I have been married for 4 months,I dated this wonderful man for four years before we were married. prior to this mariage we were freinds with another married couple that I meet through my husband who he has been friends with for 15+ years. About a month ago my kids and their kids started fussing, my kids can not go outside our yard but their kids stand in front of my house and taunt my kids. The mom came to my house and was screaming at me then her husband came to my house and jumped on me, my husband works third and was asleep both times. These "friends" have been calling my husband and telling him that I am calling them and causing trouble which i have not done. I also believe that the woman wants to sleep with my husband and I have told her husband about it and my husband to. She called me last week and told me that my husband was talking to a woman at work which I confronted him about and it turned out to be nothing like she said. I want to know how to fix this Please Help!!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 14:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by ctsgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At some point you may need to involve the police.......this could get dangerous.
No one can screw up your marriage except the two of you.
You and your husband should be a united front against all outside influences......talk to each other and stand together against your crazy neighbors.
2007-09-30 14:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A restraining order? What does your husband say when you tell him what's going on? It sounds like the other couple Are trying to mess up your marriage. If your husband doesn't see this, what does he think? I would not let Her in the house anymore the way she's acting. You need very clear communication with your husband to keep the other couple , from causing any problems bettween you. Good luck, you have a Witch to deal with.
2007-09-30 14:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and your family should move. and you need to grow up a little. stop believing every little thing you hear about your husband especially when its coming from someone you thinks want to sleep with your husband. have your kids play in the back yard than that way the other little kids cant taunt them. but you all need to grow up and think about the message that the kids are getting from the adults behavior. GodBless
2007-09-30 14:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. It is very important. I know that it is my answer to most of these questions but it all comes back to that. Communication. You and your husband should be talking to eachother and listening to eachother. Let your husband know what is going on while he is at work. Do not listen to what others tell you. You see that she is causing you trouble, buying into her words just makes her job easier. Trust your husband, talk to him. Be open and honest with him. I hope it works out.
2007-09-30 14:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by bkdrm41897 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you move? Friends like that deserve not to be called friends. Try whatever you can to not continue that relationship. It is poisoning you and your husband.
2007-09-30 14:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nate and Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. My answere get a restraning order, jk , maybe. But you should definatly tell your husband, if he dosen't belive you your going to have major issues.
2007-09-30 14:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by charmedandarmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of those friends...friends are there for you...not jerks when they dont know how to handle things
2007-09-30 14:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋