Marriage & Divorce - 27 September 2007

I am embarrassed to ask this but what the heck. When you are having an orgasm do you yell the name of the girl you are with or yell that you love them (and you say this by adding her name) Is this a moment of truth or just pleasure has over taken? The guy I am with says he loves me. We started going together again after not seeing each other for several years. I was shocked when he told me he loved me after not seeing me all this time. He knew I loved him many years ago, but unforunately he had a drug/drinking problem at that time. Now he is clean for 2 years. This time he claims he is not going to let me out of his life again. As far as my thoughts I don't know where this relationship is going.

2007-09-27 08:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband filed a motion to stop paying child support. He lives in another state. I didn't make it to the court that day and on our Child support enforcement page it just says the court action was dismissed. Does that mean the child support order that is in place was dismissed or was his request to terminate the child support dismissed????

thank you

2007-09-27 07:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by glenda0317 1

2007-09-27 07:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching this couple on TV who have been married for 25 years - they were dating for 4 years before they were married. They were giving a younger couple advice about it and some of things they said touched me:

- the husband said in order to love someone, you have to love yourself and you have to LOVE and accept the partner's "negative/weak" qualities FIRST before loving the "positive/strengths" so then you will love the person more. He said girls will be moody sometimes and he learned to love and accept it and vice versa

- Always stay positive, never give up on yourself and on your partner - DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT YOU TWO "who cares?" - even when there are problems, (financially, situational, etc...) always stay strong and say, "it's okay, everything's going to be okay.."

WHAT DO YOU THINK? TRUE? CAN YOU GUYS ADD MORE? I APPRECIATE ALL THE WISDOM :)

2007-09-27 07:43:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

An acquaintance of mine from highschool recently responded to a is everything okay email from me with some shocking news. Her husband of 4 years and the father of their 2 kids has been beating her, cheating on her, and lying to her and her family from the start. She doesn't want to leave him because she doesn't think they'll let her keep the kids because she never graduated hs, has no job, and he doesn't beat the kids, plus she says where would they go? She doesn't want to take her kids with her to a shelter. The girl is 2 and she just had a baby boy in August. What can I tell her? I want to give her some words of courage and advice, understanding and strength but I don't know what to say or how to say it. We're not close, I barely spoke to her in hs! Help!

2007-09-27 07:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by mrs.v 4

I'm 6 weeks pregnant, and my fiance' smokes like a chimney. He smokes at least 2 packs a day! It didn't bother me that much, know the smoke almost chokes me to death. I almost puke when it gets in my face. How can I ask him to quit smoking around me, excpecially when we are about to get married. Any suggestions? I want to be nice about it.

2007-09-27 07:41:16 · 12 answers · asked by nana_14 2

2007-09-27 07:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Paying the bills, reconciling the checkbook, maintaining the finances, etc. Is it a joint effort or is it one or the other's responsibility?

2007-09-27 07:32:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and am not in love with him and havent been. Dont ask why I got married cause i dont know. It is my second marriage we have only been married for 6 mths. Well i really like this other guy and we have been talking for about 2 mths and things are serious but anyway i would like to know if im in the wrong by staying with my husband till i get out of school so we can get some things payed off while im in school. My husband is gone every other week and there is just nothing at all there.

2007-09-27 07:27:16 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda O 1

2007-09-27 07:25:32 · 42 answers · asked by cherries 1

It's like God saying yes i will bless your union as long as you pay me £1000.

2007-09-27 07:17:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I shouldn't be feeling the way i am at my age esp about a guy i hardly know who aint returning phone calls but i am; I need some consolation.

2007-09-27 07:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 22 and i'm not feeling the passion towards my boyfriend of 4 years....he feels it for me. i know we love eachother and i know he'll be a great husband someday...but im afraid if there is no passion at this age, it'll only be worse later. what is more important passion or comfort?

2007-09-27 07:08:08 · 27 answers · asked by sharimonk 1

Do think im being selfish im 23 years old and married with 2 young children i went on holiday with my friend for a week with out my kids or husband because he didnt mind me going.My friend as asked me if i would like to go again next year ive asked my husband but he says im selfish and i cant go.I wouldnt mind but he doesnt work its me who works long hours every week and when im not working he goes out and i take care of the kids and the house work.We are planning on going away as a family in 2009 when my youngest is abit older.

2007-09-27 07:06:23 · 50 answers · asked by nicola r 2

hi. i work full time at a luxury store (full time+ commission).a few weeks ago i turned in my resignation because i wasn't happy with management. i get a call back from the president of our company and explained my situation. he asked me to stay and he said he would fix the situation. and he did.....which i am very happy about. now my 3 yr anniversary is coming up in 2 months and i was wondering if i should ask for a raise?the store isn't doing exceptionally well but the overall company is.i know the store is going to move (which is why he wanted me to stay) which will definitely improve money coming in.right now i am one of the few who have been in the store since it has opened and i make about the same as everyone hourly but the only difference is i make commission which isn't alot...maybe overall including commission it is basically $1-$1.50 more than everyone else who starts.

2007-09-27 07:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by pinkyhead701 2

My wife and I have been going through a very difficult time over the last several months. She is a stay at home mom to our 17 month old twin girls, and I have a home office. As you can imagine, it's not easy calling clients when there are two babies crying in the background! So it creates tension between us. And the other night we got into a big fight. We used every name in the book, she threw some things at me off the counter, and I kicked her in the asss soccer style. That was Tuesday night and she's still not speaking to me. I sleep on the couch and we bascially ignore each other. I want to try and repair what is obviously broken, but I'm sick of always being the one trying to fix things. I feel like we're failing our kids and each other, and it sucks. So should I insist on trying to talk to her and reason with her? Or wait until she's willing to come to me? Willing to wait, but not looking forward to another 3-4 days of not speaking and dragging this out.....

2007-09-27 06:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5

So my husband and i are planning for a family, and we came across something we both is improtant and that is a will, god parents, etc. and we were trying to deside who should get our kids (when the time comes). I really don't want my mother to have them b/c she is a good mother but manic depressant and her religious beliefs are not what i want for my children. His mother lives in a different country (israel to be exact) and he doesn't want to put the financial burden on her of having kids at her age. Our other two options are my cousin who we agree will raise our kids ith the same values that we would, or his brother. Is it ok to put the burden of my child on my cousin when she is not immideate family? can i also give whoever access to property and resources we have built up to be used for the children? and can we put somewhere in a will that the children are required to have a certain amount of contact with their grandparents and aunts? and how would you feel if cousin you were?

2007-09-27 06:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany M 3

I have primary residential care of my son. He visits his Dad once a week and every other weekend. And whenever his Dad asks for more time. I want them to be close. My ex cheated and left for the other woman and moved in with her almost immediately. She is in my son's life and I have accepted that. However, last night my son told me that his Dad's girlfriend may start picking him up from school. I do not agree with this plan. My ex has to pick him up once a week. It gives him a chance to touch base with teachers, friends, make sure homework is being brought home, deal with any issues, etc. I think he should make the effort. It feels as if this is another parenting responsibility he is leaving to someone else. What happens if homework is not brought home or there is an issue to deal with? She cannot make parenting decisions which means I will have to deal with it the next day. My ex and I agreed we would handle the parenting of our son. Is picking kids up from school parenting?

2007-09-27 06:32:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was engaged, and got pregnant. Shortly after I got pregnant, we had some difficulties, with him lying to me, and I didn't feel I could trust him. I told him we needed time apart. He said he didn't want time apart, that he loved me, and wanted to be with me, and only me. He says that he's heartbroken, and wants to work things out, but he won't contact me. When I contact him, he gets angry, and shuts down. Now he won't return my phone calls, im's, text messages, nothing. I'm just starting my 5th month of pregnancy, and he doesn't seem to care about me or the baby. (Having kids was HIS idea, but he never really showed any kind of emotion about it when I got pregnant.) What should I do? Should I write him off? I do love him, very much...

2007-09-27 06:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before taking my wife to work, I asked her if she needed any money to get drinks and/or snacks while she was at work. She said no, even after asking a second time to reassure that she didn't want any money. After dropping her off, on the way to my job, I stopped to get a cup of coffee. Later, while picking my wife up, she stated she was hungry. I stated that I was hungry too and that the only thing I had all day was the coffee from that morning. Now my wife is calling me selfish because I used the money I offered her (yet she refused) to buy myself a coffee. She said that I didn't think of her and that she expected me to bring her a coffee as well, even though she can't have drinks while working. She then changed her story about refusing the money, saying that she didn't say no to the money, only to the example I gave of possibly using it to buy a soda or snack while on her break.

Before buying my self anything, I offered her the $, so am I really being selfish here?

2007-09-27 06:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by KoiDragon 2

My husband and I have been married for almost seven months. Since we have been married we have had many, many problems. He has had a very large problem keeping a job, and I am unable to work because I am a college student. I know that he has difficulty finding a job due to the fact that he is the "babysitter" while I am at school for out six month old son. However, I believe that he could work an evening job somewhere, which I have done in the past.
We also have problems with our marriage because he feels as if it is my responsibility to do everything around the house. I don't feel like I should be responsible for everything since he works three hours five days a week. We want to work things out, however, we are not at this point sure that it is possible. He also spends more time with his friends than he does at home. What suggestions does anyone have about what we should do concerning our marriage? Only serious answers will be considered for the best answer.

2007-09-27 06:23:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe I'm wrong but it seems like sometimes my husband just goes overboard with the excitement during intercourse. He couldn't be THAT excited could he? It's not so much the moaning and groaning, but it's just the heavy breathing and some of the sounds that he makes.

He has accused me of faking moans and groans and to be honest, I don't know if they're natural or fake because I have never put that much thought into it. I am VERY satisfied with him in that department so I can't imagine why the moans wouldn't come out naturally. However, how many people do you know who have intercourse and the room is completely silent? That seems kind of weird.

2007-09-27 06:02:56 · 17 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

My fiance cheated on me twice,the 1st time was 5 yrs ago and I forgave him.Now 5 yrs later we have 2 children together & engaged.I want to keep my family together so I stay hoping we can work things out.Is it worth trying or should I just give up and move on?

2007-09-27 06:00:01 · 25 answers · asked by Brittany 1

Are you suppose to offer it to him or just wait to he feels it's not pushy anymore to ask you. He told me this, but I am not sure if I am suppose to anything after that.

2007-09-27 05:58:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My rude little sister in law got engaged earlier this year at my wedding. As one can read from my earlier posts, she does not care for me or approve of my marriage to her brother. We recently received her ‘save the date’ magnet and visited her wedding website the magnet had listed. To our surprise, his sister included every younger family member in the wedding, including cousins that live out of town who she rarely talks to and her new future sister in law is her maid of honor. She’s included so many family members in her wedding that only three of her friends play a role in it. My husband and I were also surprised to se my sister in law had listed my husband as an usher, even though she’s never asked him to be in her wedding. My husband tells me that no matter what, he’s not going to play a role in her wedding, as she’s continuously disrespected our marriage.
A part of me is relieved not to be in her wedding, however, apart of me wonders if she isn’t going out of her way to snub me. Little sis in law was not in our wedding because we had a destination wedding and had no attendants, guest books, ushers, etc. Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? Is it typical to have out of town cousins who are still in high school do duties such as programs, guest book, etc. while completely leaving out your brother’s wife who lives 15 minutes away? I really didn’t want to be in her wedding, but at the same time I’d like to know if I’m once again being snubbed or if stuff like this happens all the time. Also, should my husband suck it up and be in his sister’s wedding just to make his parents or sister happy? P.S. My husband is my sister in law’s only sibling.

2007-09-27 05:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by MazyStarFan 1

Personnally I don't think it is right or wrong but I can't hold it against someone if they want their kids to look like them and decide to stay within their own race. What annoys me is that some fools who like to play the race card will call you a racist if you aren't attracted to people outside your race...

What do you think?

2007-09-27 05:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 05:49:55 · 16 answers · asked by southernbelle 1

Is it the thought of your SO, another man/woman, an object, clothing or is it just a feeling of being sexy? What makes you feel sexy?

2007-09-27 05:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often do you have a "girls night out" with your friends? And do you ever find yourself feeling guilty about going out while your husband is home with the kids? Is your husband supportive of this or does he get angry or upset when you plan something. For me, my husband is very supportive of my night out with the girls and we only get together maybe once a month or maybe even once every two months. But I have noticed that my friends husbands are not as supportive. They tend to complain about having to watch the kids or they think that it is silly to want to go out with friends instead of being home with them watching t.v. or something. I don't understand why some guys act like this. Does anyone else face this problem with either your husband or your friends husbands? And please be honest!

2007-09-27 05:29:27 · 17 answers · asked by hazeleyes1279 3

2007-09-27 05:14:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous