Marriage & Divorce - 27 September 2007

I have a friend who got married 3 weeks ago and she already wants a divorce. Is it possible for her to get divorced now that she is married? What process does she have to go through and how long will it take? Respectable answers pleas.

2007-09-27 02:07:11 · 17 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1

how much is the %my kids will be parted when dividing our matrimonial home for our divorce settlement. If my 2 kids age 15 & 12 are not living with me but with my x-wife. is there a guidance of how much i should be entitled? I have not paid my mortgage share for 2 years and not lived with them?

2007-09-27 01:56:37 · 5 answers · asked by maebit 1

2007-09-27 01:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Hi. Me and my wife divorced in Nov, 2004. Divorce decree stated half of 401K will be hers, but No QDRO was completed. Can she still come after me, or is it too late now?

2007-09-27 01:55:43 · 5 answers · asked by Wonderer 1

I own an Irish Setter, Bessie. My wife & I enjoy talking her for walks and runs in the country side parks & woods. My wife and I are in our 50s now so we do not share such an active physical life as we did in our 30s, which is okay as we do have hobbies and a few shared passions.

Over the last year i have found reddish hairs around my wife's person especially in her draws. Sometimes they are stuck to her thighs or hips. I always put it down to her stroking the dog & scratching with the same hand. But now i fear something more sinister. I do want to hurt her but i am really fearing the worse now.

How should i ask her if she is sleeping with Bessie or am i just losing a grip?

2007-09-27 01:47:42 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you chatting online, if another person emails you pics to you, do you email your pic to them..???? I dont have much experience in chatting.. please help anyone..thanks for your time...

2007-09-27 01:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In todays society, why do people even bother getting married anymore?

I know what a lot of you are going to say...

Marriage is a commitment?
-How is it a commitment? Do you really need a piece of paper to justify the relationship? You can't be committed to one another without being married? It obviously doesn't help with commitment, considering the divorce rates. It won't stop either one of you from seeing other people.

You can have kids without being married, you can raise kids without being married, you can be together without being married. Why marry?

Is it a show of the love you have for one another? if you love one another then do you really need some random clergyman (who is probably paying more attention to the choirboys) to announce to your friends and family members that you love one another, because he says so?

Seriously, give me some valid reasons for marriage being a positive thing in todays society.

I'd go on but yahoo has restricted the number of characters I have

2007-09-27 01:37:22 · 15 answers · asked by georgeishere 3

2007-09-27 01:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 01:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by trapper82 1

i have two kids with this guy. When we first started "talking" he would be at my house ALL the time, he practically lived there, however he did have a girlfriend and a son with her. someone else told me about her but he still came over and messed with me ALL the time anyway. They ended up back togetether but everytime they'd fight she'd kick him out and he'd come stay with me and I ended up pregnant for the 2nd time by him. they have now been together awhile and are getting married-he will try to get my kids or ask if he can see them but I wont let him-he doesnt deserve to see them, He pays child support and thats all i want, he aint seeing my kids, he had a chance.What can I do to get him back for going back to her and leaving me like that? I have tried all the slicing her tires and so on. I dont know what I can do to really make him pay? What would really hurt him?

2007-09-27 01:19:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

after 20 years of marriage I have fallen in lust for someone at work - she is divorced and has 3 children and is very street wise and has a great self esteem and thinks I should do what I want and not stay in the marriage out of guilt to avoid making someone unhappy and beign unhappy myself as a consequence. - she has said she does not want to have an intimate relationship with someone who is married. - Is this all away of leading me on and trying to get me to leave my wife?

2007-09-27 01:17:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me hints and ways to find out so that I know for sure, because a female called me and told me that she had phone sex with him 3 weeks ago. I want to end this once and for all. He denied it up and down, back and forth, although he looked very scared and guilty. lol! I was upset but now Im calming down. I cannot invest any of my emotion and time into a rat bastard who is going to be rubbing one out, everytime Im not there (we don't live together). He has a bird, I wish it was a parrot, maybe the parrot would tell me.. damn!

Any spy programs ANYTHING so that I can track him? I want to collect evidence and when he lies to me again, I will show him the evidence and he can stfu and stop denying it.

He's just got one more chance, and then he's history!!!

Please help with ideas, Im serious, no jokes, I need to know the best way to catch him at his own BS!

2007-09-27 01:13:05 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 1

one you say I never want to go through with but really deep inside you do?

2007-09-27 01:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by me1234529 1

2007-09-27 01:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband insists that I slept with the female neighbor. I am hetro not homo or bi. Sorry if anyone takes offense to those words. That just leads me to believe that he is looking for a way to take the blame off of him and put it on me when I did nothing wrong so he feels better about himself.

2007-09-27 01:01:33 · 17 answers · asked by Jenni 1

i have a friend that has been married for 28 years her husband has always cheated on her ....she has busted him twice and forgave him twice all the other times she hasnt found out....she is a beautifull woman in her 50s and she goes to school and she also works she has various degrees she doesnt need him ..i can understand if she didnt have a trade and couldnt do it on her own but this is not the case she is also a strong black female i see more and more that black women put up with a lot more than any other women why is this and how may i hel her????

2007-09-27 00:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rican Babe 4 u 1

You are organized but your partner is not. You get up early and your ar punctual in all your work, appointments etc. You are there 5 minutes before hand. Now it is due to your partner disorganized habits and late night sleep and late wake up in the morning you are also late in your apppointments. What will you do and how will you overcome such a situation?

2007-09-27 00:35:28 · 22 answers · asked by Raj 4

A month ago my husband was asked by his job to relocate himself to another town, about 4 hours from where we live. He has to live there for 6 months, with the benefit of coming home every weekends. Now, this change was a sudden one for me, one for which I was not prepared for. In my world the sun rises and sets on him, he is the sweetest man that I had ever met, so having him home every other night was awesome, as we did a lot of things together. Now, I am all alone, responsible of the welfare of my two dogs, my job and the house. I feel pretty lonely and overwhelmed. There are days when he calls that I break down over the phone, lamenting of the situation I'm in and almost blaming him for the stress (although I do realise it is not his fault). In addition to the constant stresses of his work, he has to deal with me. I feel like a horrible unappreciative wife, and I really do not want to be. I want him to know that I truly appreciate him- what can I do to show him I honestly love him?

2007-09-27 00:34:24 · 19 answers · asked by Dandie the Dirty Dog 2

My husband and I have been married since May of this year, but we've been together since I was 16 (im 25 now). He is in the Army and getting ready to go overseas. I fell out of love with him a long time ago, I care about what happens to him, but I don't want to be with him anymore. The situation kind of got complicated when I met a new guy that I am totally head over heels for. I wont start a new relationship until I end my marriage. Would it make me a horrible person to serve him with divorce papers 3 months before he leaves??? Or should I stick around until he comes back? Or should I just leave it all to be and hope I fall back in love with him????

2007-09-27 00:14:59 · 14 answers · asked by autumnraine0321 2

to cut a long story short, my husband left me on friday night!
6 months ago he had an affair with a girl at work, i found out and we went to 1 session at relate and i thought at the time lots of things had been sorted out!
We returned from holiday about 5 weeks ago with our little boy and had a great time (even spoke about another baby), the week after that we had our 2 year anniversary and went out for a lush meal and was very loved up!
then over the past couple of weeks ive been thinking something is wrong, so i confronted him friday and it turns out that he got in touch with her 2 weeks ago.
He went to his dads and on the saturday told me he needed time to think and would call me laters,well laters didnt come and he wouldnt answer my calls, i went down to his dads and he wasnt there! he had gone to hers,i then got a call from him at midnight and i asked him what his decision was and he said he made up his mind and is going to be with her!!!
he loves her and not me any more...

2007-09-27 00:12:41 · 10 answers · asked by amy w 1

If a married man has placed a personal ad saying he's single, should his wife be told, or should you just hope that someday she catches on and stay out of it? This is the third wife he's cheated on, so it isn't like he's changed over the last 20 years. If anything, he's gotten better at his "game". Is it right to let her know, or is it best to hope that somehow she finds out on her own?

2007-09-27 00:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by Aiden 6

I have a 12 yr old cousin whom i adore. He has alot of problems at home with two parents that never get along and do not live together. His mom lives with his Grandma who is severely depressed since she lost her husband last year. Whenever Christmas or his birthday roll around, i always send him a gift for each, even thought they are only a month apart. Previously i would ask him what he wanted and just send it. It's usually a new PSP game or a game for his Xbox. They usually run me about $50 so i send him something smaller for the other occasion. I know he loves me but he never even lets me know when he receives it and he certainly has never said thank you. I live in Florida and he lives in Michigan. I know he was upset when i moved out of state since he would call me out of the blue to go out to eat or he would just stop by on his bicycle just to say hi. Any suggestions on how i can avoid hurting his feelings since he really is just a kid & let him know he's being impolite?

2007-09-27 00:04:35 · 6 answers · asked by PicaSSo of Parta PlnN 2