Marriage & Divorce - 27 September 2007

just wondering

2007-09-27 17:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by Ray 2

Me and my husband met in January, and married in July. Recently, it hasn't been going good, and divorce has actually crossed my mind a few times because he jumps on my case about stupid ****. Our relationship was good when we were in Texas, then we moved to Kentucky and got married, then it seemed to have fallen apart. When I left Kentucky to come back to Texas, we were fighting everyday over everything. I came back to Texas and our relationship seemed to start mending back, but for the past two days, we have done nothing but argue about work and bills.

I ran into a guy tonight that I knew from a job 2 years ago. I liked him then, and have found that I still like him... a lot. We went and played pool for 2 hours, and it was hard for me to have a good time because I know my relationship with my husband is going sour, but I don't want to break his heart. My husband is super jealous and doesn't like me to hang around guys b/c he's afraid I'll cheat on him.

What should I do?

2007-09-27 17:13:19 · 17 answers · asked by chasincansonclyde 2

my marriage life in in trouble as i have a bf and because of whom i want to divorce my hubby. but now when my hubby agreed i dont feel like staying away from him as i realised that i love him a lot and cant stay without him one moment also... i do care for my daughter too but my bf is ready to accept me and my child.he also says that we wont have a child and he will treat my daughter as his own blood. he is 23 i am 25. i dont undersatnd what do i do? i dont wanna hurt anyone. but my hubby has also told his parents and now i dont think any chances of patching up with him. i dont want to keep relations with my in laws as i dont like the way they treat me. my bf is ready to leave his family for me and stay with me.please help.

2007-09-27 16:56:30 · 25 answers · asked by tisha k 2

My husband and I are getting a divorce and I am seeing this guy that my daughter once liked till she knew we started going out. Now when we comes around she gets all hyper and acts out. She gets angry at me and says I don't pay her no attention, which I do. What am I suppose to do?????? Please help

2007-09-27 16:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by rosepedal_25 1

No matter how much you try to teach them or tell them what you like...

And yes s.ex is part of a marriage and my s.ex life sucks with my husband really bad...

He is done in like 1 minute or so and this is true.

2007-09-27 16:35:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been happily married for almost a year. I like to socialize and am still in contact with my ex-boyfriend.

My husband and I have no issues with trust. I tell him everything, except this. To me, there's no big deal abt being in contact with my ex-bf coz I have no feelings whatsoever for him. Thing is, hubby seems to think that I dumped him earlier becoz of the guy.

Ok basically, I dumped my hubby once because of some relationship issues. and then I got attached to this ex-b/f. and then I dumped this ex-b/f because he was not ready for marriage and then I married my husband. I know it sounds really mean but, anyway, hubby still thinks I dumped him back then coz of this guy. which is not true. but since we got married, both he and I never ever mentioned about this ex-b/f again.

I am not really in frequent comms with my ex but I do refer to him as a reference on certain things becoz we share some specialised interests.

Issue is, am i betraying hub's trust in me?

2007-09-27 16:26:28 · 35 answers · asked by Girls O 1

My first wife left becasue of the spanking but this one loves it. Is it wrong I like to spank her? Oh yea and my first wife? She was a bad bad girl

2007-09-27 16:24:59 · 48 answers · asked by Big D 3

2007-09-27 16:19:53 · 28 answers · asked by Spartacus 3

To whom it may concern:

Everyday for the last 7.5 years of my life has been an adventure. Not a bad one, but not a good one either. I have a daughter whom I love very much that means the world to me, but after 7,5 years of life, that is about it. I am not proud of my marriage nor am I happy about it. Not that it has been a bad marriage, it has just been a very dull excitmentless marriage between two people who are EXTREMELY different. My finances are a frickin nightmare! I have been foreclosed upon, repossessed and called 24/7 by bill collectors who want there money. I am 26 years old. I feel as though I have been an adult my whole life. I just want to slow down, and see what life could be like if I tried to experience it and enjoy it more. If I could enjoy the simpler things in life and learn to appreciate what I have and not cry about what I want. If I could just start all over that would be so fantastic, but I can't. No one can. We can start new, but not all over.

So, that is what I want! I want to start new. I want to look in the mirror one morning and see a woman that I am proud of. See a woman that I can look right in the eyes and say "you go girl." I want to be a woman that my daughter can idolize and say I want to be just like her when I grow up.

Unfortunately, that means that I am going to have to be selfish and move on. Start a new life without being married. I love my husband dearly and I care for him, but I am not in love with him. I do not want to hurt him, and I do not want to make his life miserable, but I want mine to be better. The only way to do that is to start completely new.

I would love to hear what others have to say about this. Please let me know your thoughts and opinions. Please be honest as I am not looking for your help or asking you what to do, I have already made up my mind what to do. I am simply asking for your opinions.

2007-09-27 16:13:40 · 17 answers · asked by luvin the life 1

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2007-09-27 16:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Destiny 4

My friend's sisterin-law called her a wh*re and warned her to leave her husband alone because one day she was depressed and vented to him in an email about everything she was going thru and feeling.
The two of them(her and her brother-in law) talk otherwise about stuff and I guess she just felt comfortable venting to him.Was it inapropriate for her to vent to him?
I saw the email and she didn't come on to him or make like he was her boyfriend..it just seemed like one person talking about their issues with another person(like a friend or family).
His wife sent her something saying to stop sending desperate emails to her husband and called her a whore..Who's was wrong?

2007-09-27 16:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me and I want to return the favor. I took him back but I haven't forgiven him because I don't trust him and I mention the affair often. I want revenge. What should I do so that I can feel "even" without terminating the marriage?

2007-09-27 15:36:46 · 45 answers · asked by confused 1

2007-09-27 15:34:23 · 25 answers · asked by Maria 1

OkAy I HaVe A Bf OKAy and like all of a sudden he stoped talking to me and he just never calls, comes over or even text me... what should i do!! I noe i deserve better!!

2007-09-27 15:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my cousin....he's really cute. This would never happen, but if i married him and had kids, would the kids have disorder/disabilities?? what other complications would we have if we married?

2007-09-27 14:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow 4

When I get home from work, I'm tired. All she has to do is stand at a cash register all day. The heavyest thing she has to lift is a 5 pound bag a sugar. I work hard for my money. She should have dinner ready when I get home an not aspect me to wash dishes or take the dog out. I dont get what she matters. How do I conveince her to do the girl things around the house? we have 2 kids 3 and 4.

2007-09-27 14:44:02 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long did it last?

2007-09-27 14:38:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not like we are that hard to figure out.

2007-09-27 14:34:20 · 23 answers · asked by hungryeyes001 4

I have been with this guy for like 5 years (we have a 3 year old son) and he wants me to marry him. I love him a lot and he knows all of my dirty secrets (like my family is nuts). Should I say yes? I love him a lot... just don't know that I am willing to spend the rest of my life with him.... I want to get married and even though he can be a jerk, don't know if I can find better. So, the big question is if I should say yes to his proposal. We have been together 5 years tomorrow.

2007-09-27 14:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Valerie 4

2007-09-27 14:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean seriously....who can you trust then?

2007-09-27 14:13:55 · 18 answers · asked by I want to eat your soul. 3

We have been married 12 years. Have a 4 year old. My sex life would not exsist any more if I did not "harass" my wife to have relations. I do not remember the last time she made an effort to jump me or even surprise me by wearing lingere...so as a result I tend to be agressive. What do I do to constitue harassment? Well I grab her here and there and try to get close with her...feel like that is the only way I can cajole her. What the heck is going on with her? She always says she is tired but will stay up watching TV until 11 or so and then I AM too tired to enjoy it. Do I repulse her? Is she out of love?
I recently met another woman and have had sex with her and now do not know wtf I am doing...am having feelings for the other woman but probably because she pays attention to me and we have fun together. Please help. I am almost to the point of running away with the circus...ie divorce...but have the kiddo and a new house. I am miserable...please don't judge me...just help. Thanks.

2007-09-27 14:10:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon, I am 25 yrs old going on 26 and my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(he shares the same dad as my daughter).Our divorce is a bit ugly he cheated we seperated i cheated in retalition which is how my son was concieved.We tried to make it work but that turned out badly.The result was my hubby vandalized our home,took apliances,left the house pretty much vacant,and he also destroyed some of my personal things along with the some of the kids stuff.
My hubby said he is willing to give $850 for destroyed items
and $400 a month for 6 months in alimony?Do negociate frome here?

2007-09-27 14:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are arrogant men an instant turn off or do you find them attractive in some ways?

2007-09-27 13:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your spouse got very fat, or suddenly got very thin, could that be a relationship "deal breaker"?

2007-09-27 13:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at work when she left. I found out she was unfaithful to me. Was married 23 yrs.

2007-09-27 13:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by e76jc 2

not me.. but i know a lot who had.. and it seems to end the same way.. divorce later on down the road... is it always in the back of their mind that because they cheated with you that now that your married they will cheat on you.. is your spouse jealous that you may cheat..do eighter of you seem to keep close taps on each other..how long did the marriage last.. the shortest one i have seen was a few years.. the longest was 22 yrs.. the man did not want to lose the house..or is it in the back of your mind he / she cheated with you then they may do it to you

2007-09-27 13:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by vis 7

ok, quick version. I'm in the military and currently stationed away from my husband. Had a fling w/ another soldier and ended up pregnant. My room mate told her boyfriend who then told the rest of the barracks that i was pregnant before I got the chance (ok I was acting like a chicken and taking my sweet time) to tell the guy. Well, he went ballistic. We are both married. I ended up telling him it wasn't his. Should I keep this secret? This could possibly ruin both our marriages and carriers.

2007-09-27 13:21:17 · 25 answers · asked by EJ 1

I don't think there should be anything bad said about meeting or finding someone online, the bar is OK, but the nightclub is more questionable (a bunch of people dancing around and flirting, some in scantily clad clothing, to loud music).

2007-09-27 13:17:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently posted a question about falling for my tattoo artist.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aki70FNwMCuQpCXUcLX9hp3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070925185526AAIXPKx

Well I took some of your advice and told him that he had to try and fix things with his wife, and if he couldnt then to leave her.
I don't want to be a home wrecker, and I realized that so I'm trying to fix what has happened.

Well, today he left his wife. I wasn't expecting it. I was hoping he would stay and try to fix his marriage. He wants to file for divorce tomorrow. But I don't want to break there family apart.

When he told me he left her, I called her to see how she was holding up. She didnt even care. She said she was happy he did it.
I feel bad for this happening. I told her about me and him, and she said that she wasnt angry with me only because there relationship has been over for along time, they have just decided to do something.

I want to be with him, but I feel bad. What should I do?

2007-09-27 13:00:16 · 24 answers · asked by LisaMarie 1