Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2007

I need them to get a divorce, I can't explain it to u. But what can I do? It's been like this for years.

2007-10-04 14:45:50 · 23 answers · asked by Olivia M 1

2007-10-04 14:44:45 · 26 answers · asked by inquisitive 2

I just got hired and I've been working temporary. I got offer a lower wage position during my temp service and he advise that I shoul djust stick with the temp job to see how it goes. I did listen but I made the decision right! Now my husband taking all the credit for if it wasn't for him I wouldn't be where Im ar right now? Is that true or is it just wrong? Im just so like whatever punk. I work hard to be where I am at now not because of just his little advice right? I just need some feedback if he is really if right or wrong.

2007-10-04 14:39:16 · 15 answers · asked by worried 1

2007-10-04 14:38:38 · 23 answers · asked by karate 3

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2007-10-04 14:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

where can i go just 2 get away from everything i just cant take ANYMORE !!!!!plz help. and why is it family will stab u in the back b 4 anyone else

2007-10-04 14:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by raven m 3

My husband turned into a binge drinker, it started 3 years ago when he lost his job. He now has his own business. I do go to Alnon meetings. At least once a week. I am 47 years old, not in to bad of shape. I work and have friends. I live on the East cost, my only child lives in the West. I just think I am afraid of living by myself. I live in a two family house. My mom lives in her own apartment downstairs. His drinking is causing me so much aniexty, I hate his behavior when he is drunk. He can't stay sober for more then 2 to 3 weeks. I tried talking to him, writing letter, crying, etc.... of course we fight which doesn't help the problem. I just wish I had the courage to get my *** to the lawyer and start separation If it was another women it would have been over. If G-d takes him at least it is over.

2007-10-04 14:22:50 · 17 answers · asked by Magic1001 1

2007-10-04 14:13:43 · 12 answers · asked by Snow Bunnie 2

My hub and I have been married for 16 yrs. We have a daughter 15 son 9. For so long, I have told him about how I miss him sitting by me...putting his arm around me. Well, many times he will say that he doesn't realize that he isn't doing it, and for a little while he might start doing it again..then he goes right back to his old ways. I handed my daughter the newspaper to look at a few min ago and my hub went over there and put his arm around her and started reading with her. This wouldn't bother me in the least, if he would do the same for me. This happens on other subjects as well. When we are at a store and he sees something that he thinks my daughter might like in clothes, he will be like, hey...how about this? But he doesn't seem to care at all about anything I wear. He loves his son too, and they have their own special relationship and he says that he feels like "he and I are connected". No worries. There is nothing perverted going on here, I can assure you. I just don't get it.

2007-10-04 14:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by ShineOn 4

2007-10-04 14:09:18 · 11 answers · asked by stonetree 1

should i do to feel better 4 kids and have not worked in 13 years and govermant makes it were i can afford to go back to work any ideals.....im so poor and unhappy.......
a mother of 4...........

2007-10-04 14:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by daisy 4

2007-10-04 14:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by rhina c 1

A few years ago my wife told me he called her and asked her to party when I was out of town. Another time he asked if she “wanted him for breakfast”. She said no and told me and didn’t want me involved.
Years went by he became born again. My wife hung out with them again. She stared at him in a weird way – like a girl with a crush. I asked her what is going on - she told me I’m insecure and freak out for no reason-she is not staring at him. For about a month my wife, neighbor his wife drink until late–kids running aimlessly. I hear them partying and spied a few times. Then he walked her home, I told him not to, he did anyways – so I beat him up.
A year of ignoring them went by and my wife was at their house for a few minutes. The guy handed her a note. It had a private email for her to contact him. She ripped it up and threw it away. But I found it in the trash and pieced it together. The bottom said I Love You. She said he’s crazy and she just wanted it all to go away.
It haunts me

2007-10-04 13:48:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 13:47:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think ?

2007-10-04 13:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by muson 2

ok been together a year been married 3 months and at first we had sex all the time but now i want sex all the tima and he only wants it 2 or 3 times a week why is this think he may be bored hes only 3 1/2 years older so his sex drive should be close to the same of mine, is there somthing wrong or is every thing normal....?

2007-10-04 13:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4

bf of 6 yrs and I were going thru his bills. We will routinely do this. Stamped sealed then went about our day. Later in the day he left to pick up his son and asked if I would straighten up house, take trash out etc. When I gathered up the trash I saw his cell phone bill was in the trash I had not remembered if he had paid that. I get the bill, the envelope was open. I looked to see if the bottim half was torn off and pd,much to my surprise there were several calls lasting 3/ 4 hrs a nit. Lasting until 2 am There were many calls at different times. Since the drive is 2 hrs to get his son I fumed for 2 hrs. When got back I asked him to explain. The story was it is a girl that he sees when he does work at her office. They evidently talk about people she talks with on the net. "No big deal" I new he worked at this office, but obviously not the whole story. He wuld call me at nite "on his way to bed" but obviously caling her. i am fuming and he thinks I am too jealous. opinions pleze

2007-10-04 13:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by Patty 2

2007-10-04 13:18:08 · 25 answers · asked by vboy 1

What would you do if your mother in law keeps trying to drive you nuts? For ten years I tried to get along with my MIL until, I exploded. My husband talked to her and things got a little better for me. We don't see each other very much anymore, about once a month. But, now other people tell me about things she says about me. Do you think I should ignore the situation unless she personally tells it to my face, which she never will. Or confront her, and let her know that I know of her talking lies about me?

2007-10-04 13:06:18 · 22 answers · asked by mommy-of-4 2

or should i say preferring to marry a wealthy man. even if I love him.

2007-10-04 13:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 12:57:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to get married by the age of 25. i'm almost 21 and i don't have a boyfriend right now. is this a reasonable goal?

2007-10-04 12:52:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see questions on here all the time about this. Women who think that their husband is cheating just because he talks to women.

I have never done a damn thing to cheat on my wife, but I talk all the time with female coworkers, about our lives, problems, etc. I go out to lunch with them. We (as a group) go out for beer and wings. I have even travelled for training alone a few times with one of them. My wife believes in me and I have never given her reason to believe otherwise. Although what I describe most people would scream "CHEATING!!" to, I have done and will do no such thing.

Why are people so quick to assume that?

2007-10-04 12:49:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you were with some one and told them they were your soul mate and you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them.. would you marry them.. or just live together.. my bf is like that.. he tells me that.. and yet he says he is scared of signing that piece of paper.. i dont press because there are times i dont want it either .. just trying to figure him out

2007-10-04 12:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by vis 7

I have been the primary caregiver of the child since he born , the father he didn't ask to see the child till the child was 6 months bcause i took him to the court , i have now the interm custody of the child and he has the access , the Jug miontened last time that the joint custody it's something far away from happning because there was a violonce against me when i was pregnant he abused me , Do you think I'll get the sole custody next court date ? The father is unemployed he's on ODSP(disability) he's lazy he doen't have any health problem .and there is no contact between us since the abuse happen he see the child in the access center supervised but it'll be unsepervised when we go back to the court ,
Do you see any chance for me to get a sole custody ?
Thank you

2007-10-04 12:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by sim sim 6

it's been nearly ten months ago and i'm still not over it. he would always tell me if it happened then we would have the baby. he knows i'm crazy about them. this is both our second marriage and we have kids from previous marriages 19,17,12 & 10. none together. about 2 months before i got pregnant i made it very clear that he was to pull out (sorry) or use something b/c i didn't feel he really wanted one & our relationship is not a good. (past abuse) and i didn't want to go through an abortion. i wouldn't be able to live with myself. he wouldn't listen and kept doing his thing. i would be pissed after but he didn't care. then i got pregnant!! he was cold about it and ouwln't talk to me about it. he didn't want it &i knew i had to have an abortion. i knew i didn't want to raise this baby on my own. i know i'm to blame for not protecting myself. i hate myself for this and i can't put it behind me. every baby i see makes me cry! i feel as long as i'm w/him i'll never get over it.

2007-10-04 12:46:36 · 39 answers · asked by exhausted 1

My husband snores And it is so bad, I have been tempted to take a large pan and bang it in his face. I have been sleeping in my child's room for over a month and I know that this will only create another problem. My husband doesn't seem to acknowledge his snoring problem, but It really is affecting my overall sense of happiness and I don't know what to do. Should I leave him?

2007-10-04 12:44:58 · 17 answers · asked by Ugogirl 2

would you still get married.. and why .. also how long have you been married.. i was married twice.. the first did not last a year and the second lasted 19.. if i knew then what i know now i would never have gotten married.. first one cheated. the second a control freak that nearly turned me nuts..

2007-10-04 12:44:10 · 12 answers · asked by vis 7

i just want to know what are the do's in the donts about being married, and how does it feel to be married.

2007-10-04 12:35:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sun Shine 2

my husband and i are together again after the affair. however, letely i have been having pangs to email the ex-other woman and let her know how i felt during the time that they were together. i am thinking that i need to do it to heal myself and hopefully, forgive them and myself, too. i don't intend to write bad things to her or hurt her. just a woman-to-woman kind of thing to help me understand better, finish and seal off the "business" for good.. should i?

2007-10-04 12:29:04 · 31 answers · asked by travlin soul 2