I shouldn't be feeling the way i am at my age esp about a guy i hardly know who aint returning phone calls but i am; I need some consolation.
2007-09-27 07:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is all part of life. Be thankful you can experience it. There is a really cute guy out there waiting for you - go out and get him!..
2007-09-29 11:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your emotions are there to show you something about yourself. There is something that he, or the experience have to teach you. What is that? Get the lesson and you can let go of the pain.
Go within to get the insight. Here's a technique I found helpful:
An Invitation to Sing HU
You are invited to try this simple spiritual exercise. It has helped people of many different faiths open their hearts more fully to the uplifting presence of God.
To do the exercise, first get comfortable. Close your eyes, and take a few deep breaths. Next, gently put your attention on your inner visual screen, where daydreams and images come to you.
With your eyes closed, sing HU (pronounced like the word hue) as a song of love. There are many ways to experience the love of God. You may notice a feeling of peace, warmth, and comfort. You may also recognize the presence of the Divine through greater spiritual insights into your daily life.
When you sing HU and sit in quiet contemplation, you might also perceive the inner Light and Sound. The Light may appear as brightness or colors on your inner visual screen. The Sound may be musical or the sounds of nature, such as the wind or the ocean. However you experience the presence of God, it is bringing you a broader understanding of the life you lead.
2007-09-27 14:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself.
I am going through a similiar experience (I am 39 years old).
I have been dealing with it by accepting the fact that if it is meant to be, he will call me. I also have to respect his decision for not wanting to talk to me and get to know me better. I really care about this person and I want him to be happy, and if not with me, there isn't much I can do about it. It sounds like you have called him several times, so I would not call him anymore.
But it hurts - as it should, because if it did not hurt, then you would not be human. Nobody likes to be rejected, but it happens.
Try keeping your mind busy and hanging out with close friends. It may even help for you to talk with someone you consider a good friend, (or friends) just to get some of those feelings out in the open.
I think you will find that what you are feeling is completely normal and after talking about it, you will learn that we have all been through what you are going through.
Good luck.
2007-09-27 14:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel the way you feel. What you should or should not feel has no bearing upon it. You do feel. There is nothing wrong with you for feeling the way you do. Your emotions are your own and there is nothing wrong with them.
It's ok. You'll be alright. It feels so intense now, but time will allow it to fade. That's ok too. Let him go, accept that you feel this way and don't obsess about it. It happens.
There's nothing wrong with you. Likely there's nothing you've done wrong that explains why he isn't calling. It's just one of those things.
2007-09-27 14:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to your mom or another adault instead of here.
2007-09-27 14:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dvalle. Hon so you are young please talk with Jesus about it.
2007-09-27 14:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋