Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2007

We dated about 4 years before marriage and have been married for 6 years. About 4 years ago she told me she (out of the blue) wanted to start seeing other people cuz she really didnt want to get married at the time we did. She has recently went out of town on th weekend of our anniversary and had sex with someone else, and has also told me that in the beginning part of her even being with me, was to just get out of her moms house.

I feel so stupid and used and naive

2007-09-30 11:24:07 · 26 answers · asked by Flavor Flav 2

i am in love with the other guy and i think about the other guy alot so would somebody tell me what to do please

2007-09-30 11:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1

When i was 1 years old i was taken away from my mam and had to live with my aunty as i was a ward of court i love my mam very much but no one in my family will tell me why i was taken out of her care.
I have i asked the social services for my file to find out the truth do you think it is a good idea?

2007-09-30 11:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by Selina T 1

My fiance and I are going to get our marriage license this week and would like to be married asap....we live in NY and you have to wait 24 hrs to get married, do you have any idea how soon they will book a marriage to do there?

2007-09-30 11:04:06 · 7 answers · asked by chandralynn17 1

My wife of 18 years has been having an affair for the last 6 months. I tried to stay with her to work things out, but she has no intention of stopping seeing him. She says she loves me and doesn't want to live without me, but she can't cut him out of her life now. I moved out 6 weeks ago and she still seems to be holding on. So how long do I wait to pull the plug?

2007-09-30 11:03:14 · 10 answers · asked by Howlin M 1

...You see I have to talk about some issues withmy boyfriend...he is very complaing with the others and never satisfied...not with me but other people...


And every time I'm with him I want to open this theme and talk about it...

But every time I want to talk about it...he says sweet words, he gives me more attention, he says he loves me...

how come he knows I want to open themes that might lead us to break up...
it seems that he wouldn't let me...and I must admit part of me is falttered...

What do you think about this..any similar experiences....?

2007-09-30 11:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

i honestly wonder and have asked people that have done it, how can you look your partner in the face after you did? how can you ask for trust while you know you cant be trusted? how can you sit there and say: i love you and only want you, to someone that gives you your all but you are giving yourself to someone else? how can a person be so coldhearted and selfish? asking for love but not willing to give, wanting still to be wanted but not wanting that same partner only? i never understood that and wonder all the time. how could someone possibly lay down and "make love" to their spouse after they slept with someone else?

2007-09-30 10:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by not this way 5

but she crys alot!!! she burned dinner and sat on the couch crying for 20 minutes I held her and told her it was ok" no big deal we will order pizza babe" i told her and she kept apologizing all night...she cries if she cant figure out what is wrong with the baby we fed changed burped held her last night and tried rocking her to sleep and she kept waking crying loudly!!! my wife sat crying saying she was a horrible mom and wife..HELP!!What should I do? Could it be postpartum?

2007-09-30 10:52:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know everything...What is the procedure. My employer got it on the 21st, what can I expect to happen. Will they take the whole 400.00 out at once or bi weekly. Will they wait til the last minute nad take it out or will my employer take it immediately? When will the money grubbing witch receive the payment? What can I do get out of it at somepoint? i have a girlfriend and this was a mistake. We dont get alone so I dont see my son because I think she still wants me back. HELP!!! What will she do with all that money? I just got a job but I quit my last one right before she had the baby so they wouldnt take my money. Ive been working under the table for the past 2 years. But after getting arrested I decided on I wanted to get my license back and buy a car. Im only 24, a cancer. What should I do? PLs answer all my questions they are all equaly important. Best response get 10 points. I welcome responses from women too.

2007-09-30 10:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Jingles 3

ok..so ive been thinking. In the time the bible was written marriage was very different. Basically you could get married at any age, like 13. So if you were in love then that is when youd get married. Nowadays, say your 16 & in love n wanna get married u cant w/out parental permission & therefore its considered a sin to have sex. But its still the same love between the olden days couple that did get married & the nowadays couple that cant. So why is it worse? why doest there have to be that legal ceremony to make it officially not a sin? cant you just make a comittment between you & your sig. other with god? I think its wierd that it has to be recognized by the gov. to be official...dont u think it should be most importantly between the couple & god? Like is a legal marriage & a non-legal committment that different when it comes to religion? n is it better for a couple who isnt in love but married legally to have sex or a couple who isnt but verrrry comitted & in love? opinions plz.

2007-09-30 10:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by xtina : ) 1

2007-09-30 10:43:53 · 29 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1

would you sleep with a married man whose wife was pregnet with there 2nd child and she was the one working? would you come to there house where she paid all the bill's with there daughter there and have sex with him while she was at work??

2007-09-30 10:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by imj420vjs 2

For the past several months my husband has been moody and cranky . I have kissed his butt. Trying to please him. Things were somewhat better. Then out of the blue they got much worse. I think he suffers from depression but he is unwilling to get help. Everyone I know thought it was because I went back to work last year but its been over a year. He will not talk about the things that bother him to me or a professional. He is very close minded about doctors Last week my daughter told me he asked her when we get a divorce would she want to live with him or me . Then was angry with her for saying me. She let it eat at her for a couple of days then asked me about it. I didn't even know he was to the divorce stage. I have asked him repeatedly to please explain what the problem or problems are . So maybe we can try to fix them. All he says is it is too late . He doesn't want to try anymore. We can't seperate because we don't have the money. The ending problem is I am still in love with him.

2007-09-30 10:40:03 · 24 answers · asked by looking for ideas 1

I'm from Michigan, but I want to divorce my husband and just leave him because I'm afraid he will do harm with me if I'm going to divorce him. I want to go to Utah or California in another State and file divorce there. Can I do that? We married in Ohio; but our we live in Michigan. What will I do?

2007-09-30 10:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kikay K 1

2007-09-30 10:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 10:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by papita 1

When and what made you realize that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your husband or fiance? What did they do that set them apart from anyone else you ever dated?

2007-09-30 10:21:38 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs! 2

and thats the reason people end up cheating or getting divorced?

2007-09-30 10:16:54 · 21 answers · asked by just me 4

how long were you together?

2007-09-30 10:14:56 · 18 answers · asked by just me 4

Ok here's the deal....I have been with this man for five years, we have been married for three....we have a little boy who is almost two...Ok...he has been so wonderful to both me and our son until recently....I mean, ofcourse we have our share of fights and problems like every normal couple but nothing like this...
He has this friend who is single and has no kids...who also has more single, childless friends.....he has been going out to clubs with him every friday night, which is fine with me....but now its becoming more than once a week...(like 5 times) and he stays out all night and when I call him he says things like "I'll come home when I get home and thats it" then he turns off his phone.....and everytime he is with this guy he comes home with another fight to pick with me...telling me how he doesnt love me like he used to.....but when this guy is not around for a few days, he loves me and wants to make it work.....What did I do and how do I deal with this?

2007-09-30 10:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what anniversary number was it?

2007-09-30 10:12:28 · 3 answers · asked by just me 4

2007-09-30 10:11:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has it ever happened that you had a fling (one night of kissing or more) and that was it...kind of a one night stand even though you liked the girl/guy but due to circumstances...say you met on vacation or lived in different cities...it never progressed. Then later on you think of them and look them up? Or, you mysteriously run into them and take up where you left off?

I've seen it in movies...lie 4 weddings & a funeral but would love to hear any real live stories like this! Thanks.

2007-09-30 09:45:32 · 2 answers · asked by person 1

I know this is the wrong section, but thought I would get the best answer.


If you had a couple of job interviews, and someone wrote you a letter of recommendation referencing only one of the jobs you applied for, would it be a bad idea to attach it to your application for the other job.

2007-09-30 09:38:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 09:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by brownsugar 2

im gonna be looking for employmentand my hubby goes " you aint gonna go look for a job" and im like " yes i am, because i have a car payment and im not trying to be broke". so he was like " i dont know why you went to go buy $200 worth of clothes you not gonna wear", it makes me mad because he doesnt have alot of faith in me, but he wants me to help him out? i dont get it. why would he say something like that? like he either wants me help him, but then he doesnt i dont know. what do you think he is saying or what does he mean?

2007-09-30 09:02:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

called me at 1 am to bring him his wallet that he forgot. Although I was not happy about it, I got up and drove to his workplace(in my nightgown) to bring it to him. When I got there, he realized he also forgot his insulin and had to go home anyway to get it. He followed me out of the parking lot and he stopped to get coffee while I continued on home. I was pulled over by a sheriff for having a brake light out, and lo and behold, when my husband finally came by, he drove right past me and didn't even stop to see what was going on! He claims he panicked because he knew I was pissed anyway for having to be out at 1am and I would blame him for getting stopped. Duh! Grounds for divorce???

2007-09-30 08:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by fnd40 4

Husband cheated on my once. We are working it out. Started by putting our family back in church. I believe he is totally with me, but how can I forget what happened?

2007-09-30 08:49:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think im not depressed but im tired all the time im over weight ,all i want to do is sleep i hate it when my hubby comes near me, we fall out alot but thats just us !!! i can understand him but hes going MAD hes always had a high sex drive ,i havnt ,we only have sex maybe 3 times a month some time more ,just dependes how i feel should i just let him so it stops him going off ? plz help its getting me down

2007-09-30 08:34:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 08:24:34 · 21 answers · asked by kathleenwanabee 2