or should i say preferring to marry a wealthy man. even if I love him.
2007-10-04 13:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well EVERYONE would like more money.
Phrasing it the way you do makes you look shallow. Marry the one you love. Money is a bonus.
2007-10-04 13:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you marry a rich man think of how uneventful your life would be. Plus you would probably have rotten kids. Money is not everything although when you don't have any it seems like it is. Just because you have all the material things that you could ever want does not mean that you will be fullfilled. I think that the most special times in my marriage are the times when we have to count on one another finacially. I have been dirt poor. Paying for milk with my kids piggy bank money. Now I am more well off, but some of my finest memories are from the past. We went a couple of weeks with NO money and then my husband got his first paycheck from a new job. Thinking back I laugh, the first things we bought with his check, He bought a cheeseburger from a fast food joint, I bought Q-tips (clean freak and went better than a month without any), and our 6 year old bought an action figure at the dollar store. To this day no matter how bad things get we ALL remember they could be worse. How would you feel if you marry a rich man and then loose all your money for one reason or another, what would your kids be like? Money is not everything hunny! Find a man rich or poor that you know when times are hard will be working his *** off for Q-tips for his wife. LOVE IS THE KEY TO FOREVER FULLFILLMENT NOT CASH!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-04 13:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that the man you marry is the man you love, otherwise why do it. Money is not the root of all happiness, it does help but it's not what you go to bed with every night. Plus you could marry a rich man and then one bad investment he could lose everything. Then what would you do, file for divorce. '
Marriage is about loving each other, respecting and helping each other grow into better people. TO always be there no matter what.
Marry for the right reasons. Not monetary.
2007-10-04 13:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by iamhappyfourme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think of there's no longer something incorrect yet you're 21 so which you're sooo youthful to get married and no-one gets married to get divorced, yet alot of rich ppl are purely married for a pair years then directly to the subsequent one so which you in no way know you may marry a rich one after which with those financial disaster something might take place no longer something is assured no longer even funds
2016-12-28 15:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can not buy you happiness, but then again poverty sucks.
You may want to marry a wealthy man but who is to say a wealthy man would want to be with you?
2007-10-04 13:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! I too would prefer to marry a wealthy man... who doesn't? :-) but if you love someone else who is not wealthy then there is no such other happiness you can get than to share your love and be loved. But if the person happens to be wealthy and then you love him and he loves you... you are sooooo lucky girl... go for it. take care
2007-10-04 13:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by prettyinpink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, there's nothing wrong with it. it fits my theory that most women would like to have a financially secure man and that a man would have the same chances of getting a gold digger whether the woman was beautiful or not. people need to get rid of the beautiful dumb slut gold digger theory and look at human nature. the people who say they want real love and personality is the key is right, but alot will only be comfortable with someone that is almost equal finance wise.
2007-10-04 18:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong! What is wrong is that by being so into getting a rich man, you usually miss out on the true meaning of love. For you; first is money, second is love, which there is nothing wrong with it, but, do you think that is worth it to miss out in love? remember...money will always be there. The love of your life...maybe not.
2007-10-04 13:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all. At least you admit it. I am trying to marry a wealthy woman myself. Any takers?
Good luck.
2007-10-04 13:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutle nothing wrong with it. Jsut don't shut yourself off to other men just because they aren't wealthy because you may end up missing out on true love.
2007-10-04 13:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by Carebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever give up on finding a soul mate for money but if you can have them both then I say go for it!!!!!! You will sell your life short if you only marry for money without the love.
2007-10-04 13:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by copswife93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋