i will be out from 11pm to 4am, i will leave the baby with a baby siter, my husband works all the time he is a business man, i am home alone with baby a lot, i want to go out but the same time i feel guilt because i dont want to be called irresponsible or be judge, is legal to do that?
2007-09-30 14:02:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as your not leaving the baby alone it is legal.
You deserve a break once in a while. Go out and enjoy yourself!
2007-09-30 14:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going out from 11 pm to 4 AM is not going out for some adult conversation! At 31 you should have grown up more than that! Most moms get to go out occasionally - like for dinner with girlfriends or a movie - places where you can talk, de-stress, have fun. Places that open up at 11 pm are called after-hours places and they are associated with drinking, dancing, drugs, pickups, sexual encounters. And staying out until 4 AM!!! Are you a moron?! Sure, it's legal but morally right? No. Nyet. Nope. Nein. Nu-uh. And what kind of a mom will you be the next morning when you're tired, hungover, crabby?! Sounds like trouble and if you don;t realize that, you're not much of a mom.
2007-09-30 21:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey its your kid, your responsibility and it seems like you are indeed a responsible mother, so dont feel guity and dont let anyone else make you feel guilty. Hey just because you are a mom doesnt mean you have to give up friends and going out. have a good time, then when you get home, give the kid a hug and a kiss, pay the sitter and sleep well. If anybody gives you any crap about it I'd give em a piece of my mind.
2007-09-30 21:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by molly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just as long as you know that the baby is safe and will be with a responsible person that you know and trust, then yeah sure why not go out. Have fun with your life. You only live once so take advantage of your life.
2007-09-30 21:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mom_of_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real. This is how messing around gets started. Go have a drink or cup of coffee with your friends in the afternoon.
No matter how strong your marriage is, nothing good happens between 11pm and 4am.
2007-09-30 21:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by joker 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you still have a life for sure after your baby's arrival, however its not the same anymore when you were a single and without a baby.
Your baby need you more than your friends, the health, the condition, and the future of your child still rely on you.
Do your part as a mother 100% its worth doing it
2007-09-30 21:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mang Jose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do it but not at all times. Of course you need to have time for yourself. Doing it once or twice a month is better but of course your responsibilities as a mother are your priorities, don’t just bore yourself inside your house doing a lot of household chores, just have fun!! It is one way of living a healthy life as a married woman.
enjoy mom!!
2007-09-30 21:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OK just as long you don't come home drunk to your baby.
And make sure it OK with the babysitter to do so. Or try to do it during the day if possible Sometime us mom's need a break.
2007-09-30 21:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by crissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure its legal. but my thing would be why? i mean so what you are with the baby alot? what are you goind to do? i mean single woman have one things on their minds and its not women. its up to you if you choose to do this and i wonder what the hubby would say would you like him to go out and do stuff when he can? goes both ways take care.
2007-10-04 20:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i agree with what C said.
I think it's legal.
You deserve funn... go out and party or something.. act like your 20! [ no drugs please ; ) ]
Don't leave the baby unattended.
hire a babysitter with a lisence or somone you trust. Ex. Your mom, neighbor?
2007-09-30 21:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋