorce 3 years ago to be near my family. He didn't mind that time because he thought he would be in prison at the time but ended up getting off with it. since we split he has been on over 20 holidays (in 3 and half years) including Portugal for the football, dubai, caymen islands and many others, me and the kids have been to Oz and Majorca once and to my dads caravan in yorkshire.

I think he is a selfish pig

what do you think?? and can he stop me taking the kids?????

2007-09-30 02:52:57 · 16 answers · asked by Cindy 2

3 days ago, my fiance broke up with me thus ending our 7 yr long relationship. There was no clear reason why he wanted the break up. That left me feelin crazy, broken, disappointed, cheated and everythin else negative. I'm 26 n he is 29. As adults, I expect him to talk over problems with me. But he didn't and this breakup is like his own decision solely. And worst still, he broke up with me thru sms! When I called him, he ignored my calls. I just can't seem to get a proper explainations. I've been feelin suicidal ever since. I just dunno how to move on. It hurts so much and the pain is so excruciating. What have I done wrong? I've got no one to talk to and i'm bottling up all my feelings and emotions. Somehow I feel that hurtin or killin myself would help. I know its stupid n totally useless but I dunno how else can I survive this.I've done and sacrificed so much for him and he just left me this way. Please knock some sense in my head.

2007-09-30 02:50:45 · 27 answers · asked by Amelia Adams 2

Before I met my current husband I was not at all selective about who I slept with. I had close to 15 male sexual partners before the age of 21.

In my early twenties I developed a metabolic disorder that keeps me from being thin, no matter how much diet or exercise I get. The men stopped approaching me because, presumably, not many men want to sleep with overweight women. In hindsight, it probably saved my life because it was only a matter of time before I got AIDS or some other terrible disease.

I met a wonderful man when I was 22 who didn't care that I wasn't thin, and we got married. I am now 40 and still overweight.

I am wondering, if I ever lost the weight through new drugs or medical procedures, would I go back to being promiscuous as I was before I gained the weight? I don't want to cheat on my husband, but I wonder if the temptation would be too great not to seek out that kind of rush of excitement from a man?

2007-09-30 02:46:41 · 22 answers · asked by J Mack 3

we,ve been trying for three years to get back together after divorce, i,ve sought counseling,but he keeps saying he doesn,t feel comfortable to talk to a counselor,but he didn,t have trouble talking to a certain women at work, which he ended up having a affair with, only to ask me to take him back afterwards. which i tried,but i just can,t get past the affair ,because he shows no remorse for his actions. why did i keep trying? CONFUSED!

2007-09-30 02:37:24 · 13 answers · asked by kathleenwanabee 2

2007-09-30 02:10:27 · 27 answers · asked by digibin2003 1

when i say 'cheat' i mean elevated to championship status to the point that in his school's newsletter (he's a coach) they refer him as 'an expert with the 'amazons' (a woman's team). everybody knows and he is quite open and proud about it and they both act like nothing is going on. they have a small child and he was cheating before marriage/after marriage/ while pregnancy/ after etc. of course nobody tells her nothing and they seem to hide this from each other and maintain an outgoing social life (under 40 both).
of course it's not my business to tell her... but i just don't get it. i mean he has hit me, my sister, every girl i know. what is the deal with that? you can maintain a marriage just by looking the other way? I just don't get. and it's not like she needs him financially.
so i suppose the key to a working marriage is looking the other way? what sick thing is going on there? are there couples like that nowadays?

2007-09-30 01:15:07 · 21 answers · asked by sarah kay 5