Is this where I've gone wrong the last two times?
How long should I wait?
2007-09-27 19:36:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HEY, my clock is ticking here!
2007-09-27 19:43:43 · update #1
Sometimes yes... have some respect and wait till the 3rd
Im still waiting for you to ask me.. AND CALL ME!
2007-09-28 13:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, its the wrong time. you probably scared the other 2 girls off. Girls usually like to take things slow. Some don't even kiss on the first date, and you expect them to wanna marry you?
Well, there is no specific time you should wait, it all depends on the girl. You guys definitely need to get to know each other for a long while before you decide to get married. Marriage is huge and it definitely costs a lot of money. You wanna make sure you marry the right person and not just someone you are interested in from the first date. You don't wanna marry the wrong person and end up getting divorced over and over, do you?
The next time you go on a date, don't ask her to marry you. Take her on a couple more dates, then after a few dates figure out if both of you guys would like an exclusive relationship. Take things from there, she will let you know when she's ready for marriage.
Honestly, I would wait at least 2 years but for some people its different. I've heard stories of people getting married after being together for only a couple of months. Love is crazy. Good Luck!
2007-09-28 02:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by ohhmyy23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-09-28 02:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see, the one that I know about you didn't exactly ask now did you? No, you woke up from a drunken night married to my friend. Like that song, how does that go, I'm married to a waitress and I don't even know her name... Poor girl, that's probably why we can't find her, she probably went off the deep end after being married to the big hairy yak!
So, how long should you wait? Maybe until the second date this time. Just don't wait too long or your next victim will figure out what she's getting herself into and then its all over before it even starts!
2007-09-28 02:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the first date is too soon. You should wait till you know each other better, till the girl is most comfortable to knowing you better. Jumping the gun like that makes a girl very unsure of you. Take your time, what's your hurry? If she truly loves you it will stand the test of time. Good Luck.
2007-09-28 02:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by frogprincess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...........yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss..........youy trying to imitate me or something?........i have 6 ex wives. I'm 49 in a few days time Ifd God doesnt take me out of this world. but you know whatcha could do?...........have her sign your chest with a sharpie pen, call yourself lucky, buy a guitar, go on the road and come home when you're 64 years old and ask your parents to borrow tha car and go get yuurself a slurpy, drive home right after dark and tell yer mom "hey mom I'm Hooooooooooooooooooome. but one thing more,.....one of my m,arriages was exactly loike the "onedate" will you marry me "yes"........... oh good, hey lets get a divorce",...... ok,.....oh by the way I'm taking the impala............."nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-28 02:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by theoregonartist 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First date definitely wrong wait until 365 dates later that will do it.
2007-09-28 03:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT ASK SOMEONE TO MARRY YOU ON THE FIRST DATE! under no circumstances should you ever do this. you will appear desperate! and if you have done this before, then you probably ARE desperate. she will think you are a stalker. and be thankful that this hasnt worked in the past, because honestly, you dont want to marry someone who says "yes" after one date. they are desperate as well!!! get some self-confidence. "love at first sight" is a sweet concept, but it is unrealistic. and if you feel like you could marry someone after a 1st date, then your concept of marriage is warped.
2007-09-28 02:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by nursinginwesttn 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she'll never talk to you again. wait until your'e both trully in love and know most everything about eachother. even if it takes 2 years.
2007-09-28 02:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how long shouid people date before the man pops the question,then take her opinion
2007-09-28 02:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by The Misses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋