Marriage & Divorce - 27 September 2007

what is ex-parte divorce and on what grounds it is given,if a wife does not appear before the court innumerable timesevenwhen the notice for divorce is sent to her,can a husband still get a divorce

2007-09-27 23:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 23:34:30 · 17 answers · asked by tisha k 2

Do you feel that married people who have affairs are just using the opposite sex for their own pleasure and play toys? I mean... really... how can someone trust a person who is cheating on their husband/wife. They've already shown you they are a cheater, lier and conniving. They have no morals and certainly not of solid character.

2007-09-27 23:19:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 22:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

I am considering to take a "PREPARE-ENRICH" program with my fiance.

Have you ever taken this counseling service? If so, would you please tell me your experience?

I heard there are over 120 of questions we answerd and they analysis from 120 of answers. What kind of questions do they ask?

2007-09-27 21:29:13 · 2 answers · asked by miwaima 1

it could be ackward you know? and I want to avoid confrintation?

2007-09-27 21:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 21:25:42 · 3 answers · asked by Adil N 1

What is your opinion on it? I personally am going to wait till after I am married but so many people I know can't wait to get it on. Some have even 'done things' already. Shouldn't you wait to do these things with that special someone (your husband/wife)? Why do people have sex before marriage and would you/did you? Do you agree with it or not?

2007-09-27 20:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by Pistachio 6

I have been married almost a year now and I'm already heading into a divorce. I have battled with depression for 11 years. I'm 22 he is 32. When my husband met me he knew I had depression he didn't know the severity. I was in control of it with medication and therapy with sucess for 4 months until we got married and everything changed. He became unsupportive when I needed emotional support. He is very judgemetal and speaks his mind even if it hurts me. He believes that I am not able to make my own choices correctly and that I have bad judgement because of my depression. First off all I have a 4.0 in college and scored the highest score in the County exam for work as a teen sexual health counselor. I have two jobs and volunteer as an advocate for low income families. If I were "wrong" why is it I can do all this. But any how. I gave in a started to believe something was wrong with me and so we decided to take counseling. That didn't help he didnt agree with the last 3 Dr.'s we had.

2007-09-27 20:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by lilborikua 2

i remarried my husband when we first got divorced i was granted the house but i never got him to sign over the house to me now we are getting divorced again and he now wants half of the house..is he entitled to that or does the old divorce decree prevail

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honoulu, Hawaii

2007-09-27 20:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by rakesh s 1

but know in the back of your mind that you can do better and that you can get any girl that you like..?

2007-09-27 20:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ex wife is a real pain in my ***!! I do everything for him!!!When she call's he alway's I say acting scared of her, but nomatter what he always takes her side!!She called the other day saying her little girl needed shoe's but we had just gotten her a new pair but what does he say" he say's ok we will go get her a new pair tomorrow", like a little baby!!!She call's everyday knowing he's asleep through the day,works at night, just to ask for brake's for her car an yes she get's plenty child support from him!!!Can I say or do something to make him stand up to her???Really tired of the mess!!!!

2007-09-27 20:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by ajjsdj4ever 2

My soon to be ex and I do not agree on if he cheated before the seperation or after. June of last year he started working at this company. By july I caught him speaking religiously to this chic, telling her that he wanted to be with her and of course bad mouthing me like crazy. I go to NY for a two weeks because I just could not take the arguing ( pregnant with a 7 mnth old to care for) and I find out that he had her in my house and slept with her there ( trash I know, the both of them). According to him, because he did not sleep with her while he feels the relationship was over, I say he did becuase the intent to be with her was there when he was talking to her on the phone. More important, he's married!!!! I know this is a silly question but it kills me how he tries so hard to reason his faults, instead of just saying i messed up. Either way, Im through and will file for a divorce. Once a cheat, always a cheat.

2007-09-27 19:59:06 · 15 answers · asked by ready4love 1

I'm in love with a righteous man (A) and we are getting married...yet someone whom we know (B) is bothering us and giving us hard times...and B has been blocking A from taking me back home to the States, with the reason given : he likes me and wants me to stay where he is right now...but I can feel nothing about him (B)...

I don't want A to feel discouraged by B's actions...so what should I do?

2007-09-27 19:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by superb2dmax 3

Is this where I've gone wrong the last two times?

How long should I wait?

2007-09-27 19:36:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean... if she is having a hard time is it wrong to supplement her child support income and minimum wage job by offering to give her money for oral sex, or to bend over and let me hit it whenever I want? I hate when single mothers can barely get by, but if I help them out I either have to do it unconditionally or I have to make them pay me back. If I help them unconditionally, they never help themselves and they never will get a job, so isn't it OK to ask they pay me back... on their back? Hurry and advise me so I can catch up to the chick that was griping about her low amount of child support.

2007-09-27 19:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when she hears some one call me by my nick name she will repeat it sometimes and she walks pretty close and sync with me. I walked really close to her one day and as i walked by out of the corner of my eye i could see her eying me down and she constantly fixes her hair and clothes when im near. Today she hid something on me and i still cant find it but i know she is the one it moved it but she hasnt told me. I was sitting next to her and she kept brushing agiasnt me and she would keep her arm touching mine more a while like it didnt bother her at all we were touching

2007-09-27 19:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any ideas............

2007-09-27 18:59:36 · 9 answers · asked by jtgot1 3

I have been in a relationship with my husband for 12 years, and I found out for the first time that he cheated on me 8 months ago, he's been online trying to date other women, even though he sais it was just a game. He said that he will never cheat again, but I need facts now. I can't just believe in his words. So I checked his phone bills 2 days ago, and found some late night calls, one of them 72 mins at 11PM. So I just called the girl . They were just friends. He said it is a lack of confidence, self- esteem and trust. I had all that and it did not stop him from cheating. I guess that it has nothing to do. A check from time to time, should not hurt him. I just do not want to play the fool. Any advice?

2007-09-27 18:58:53 · 17 answers · asked by renaissance 1

Do u really love your spouse or still u think of your Ex-Bf / Gf. if yes what is the intensity.

2007-09-27 18:43:30 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 3yrs to my wonderful wife. I love her with all my heart, but we have been having trouble with our sex life. I have always been willing to give her head all the time, but she doesn't do it for me. She says that she doesn't want to because she doesn't like it and even though I love head...I complain that since I do it why can't she? I don't want to be controling and force her to do something that she doesn't want to do, but I want oral sex to spice up our marriage. I love her and respect her and don't want her doing things that she feels is degrading. I just want both of us to be happy with our sex lives. I have heard a rumor from one of her friends that she went to a strip club and after a night of partying gave the male stripper some head. I don't believe everything I hear, but still I can forgive the cheating...I just can't forgive the fact that she is giving someone else head instead of me. P.S. I cheated on her once, confesed and went to marriage counseling.

2007-09-27 18:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have been together for four years. We moved in together after two years of dating. We've lived together ever since. I asked her to marry me last year.

We've been through a move and have both changed careers in the time we've been together. This has been a huge strain.

We're pretty dysfunctional in the bedroom. She's never been a fiery one but we go weeks (sometimes months) at a time without getting busy, and she never initiates it.

We're both way too critical and stubborn with each other. We both acknowledge this, but we can't seem to stop poking away at each other. The sound of her voice really grates on me sometimes.

Our musical tastes are different. She is VERY picky about her food. She yo-yo diets, gains weight over time and takes it out on me.

When I asked her to marry me, our relationship became all about the wedding. She AVOIDS working through our issues with me, preferring to focus on her grand plans.

I've tried to fix this. Suggestions?

2007-09-27 18:28:17 · 25 answers · asked by Sinaria 1

My marriage was solemnised on Nov'2006 according to Hindu Marriage Act. Now I went for Nullity of Marriage on false ground. My wife is contesting the matter. She has lodged the case of "Restitution of Conjugal Rights" against me. If she gets the decree of restitution, will she get the right of residence in my home? Can she go to my home and stay there without my permission? If I refuse her stay in my home, can she take any legal help? If she stays there for somedays and go to police station and complain that my parents and brothers are torturing her, what legal step we can take against her? Can she be capable of lodging any FIR against us?
Please clear me with details.
In July she made complaint to Police and Women Rights Commission against me and my family members. Every where she wrote that she wants to save her marriage. Please tell me which step can I take against her.

2007-09-27 18:21:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sit here and read these questions and try to offer reasonable advice. More and more I find people asking questions that really ask you to support their lack of morality. Such as the guy that ran off with a married woman to Florida and now is upset because she calls home to talk to her kid. The question is disturbing enough but some of the answers condon what he is doing and they offer suggestions. I personally condemn people with questions like that and I certainly don't support their behavior. It is clear by the answers that many of the answers come from younger people that think this is the norm. I wish they would require people here on Yahoo Answers to post their age. On top of everything else it is clear that many of these people can't spell (or use a spell check) nor can the form an intelligent sentence. So what does this say about our educational system? I know this is Marriage and Divorce and the reason I ask this here is because it is the only category I answer questions in.

2007-09-27 18:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by Sigmonds smarter brother 1

I'm in love with a amazing man who treats me with alot of love and respect and is just wounderfull I have known this guy for about a year now and feel really comfortable with him but the catch is that I'm married and I don't know how to deal with this I have been trying to stop my-self feeling this way and I mean I've done everything I can think of coz I knew that I made a promise infrount of god on my wedding day but I think I was too young to truly understand what that ment, I was only 19 at the time of our wedding and felt like I need to do the right thing by my then 1 year old child, But our life together makes me verey unhappy. My husband has been out of work for 4 years now a will not go out and look for 1 and now that we have two children he needs to work, I want to do the right thing by my children and thier father but I feel like I'm the 1 that's giveing up stuff and not my husband should I leave and try to move on with my life?

2007-09-27 17:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by ali 2

I heard you could get into bars or clubs with your spouse if they are over 21 and you aren't if you can prove you are married.

2007-09-27 17:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are always talking about moving from NJ for a change. We are so tired of our high taxes and the constant rat race of keeping up with the Jones. I'm also finding people ruder & ruder each day. My husband has his own business and he would be able to move. I would be ready to do it but at the same time not knowing anyone really scares me. What happens if we end up hating it? Here, I have some of my family so it is so scary for me but again I am just sick of this whole area. We also have a 5 yr old and a 9 yr. old and I know they would be upset. My husband does not care about that. He thinks it's good to meet new people. Has anyone does this and how was your experience? (By the way, we drove thru this town in the summer, Crofton, MD and it was such a cute and friendly town. We really liked it, but we would consider other areas as well).

2007-09-27 17:46:14 · 2 answers · asked by mari93 2

This question is for legal fraternity. I understand that sex with married woman, by other than her husband, is an offence and punishable by law. Is it true? Why only man is held responsible? Does woman go scot free?

Which section of Indian Penal Code or any other law covers this aspect. If it is punishable, what is the quantum of punishment. I seek help from legal persons.

There are other sex related offences. Like carnal sex is not allowed even with a consent. Or consensual sex with a minor girl is treated as a rape.

These cases are known. But not much is known about the sex with a married woman.

I had posed this question earlier too but not much of success.

2007-09-27 17:34:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 17:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky 3

Looking for others who are polygamist or are interested to discuss pros and cons about this lifestyle.

I have been married to my husband for two years now, been together four. Never did either of us think he would ever fall inlove with another woman. Yet three months ago, it happend. I was at first very upset and hurt, and I guess I still am. The fact he didnt tell me before he had decided to do something was the worst part of it all. I have since accepted what has been happening. and cant really bring myself to leave him. I see he does love this woman, but also loves me at the same time.
We have been discussing the possibility of the three of us moving in together, and bringing our families under one roof, alot because we see no point in having to spend the money to go the 60 miles back and forth to see eachother.
I would like to find others who are also interested or in this type of relationship to give me some feedback on how life is, and if its worth it. Thank you.

2007-09-27 17:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica P 1