2007-09-30 20:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by safeen q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it a day at a time. Admit when you're in the wrong. Love your spouse with everything you have. Tell them sweet nothings even if you don't think they like it (because they do!!!). If you're in a fight, don't go to be mad. Even if it's not resolved, just give 'em a big hug and a kiss and say "I love you." It's not always easy to do especailly when fighting but life it too short to be mad at the one you vowed to spend the rest of your life with. HUG THEM!!!
2007-09-30 20:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've been married but it wasnt a happy ending. So, make sure the one you are marrying is the other half of you. little things just go wrong, we never know. in a moment we feel like we're flowing with what life brings us then one day we wake up and find out we dont love each other anymore... also, always remember there are two different people involve in a relationship, we should give and take. it won't always be a sunny day for the rest of your lives so be prepared for the stormy nights too.
2007-10-01 03:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by May 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 2 1/2 years. It's awesome!!
2007-10-01 03:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes dr. I feel that this is an important portfolio in one's life in this universe. Married life is blissful and an open book for you to read, write, rewrite and store. Love, affection, understanding, mis understanding, tolerance, money management, resource management etc. etc. are some of the learnings you have during the marital life. When you get your children, you will also say A HA! My life is beautiful.
So, please do not shy away from marital life. Wish you the best. Cheers
2007-10-01 03:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by villager 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well now let me say this do you want to feel like your in heaven and at the same time be in trouble then I would say marriage is good but if you don't want to have her there all the time with you then don't You see being married can be hard and it has some great rewards to go with it but sometimes your feel like you doing everything wrong you need to ask yourself how you feel about her are him
2007-10-01 03:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by lonelytom4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be loving and passionate even the worst thing come your way always open a channel of communication, don't hide anything to her. Be open, have this sense of sensitivity. Always be supportive.
2007-10-01 04:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by glen l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn when to shut up and just take it like a man, their will be days that no matter what you say or do it just seems like you can't do anything right. That's just the way it going to be.
29 years and still going, we are our best friends.
2007-10-01 04:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn these three things and use them at the appropriate time.
1) I'm sorry
2) Yes it is my fault
3) I never really saw it that way
2007-10-01 04:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ruben Rybnik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not 50/50 it has to be 100/100. Give 100%. Serve and love your spouse like none other. Do everything together. Learn to laugh at yourself. Have fun!
2007-10-01 03:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
communication is key. work towards that. remember the first year is hard. then it gets easier. remember to compromise. thats helped us alot! i've been married almost a year.
2007-10-01 03:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by l4courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋