Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2007

my hubby did that and i was wondering if it was?

2007-10-04 12:24:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband came home late last night because of working late. His shirt smelled like sweet perfume and he denied it. After pressing him he said "Oh maybe my Boss hugged me and she wears perfume." After he took a shower- he became mean and distant. Right before bed HE brought it up again saying he couldn't believe that it bothered me. This is the first I noticed the perfume smell.

2007-10-04 12:21:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married for 6 yrs have 2 boys.After I had our youngest I went on antidepressants which decrease my libido.We havent been intimate in about 3 mos.On Monday I found out he went out with another woman to a nightclub.He had invited me to go but many years ago I used to party and drink a lot and I try to avoid those kinds of environments.I dont want to fall into it again.Once in a while we go out but that day didnt seem right to me.That afternoon before I told him I wasnt going out with him,he was installing cable in a house and met this young lady;they exchanged numbers supposedly because he was going to refer her for a job.When he found out I wasnt going he invited her.He ended up attracted to her.They had a good time,he took her home and kissed her,supposedly no sex.They went out to eat another day and he told her about me and that he just wanted to be friends.Im dying inside.Today he said he made it up to see how I will react.Anyone else think this is bull?Why 3 days later deny it?

2007-10-04 12:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 12:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mj C 1

We have been dating for almost 3 years and living together for a year & a half. I have 2 children at home. He has 2 children who are grown. He was married for 18 years. 7 of which they lived in that home. Am I wrong to not want to live there? We are not engaged & this would not be MY home.

2007-10-04 12:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is a sweet humble lady but is really lazy and unorganized. I have a tough sales job having to put in up to 60 hours / week (including time on the golf course with potential clients or just with friends.)

Almost every time I come home from work, from golf, or the bar my food is cold and she hasn’t gotten some of her chores done.

She’s a stay at home mom with our 3 kids. She’s got it made. All she has to do is “play house” with the kids while I’m busting my butt trying to bring home the bacon.

What really gets under my skin is the nights that when I get back from the bar. I usually try to get in early no later than 1:00 am. I almost always find that she still hasn’t finished her chores and she’s asleep not even waiting up for me!!!!!

I’ve done everything that I can to get her organized. I even used MicroSoft power point and Excel to make some charts and check off lists for her. To no avail though she is always behind the eight ball.

2007-10-04 12:10:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

My wife and I have been married for a little over a year. During this time we have never lived together as husband and wife. We have spent three weeks together. A week at a time. One week during the honeymoon. A week in December and most recently a week in June. My wife has filed for a divorce. I do not want a divorce. I want reconcilliation and for God to save and restore my marriage. My wife lives in Canada and me here in the US. I was denied entry into the country becasue of an event that occured 20 yeasr ago. We needed $1000 to complete a form that would get me into Canada but I could not raise that money and my wife did not want to help me. As I said she wants a divorce. I have researcehd the scriptures on divorce and remarriage exhaustively. I do not want to spend the rest of my life a single man. I am in my early 40's and this is my first marriage, her's too. I want to be able to remarry if the divorce goes through. Can I remarry under biblical grounds? Did my wife and I have a real marriage in the eyes of God? I feel like I am an innocent man. I did not commit adultery, abandon my wife, verbally abuse my iwife. I have been faithful and true to my wife but she wants a divorce so she can find someone else. I have been called to ministry and will this divorce prevent me? I love my wife and want to stay together. What can I or do I do?

2007-10-04 12:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by gregctee 1

my husband is a roofer and owns his own business with his best friend. he came home 2 1/2 hrs after dark and swears he was working the whole time but how do you roof a house when its dark out? i just dont know if i can trust him. please only serious answers or i will turn you in.

2007-10-04 11:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by April 2

2007-10-04 11:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by anonimo 1

2007-10-04 11:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by jenniferk5683 3

2007-10-04 11:28:09 · 14 answers · asked by MRS.KB 1

she's in another state how can i axcess her computer to see where she's been and if she's having online affair?

2007-10-04 11:27:10 · 21 answers · asked by Tim L 1

i was taken away from my dad before i was even born.....my mom won't tell me who he is, n i have no clue of how he look 4

2007-10-04 11:25:44 · 7 answers · asked by MOCOSITA 1

Must be NICE!!!! To be very Happily Married!!! I envy all of ya'll, while some of us are not that lucky in the marriage department. I do not understand, why some people have all the luck in the world, to be in a successful marriage. How depressing this is!!!! Sucks!

2007-10-04 11:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

i really don't know all i know is that she really started writing it because one of her friends got mugged and she went home and write.

2007-10-04 11:18:14 · 2 answers · asked by puppylove5196 2

2007-10-04 11:08:56 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-10-04 11:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by Robert S 1

2007-10-04 10:59:58 · 25 answers · asked by azol 1

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2007-10-04 10:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Meltininur 1

paper but I feel like he does not trust me and is going through my personal things and I have never done anything to warrant this. I love him and would never cheat on him. I haven't mentioned it yet although it really upsets me . What is the best way to handle this?

2007-10-04 10:52:10 · 17 answers · asked by victoria c 4

2007-10-04 10:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Duy Q 3

I'm in love with someone who's been married for two months because of a child and he's now getting a divorce. But because he already has a baby, and also because i'm only 18 my parents disaprove and forced me to break up. what can i do?

2007-10-04 10:43:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so me and husb have been thru counceling 2gether and now we started indivd councl....after one session, He says he wants to seperate and then divorce.....I have no reaction to it...kinda of happy to be free but scared as hell to be free after 12 years... so wht the next thought, step... I have 3 children, live in a state with no family or friends.no job except a at home mom,..and he controls all the money.... what do I need to do...I cant think.....

2007-10-04 10:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

That way it's easier to keep the house and stuff.
(not me)

2007-10-04 10:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by joezen777 5

What is your personal way of dealing with an aweful mother-in-law? I love my man, but DANG she is so manipulative toward him and our relationship is suffering. How do you deal??

2007-10-04 10:33:50 · 12 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2

My husband has another woman in our home sleeping with her.
He moved her in 3 days after I went to see my daughter for a visit.I talked to a lawyer and he says I have to catch them in bed.Well i'm going to bust in there one morning so I can catch him.Should I take an officer with me in case he gets violent?

2007-10-04 10:09:33 · 25 answers · asked by RS47 1

The couple next door have a strange relationship. He works 60+ hours a week then when he comes home begins work again on the house. It is absolutely pristine/state of the art and he does it all for her. She does not work, drives around in the car he's paying for, he's paid for her new breast implants, hair, nails ... When he attempts to make love to her she cruelly rejects him - I believe he's given up on that altogether. I hear him rowing with her begging to know "who is it?" She always accuses him of being paranoid. However I regularly see a big handsome black man coming round at lunch times for about an hour a couple of times a week. Two days ago I put my ear to the wall and heard passionate, raunchy sex, groans squeeky bedsprings etc. I am taken aback I cannot believe the ordacity of her behaviour. What should I do, I feel I want to let him know or is it non of my business????? Opinions please!!!!! They have a 14 yr old son, been together for 15 years.

2007-10-04 10:03:55 · 41 answers · asked by jules61 2

2007-10-04 09:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by purplepansymama 1

I am 37, married... unhappily. My husband and I have been and continue to be total opposites! Even our jobs are so totally opposite. I met this guy that works in my field,and we have so many things in commom, but live about 100 miles away. I think about him a lot. I enjoy his company so much and I really respect him as a person, in his job, etc.

Part of me feels like it could be "that person I was meant to be with". We just click so well. I could see us fitting so comfortably.

It feels like he keeps making excuses to call me, and see me. And the excuses are all work related. I have even had other people tell me that he has complimented me ALOT to other people. Including my boss, he called to tell her what a great person I am and how good of a job I do.

I am worried that if I got the chance to cheat, that I would take it. And neither of us are the type to do that. But I keep seeing this happen, should I take the chance? Should I address it with him?

2007-10-04 09:45:27 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lived on my own with my child for 7 years.......

I then meet someone that I really feel I could live with and love for the rest of my life, let him move in little girl loves him but 4 months down the line I can't take it any more.......living with someone that is!

Am I strange or is anybody else that set in their ways that it becomes impossible to let anyone in!!!

I've asked him to leave and the relief is tremendous because I am back to being on my own again -

What the hell is wrong with me??????

2007-10-04 09:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by EMA 5