2007-09-27 01:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh ya u can move on... But u will have it in ur head for the rest of ur life u'll NEVER forget it and NEVER get over it.
2007-09-27 02:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you can get over it. Thats the last and final question. Can I move on? Can I go to bed while he's out with his friends and not worry and call every 5 minutes? If the answer is no, then you wont be able to move on. You also have to ask yourself can you ever trust him again. There's nothing wrong with giving it another shot, but you will only hurt yourself more if you stay and you keep bringing it up or dwelling on it. I wish you the best, Good luck and God Bless
2007-09-27 01:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could answer that. It's a very difficult thing to get over. I was cheated on by my spouse as well, yet we tried to move on from it. But still to this day it haunts me. I too hope there comes a day when I can just forget it ever happened. All you can do is try to trust again, do all you can to move on with your lives. But please don't be oblivious to it. If you believe he will do it again then chances are he will. Some people make mistakes... others just don't have regret, they enjoy that secretive lifestyle. You know the truth within your heart, follow your true instincts.
2007-09-27 01:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. Can you get over it and never bring it up again. I could not. It would run through my head when we were together. Infidelities? Does that mean he has done it more than once? If so lose him. He will never stop cheating.Do you want to go through this again? And again? You deserve better than that.
2007-09-27 01:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. You just have to want to go on. If you don't truely want to make up (or forgive him) then it will never work out. Ask yourself if life with him or without him is better? Children are also a big thing to consider. I'm not saying you need to live with a man that you don't like or trust just because you have kids, but consider how things will be for them.
Good luck
2007-09-27 01:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be a matter of trust.. Will you be able to trust him again? Do you want to spend the rest of your life looking over your shoulder?
You wrote infidelities. If there was more than one then I would question his ability to control himself.
2007-09-27 02:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought about adoption there are abunch of kids out there that need homes.. or getting artificially inseminated? Maybe just sit down and talk about it. If it's a big deal to have kids there are other ways so talk to him and do some information searching on other ways. You can move on from it if your going to be happy with him with out having kids
2007-09-27 01:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,you can..be strong dont think that you're alone..sure you have plenty of friends and family that can help you in this situation,and just always keep faith to the lord hes always there for us.again be strong..and GOD BLESS...
2007-09-27 01:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by icepink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can when you have completely forgiven him. He will have to take efforts to earn back your trust.
2007-09-27 06:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋