2007-09-27 01:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks guys! Most of ya'll seem to be in a very happy state of marriage life somehow, even though some of ya'll gotten married very young. I guess, some marriages, whether young or not so young are very extremely successful, somehow, whiles other marriages are complete extreme failures. Thanks guys for your honest answers. God bless to all!
2007-09-28 02:16:56 · update #1
I believe getting married young is a huge mistake for most. You need time to grow away from living with your family, then time to experience life by yourself on your own and figure out exactly what it is you are about before trying to bring someone in your life.
2007-09-27 02:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Chelley 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
ok i'm not married but i'm 18 and i have talked about marriage with my boyfriend and I don't know like what kinda career i want but i know that i want to be with him for the rest of my life and that's what i want outta life is us both to be happy. Some people are older and still don't know what they really want out of life. It shouldn't matter if your young and want to get married or are married because everyones experience with marriage is different because some people will last a long time some will get married and divorced but it doesn't matter about your age.
Look at your grandparents or great grandparents back in the day they would get married at like 13-17 and start a family so why is it so wrong for people now a days to gt married young?
2007-09-27 09:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rayray 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Curious Abe,
I got married when I was 19 years old. I do believe that I got married young, that's obvious, but I don't regret it. I have a great husband. I must admit that there are times when I just want out of our marriage but I say those things out of anger but he completes me and I complete him. No marriage is perfect and it's those little flaws that mold your marriage into what it is now. Every time we fight the make up always makes up for it.
We're 22 years old now and we've been married for 4 years almost. I know what I want in life, he knows what he wants in life...so we make sure that we both support that and help each other to get where we want to be in life.
2007-09-27 13:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got married 3 months after I turned18. My husband was 21. We are very happy and will celebrate 6 years in January.
I knew then that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, I knew then the things that I wanted to do with my life, at least in a general stance.
We knew we wanted to wait to have children. We have and are just trying to start having a family now.
We knew we both wanted to go to college. We both do, my husband finishes next semester and Im taking it a bit more slowly.
We knew we wanted to be homeowners before 30. Well Im 24 hes 27, we bought our home almost 6 months ago.
I knew what i wanted in general out of life when we got married, and over the past near 6 years of marriage we have accomplished many of our goals, and made plenty of new ones.
2007-09-27 09:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i got married when i was 18 and he was 22, and i am now 20...and i do believe in the past two years i have grown and evolved to a mature responsible woman and i feel that i am growing up into adulthood with my partner, who loves me at my worse, and can fight through it...the night we got married we both wrote divorce on a piece a paper and light em fly out the window, because we would never use it against each other, and not once have done it...yes we have slept in different rooms, but never have we said divorce...and yes most definetly no marriage is perfect
2007-10-03 23:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by ashley p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 22. Is that very young? I had no doubt about what I wanted out of life at that age. Now, that I'm 30, I am still very happy with my choices.
2007-09-27 09:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got married young. Pros and cons to that. You do miss out on the freedom of having an opportunity to learn to think for yourself. I went through a period of kind of rebellion in my 20's. I resented my husband for wanting me to act more "married" and really wanted to do more things by my self. It was a bad time in our marriage, but we grew past that. However, my dad got married when he was 30, and says that people should marry when they are younger because you are not so set in your ways. You can kind of "grow up" together. I am glad that I married young, over all. If I were older when I met my husband, I would have taken one look at his messed up family and run the other way. I would not have given him any time to get to know him. But when I was young I was naive enough to date him anyway, thinking his family would nto become the factor that they were.
2007-09-27 09:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by I39 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 when I got married.My husband was 18.We new it was right & that we loved each other & wanted to be together the rest of our lives..We are still happily married going on 5 years later & have a little one on the way!!I didnt miss out on anything!!My life is perfect!!I couldnt not ask for more!
2007-10-04 01:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ Ali ~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 18, and I am in the military, married a military man, and had a beautiful daughter. I DO know what I want with my life.
2007-09-27 09:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 22 n my husband is 21.. i dont think age matters in marriage.. i know my hubby 7 yrs before we got married.. he is younger than me but i m very happy with him.. if u know u re ready u can just go ahead.. listen to ur heart.. it dosent mean if u marry at e age of 30 ur relationship will work out.. if there is understanding n trust in a relationship, it will work out..
2007-10-05 03:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married @ 22 and I always new what I wanted to do with my life. I'm more than half way there
2007-10-05 08:33:10 · answer #11 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋