Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2007

Do you think that people who owe back child support or who are behind on their support payments really need to have their driver's licence suspended. What do you think and the the reason(s) Why...

This happened to a good friend of mine just recently and he ended up losing his job,because of it. now he's way behind....Is it fair....Just wondering.. right? or Wrong?

2007-09-30 15:04:28 · 26 answers · asked by DoeDoe Bird 2

say older by ten yrs

2007-09-30 14:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by goodness 3

Hi

My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/f before me 2 of which where serious but she said she was always in love with me.

As of this year I moved from Australia to New Zealand to begin a career in aviation because she next year will finish her law degree and I didnt wish to be left behind in terms of careers. Anyway she was really excited for me and she also decided to do 6 months in college in the USA, she would always talk about how good this would be for are relationship and such. Anyway i moved over to New Zealand in july and 2 weeks later she came to stay for a week before heading to the USA, everything was perfect she said she loved me more than ever and had a great week togther. Once she arrived in the USA she begun college straight away and 2 weeks in it was my birthday and she sent me a gift and a card saying how much she loved me and how being away from me made her realize how much she wanted to be with me.


I continued to get called by her and emails from her however I started to get a weird feeling in my stomach that something was changing in her. Anyway she is listed on facebook and I do not have a account so she didnt think i could see what was going on however my sister one day calls me up and tells me she (my g/f) has changed her relationship status from in a relationship to nothing. I started to get really concerned at this point however 2 days later she sends me another email telling me she only is thinking of me and all that crap. At this point I was very confused so I called her up and confronted her and she starts crying and all that and to cut along story short she breaks up with me (she also confessed to cheating on me) . At first she sounded like she would want to get back together when she got back but i kept calling her asking for answers and she seemed to push further away and almost act cruel towards me.

After all of this I made a facebook account and she added me and she is now listed single and has all these photos of her partying and drinking (which she use to hate and never did much drinking if any) she still writes and trys to call but only if I dont contact her for sometime. I also asked if I could come visit her when she finishes her time at college and she said yes (but she said no to me visiting whilst in college)I know she really likes a guy at the college and it hurts like hell because she will not admit to it, but on facebook she will hint at it by saying her crush is a secret. Also I have seen a photo of the 2 hugging.

What is going on? We where best friends and now I feel i dont even know her and she treats me like crap, I also have heard from friends she likes this guy she met but he is from argentina why would she throw everything away for something that could not possibly work?

This weekend is very hard because her and her friend (who she went with) are in Las vagas with 8 guys including the argentine. Also the friend she is with was always jealous of me and my g/f because we had such a good relationship I feel as if she has helped bring this all about.



Why is she acting cruel?

Why hasnt she taken any down time after are split? (she is listed on myspace as ecstatic)

Do you think we have a chance together?


Or do you think she has really moved on?


The one thing that really upsets me about all this is how she hasnt treated me like the best friend we use to be and also how she seems to have no heartbreak over all of this. I am hoping once she returns back to Australia and a normal life she might realise what she did and give me a real sincere apology for what she has done.

Any advice on what is happening would be great I really need it because all i see and hear is how much fun she is having I have even heard she wants to move there. Also when I ask her does she still ove me she says of course??

2007-09-30 14:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by Blake E 1

did love you, but does not love you anymore, and also, hurt you very badly. Why do I still love him? My ex bf....even if he still loved me, I could not be with him because he betrayed me. But why do I still love him...I have not seen him in over a year, and he made it clear that he does not want to see me or talk to me, and I have cried literally everyday since. Please help me...I dont know how to deal with the pain and hurt.

2007-09-30 14:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She knows it and so does the whole family. But she won't leave and has alot of excuses. She also has a 8yr.old kid. I can give her all the help she needs. Should I keep on telling her that she can trust me and her brother or should I just let her be? Her husband is cheating on her with another dude, plus he uses cocaine and he verbally abuses her and physically.

2007-09-30 14:37:50 · 15 answers · asked by M.M. 1

Nowadays, each family member seems so preoccupied with each individual activities, that sometimes they could not bring themselves together anymore. Everyone seems to go his own way. No one cares anymore to reach out each other. EVERYONE SEEMS TO BE SOOO BUSY...
What's going on?

2007-09-30 14:32:04 · 7 answers · asked by tee 1

2007-09-30 14:24:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are very touchie feelie now

2007-09-30 14:19:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 20years old and married we do not have a house of are own yet but we are trying. We work SO HARD to get what we have and I am so happy for it. But my husbands brother and so to be wife get handed everthing he has no job, she has one paying 7.50 an hour but they always have money to much money and they are not they saving up money type of people oh yea and she is pregnent. They just moved into there brand new house. Please tell me how me and my husband work are butts off and have nothing to show for it but he does not work she works so little and they have a house to show for. All i want to know is why am i so mad is it because I don't have a house or because they are not married and having a baby or both please help.

2007-09-30 14:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my grandson lives with his mother and her boyfriend who is alone with him all day while she works since he was born I have taken care of him and after he was 2yrs old she took him and left to be with this man. he hates him he is abusive and punishes him severly for silly unimportant things he has had marks on him and Ihave picked him up with slap marks on him and bloody bottom from not being changed and when he is with me evey otherweekend he screams and cries because he does not want to go home, he begs me not to send him back and this has gone on now for over 2yrs. he is now 4yrs old and I fear for him I have reported this and had social services check it out and even had the carosel here in NC in on it and all they did was talk to him for 5min and said he was too small to tell if he was telling the truth. my grandson and I am not just bragging is very smart for his age he has been talking since he was 18months old he can do things that a seven yr old can do. My son is his father.

2007-09-30 14:12:04 · 13 answers · asked by betsymb2 1

my and my x just started dating again and he's been asking me about a 3sum all last week but i guess i turned him off. it's definetly been a fantasy but i don't want to do it with the man i love maybe if i was a cheater it would be no problem but i told him i'm the prize and what i have is suppose to be for him only if i wanted another man or woman to touch me i would have done it those 2months we weren't 2gether i ask him was this somehting he was doing he said no he just wanted to try it with me i pick the guy and he the girl i said wouldn't it bother you to see me with another man he said no but i don't want him looking at me sideways later i want to but no, because i'm thinking about our future he said it's entertainment and married couples do it all the time should i try it once what would you do i love him he said he respect my answer that we're cool he won't ask again but i know he will oh yeah we've been 2gethter for 6yrs

2007-09-30 14:11:17 · 16 answers · asked by k2u 1

My love and I called it quit two months ago. We have been in loved for three years. We have never have sex. I want to be a virgin bride. He said he will wait for me. We separted last year because I moved to other states. He convinced he will wait for us to be together.

Recently, I found out my love had sex with his friend---the girl looks a lot like me. She seems to like my boyfriend a lot, he claims he does not love her. He said, he loves me!

I was so heart broken. I just didn't know what to expect. Sometimes. I blame myself for not giving the love he need. Sometimes, I blame my boyfriend. Sometimes, I blame the girl.

What do you think of this situation. Thank you very much.

2007-09-30 14:07:30 · 25 answers · asked by Hope 4

that didn't deserve your love !!

2007-09-30 14:02:27 · 31 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

i will be out from 11pm to 4am, i will leave the baby with a baby siter, my husband works all the time he is a business man, i am home alone with baby a lot, i want to go out but the same time i feel guilt because i dont want to be called irresponsible or be judge, is legal to do that?

2007-09-30 14:02:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 4 months,I dated this wonderful man for four years before we were married. prior to this mariage we were freinds with another married couple that I meet through my husband who he has been friends with for 15+ years. About a month ago my kids and their kids started fussing, my kids can not go outside our yard but their kids stand in front of my house and taunt my kids. The mom came to my house and was screaming at me then her husband came to my house and jumped on me, my husband works third and was asleep both times. These "friends" have been calling my husband and telling him that I am calling them and causing trouble which i have not done. I also believe that the woman wants to sleep with my husband and I have told her husband about it and my husband to. She called me last week and told me that my husband was talking to a woman at work which I confronted him about and it turned out to be nothing like she said. I want to know how to fix this Please Help!!!!!!!!

2007-09-30 14:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by ctsgirl 2

i will be out from 11pm to 4am, i am will leave the baby with a baby siter, my husband works all the time he is a business man, i am home alone with baby a lot, i want to go out but the same time i feel guilt because i dont want to be called irresponsible or be judge, is legal to do that?

2007-09-30 14:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been separated from my 1st husband for 10 years. at present he has his own family and children. im planning to get married again but im scared that i'll be charged of bigamy because we were not annuled.

2007-09-30 13:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl you are attracted to. What would make you want her more??
1. if you think your friends were getting in on the act, and you started getting a bit jealous ? or
2. she made you feel like you were the ONLY one she wanted

2007-09-30 13:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

my husband and i have a blended family. he has 2 girls, one of whom is 12, the other is 10. we have been having serious problems for a few months now. the girls mom has not really been in their lives for about 6 years, so i have basically co-parented these kids for 6 1/2 years now. the problem is that the 12 year old has been acting out by lying, sneaking, talking back and being very disrespectful to me. when i discipline her, she runs to my mother and law, or she will call her real mom, and say that ive been being mean, and turning everyone against me. my marriage is suffering greatly, because everyone takes the girls sides, including my husband. the 12 year old is getting so out of control, that i just feel like giving up most days and calling it quits with my marriage. my husband told me he wanted a divorce back in july because of a situation that was blown out of proportion. but i hung in there and convinced him that we should work it out. i am still unhappy, and so is he. help!!

2007-09-30 13:40:27 · 20 answers · asked by regina j 2

When they cheat they degrade themselves not you?

2007-09-30 13:39:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have decided to separate.I want to draw up an order of maintence and support.Can a paralegal do the or do I need an attorney?

2007-09-30 13:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by RS47 1

he tells me that he loves me but he has been talking and being with her for about a month. He tells me he's not in love with her but he cares for her. She works with him. I love him and we have two kids together. He tells me that it will never happen again. Her husband, her, me and him all had a little chat on speaker phone togther and she denied it all. but he has proof to everything. but she stills denies it. they tell each other they love each other. but he says he is just saying it. he doesnt mean it. he also says he wants to work it out. Let me know your opinions please....

2007-09-30 13:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by susan c 1

I asked this question and nobody answered me as am trying to solve my marriage issues. I used to be hurt always but never minded as there was nothing i was to tell and she accept it. However if a woman chose to spend nights on the couch while a husband slept on bed, i considered it as she don't want you or being around you when you man know that he did not put you out of bedroom. if she ever want to come to sleep on bed she sleep opposite way only for your husband to hold your legs and if he request you to sleep right you tell him " hell no". What do you think your husband would do/feel about you? what would you expect you husband to do?

2007-09-30 13:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 13:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by russellbob29 1

brought you together ?

2007-09-30 13:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A man and I communicated on and off for a year. My last letter was sent snail not email, and he answered it with cologne on the paper. What a delicious scent. Should I write back with perfume? Does this mean he has a crush on me?

2007-09-30 13:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by franj 2

We are in the process of divorce. He's been a real jerk. But sees no reason to get out. He also recently stated that he's so broke he will probably have to stay in (my house I rent from my mom) the house even after the divorce is final. This is making me feel schizophrenic. I don't know what to do ....anyone ever had a weird arrangement ??? I want him GONE NOW!!!!!

2007-09-30 12:29:58 · 21 answers · asked by Imlilyroses 4

2007-09-30 12:27:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 10 years to my ex husband and we have a daughter. I divorced him b/c he began cheating on me with his b/f's wife and would not leave her alone. Its been 10 years and he's still with her. I have since remarried and love my husband very much. I've dreamt about them at least 4 nights a week since we divorced and the dreams get more weird as the years go by. To make things worse, they are currently building a house in the town where I live - 10 mins away. They did live about 45 mins away.

Can someone please help me figure out why I keep dreaming about them. I don't think about them while I'm awake. I just want the dreams to stop.

2007-09-30 12:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy D 1

because we found out i was prego so his parents kinda pressured "us" to get married so the baby wouldnt be born out of wedlock. anyways so we got married about a month after finding out about the baby. at this point he was still cought in partying and doing his own thing. i knew he liked to drink alot and smoke weed. and use cocaine .which i really hate. so i told him he needed to quit doing drugs or i'd leave so he said ok. but little did i know that he was hiding it everywhere in our apt so i wouldnt find it. which i found like 3 times and each time left for a short period of time . i'm so fed up with it i'm going crazy. but i dont want 2 leave beacuse i want him to be a father 2 my son and i dont want my son 2 be part of a broken family. also he swears up and down that ever since my son has been born he NO longer uses cocaine. but i cant trust him so i accuse him. and then we end up fighting and its just getting old. i dont know what to do please help with ur opinons

2007-09-30 11:58:03 · 19 answers · asked by SSALAZAR 2