Do you feel that married people who have affairs are just using the opposite sex for their own pleasure and play toys? I mean... really... how can someone trust a person who is cheating on their husband/wife. They've already shown you they are a cheater, lier and conniving. They have no morals and certainly not of solid character.
2007-09-27 23:19:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think those who have affairs are totally selfish, and they are also cowards. They don't know what love is, and they don't care about their spouse, or their children! fooey on affairs =(...
2007-09-28 00:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is wrong! JMO and only JMO, it is really bad how many people out there do that and then have the nerve to post it here, for the whole world to see, and the other day, I just got done answering one from a lady who is cheating and just does not care, she thinks it is ok.
All of these people take a vow in front of God and everyone, and then they just treat it like it is nothing.
It is really sad, people should think twice these days before getting married, and then having an affair, and then getting pregnant with someone elses child, and then coming on the board to ask us what we think, when they should be telling the person they are with their whole story.
Sometimes I get so tired of answering these questions, or reading these "statements" from people who are cheating but are not thinking about what it is doing to their spouse, their child(ren), or their unborn child.
2007-09-27 23:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say if she would then she is totally lonely, bored, looking for an exciting new lover, and unattracted to her husband. Her husband is most likely buried to his eyeballs in work so he ignores her, received to be pleasant neighbors with the tv, does not compliment her anymore, takes matters as a right that she does for the loved ones, put on a little bit weight, doesn't use that excellent cologne he used to, lost that romantic means about him, in no way takes her out, blah blah blah.... But the different married man has one fault that yours would not and thats being a rat! Yes new intercourse is tempting but no longer worth it. Just right luck
2016-08-04 17:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by steffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ,there is no trust between them.I got some statistics from sugarmommymeet.com as following:
Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital infidelity.
2007-09-29 20:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people say that a marriage can get stronger after an affair. They might work for some people. But if it happens its an indicator that the marriage is probably over physically.
2007-09-27 23:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by plutoniccatgirl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People sometimes feel they have to keep trying for thier own sake.I know when my first cheated on me,and abused me.I stayed with him for 10yrs.He did this the whole 10yrs.i had alot of hope that maybe one day he would love me like he said he would,and faith that he would change.For some it's harder to let go no matter what the case is.We are not stupid.We just hope to much.
2007-09-27 23:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by lollypop 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot trust them, sometimes people cheat purely for sexually reasons, but sometimes it's deeper then that, sometimes they fall in love with someone else and. I believe if you truly love somebody you just couldn't hurt them like that. Some men say they still love there wifes when they cheat, maybe, but it's not the love that should be between husband and wife.If my boyfriend ever cheated on me, that would be it. I would know he didn't love me the way he should anymore.
2007-09-27 23:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by meldown 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it was real hard for me to accept my partner after she cheated on me, she cried and told me it was the biggest mistake of her life but all i could imagine when i looked at her was the other guys member in her mouth and a glob of choad hanging off her chin, no matter how much i tried to forgive her i had to let her go after that.
2007-09-28 00:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the fastest way to end a marriage. Once the trust is broken it can't be completely repaired
2007-09-27 23:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by iceman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel that it is wrong, The person ho is cheating should feel bad. They r married to someone else if they r not happy. They need to get an divorce.
2007-09-27 23:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋