I am embarrassed to ask this but what the heck. When you are having an orgasm do you yell the name of the girl you are with or yell that you love them (and you say this by adding her name) Is this a moment of truth or just pleasure has over taken? The guy I am with says he loves me. We started going together again after not seeing each other for several years. I was shocked when he told me he loved me after not seeing me all this time. He knew I loved him many years ago, but unforunately he had a drug/drinking problem at that time. Now he is clean for 2 years. This time he claims he is not going to let me out of his life again. As far as my thoughts I don't know where this relationship is going.
2007-09-27 08:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I asked for older guys because this is not a teenage relationship. To clear things up he tells me he loves me even when not having sex, just during time together, telephone calls.
2007-09-27 08:13:35 · update #1
I tell her that even when we are not boning. In your case, I think your friend was drunk or just enjoying the moment. That is unless his feelings for you never ceased.
2007-09-27 08:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well I don't see how this is a question for older men, but during sex men say the craziest crap. We do, its just how we are. To keep ourselves "erect" blood comes from our head and feet, so we're literally bound to say anything. Now this doesn't mean that he does NOT love you, he may honestly. But that's something you will need to verify through his actions outside of the bedroom.
2007-09-27 08:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
For me, I do say I love you to my wife when we are making love, before and after, unless we are getting raunchy, then I tend not to be so tender. I may talk when I am having an orgasm, but do not say "I love you" at that moment, because it can be taken the wrong way...
2007-09-27 08:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Renee M, Sweety sounds like this guy truly loves you ! Some of us are able to say those three little words, while others do not, wich I don"t understand. God bless you and keep you !
2007-09-27 08:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm more of a traditionalist when it comes to the moment of truth. I always find myself yelling "GITER DONE".
Sometimes when I am chewing tobacco and have a mouth full of slobber instead of yelling I just fart to show my approval.
2007-09-27 08:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL!!!! Honey, I hate to have to be the one to tell you this, but ANY man is going to love you right before an orgasm!!! LOL
2007-09-27 08:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
i know when i have an orgasm i usually yell out "kawabunga" but sometimes i'll say "surprise,surprise, surprise". not sure how this happened but one time she said i spit in her eye, i think it was love juice myself.
2007-09-27 08:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I usually yell out the Magna Carta...confuses the hell out of em....
2007-09-27 08:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
This is crazy......sorry the only answer i can say is thats weird....i normally say i love you ''after'' i am done when we are cuddling
2007-09-27 08:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy B 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He might have loved you way back when and still does.
2007-09-27 08:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋