I need them to get a divorce, I can't explain it to u. But what can I do? It's been like this for years.
2007-10-04 14:45:50 · 23 answers · asked by Olivia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HOW OLD ARE YOU? IF YOUR 18 MOVE OUT.
2007-10-04 14:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you, can't do nothing about this, the only thing i will tell you sit down and talk to your mom about this remember, mom always "most" of the time listing to their kids tell her how you feel and give her your idea what they should do, but don't for get if one day they get to a divorce, you don't divorce from them you are their kid no matter how old are you. I wish you the best Good luck!!!!!
2007-10-04 22:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by evy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. That is a decision THEY, as adults, have to make.
Blessings to you dear... you're going to need them.
I just want to add, not all parents who divorce are enemies. My ex and I are best friends and will remain that way. Our daughter comes FIRST. She's 17, healthy, beautiful and intelligent and no matter what happens in her life her parents, my ex and I, will be by her side TOGETHER. We were in love when we had her and there's no need to hate each other now, we have a daughter that we both love and both adore and we both want to be a part of her life. So not all parents are like the ones mentioned above.
2007-10-04 21:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by MamaB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well sorry....but you can get your parents to divorce unless they are wanting and willing to divorce...I suppose you could just talk to them and suggest that they divorce...but ultimately they will make the decision.
2007-10-04 21:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to seek counseling to open their eye about their relationship. If they have chosen to stay together for years and it is not out of fear you may need help. A divorce do not stop peope being together if it what they want or needs.
2007-10-04 22:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by china light 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something KID. My parents divorced when I was 16. I was thrilled because it meant the fighting would stop. Since then my mother refuses to attend birthdays, holidays, weddings, or funerals that she knows my father and his wife are attending. She boycotting my wife's baby shower, my brother's wife's wedding shower, and complains every single time she's not seated where she wants to be seated at important events. You want your parents to get a divorce do you? Yeah. Wait until you're 30, married, have children, and you have to CHOOSE between your mother and your father when trying to decide who to invite over for Thanksgiving, knowing that whoever doesn't get invited will be mad at you for not loving them as much as you love the other.
2007-10-04 21:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i wouldnt do anything a be glad they r together it could be worse. my parents used to fight all the time and i wanted my mom to leve so bad. But my dad ended leaving her years later for reasons not to speak off. i always thought my parents were unhappy together i but i was just the outsider lookin in and now 2 yrs later they are still in the divorse it has torn my siblings apart and my whole family. its hard trust me one day if it happens on there own youll wish mom and dad could share special times with u together
2007-10-04 22:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sharibabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 40 and when I was 15 I packed my dads bags and had them outside on the porch when he got home. You see my dad had cheated on my mother (again) but this time with my teacher. Dad left that night, it took a few days but he thanked me, he knew he was hurting mom but didn't know how to leave.
You don't have to do it that way but your parents will listen.
2007-10-04 22:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by lucidwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down and tell them how hurt you are. Tell them its okay to seperate if that is what they want. They might be staying together because they think its the best thing for "the kids". It might be a refief for them to know that its okay with you if they get a divorce.
2007-10-04 21:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by redsoxra 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cannot control your parents anymore than you can control the weather. Sorry, but that's the facts.
What you need to do is concentrate on doing well in school so that you can go to college and get out of there as soon as you possibly can.
Good luck.
2007-10-04 21:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You cant do anything. You are not in the marriage with them. It is up to them to take that step if thats what they want. All you can do is offer your opinion and listen to what they want and how they feel.
2007-10-04 21:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by izumz420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋