Must be NICE!!!! To be very Happily Married!!! I envy all of ya'll, while some of us are not that lucky in the marriage department. I do not understand, why some people have all the luck in the world, to be in a successful marriage. How depressing this is!!!! Sucks!
2007-10-04 11:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One day God will bless you with someone. Just make sure that what you seed is good to harvest and then when it is time you too will enjoy a blissful marriage. You just wait and see. Marriage is a very delicate thing and it only works when two people are working toward the same goal of being happy.
2007-10-10 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by My advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People really work hard in making their marriages last and to make it a happy one..It's not about luck ..It's all about understanding,love and how much r u willing to put in ur marriage and also the most important thing is honesty so u see it's not what u think if u are married than u should understander that after marriage life changes it not weekends out with boys or girls but try spending that time knowing ur better half so that u both can understand each others need
2007-10-04 11:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by kajal c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey being happily married has nothing to do with luck but having the lines of communication open and working hard to keep your marriage happy. It takes time, patience and hard work! I am happily married and that is because I took my vows seriously and so did my husband. There is a reason you are unhappy in your marriage and you may need to seek counseling to figure it out if you do not know where to begin. Good luck honey you deserve happiness as anyone else does!
2007-10-04 12:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Flyyasever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't envy happily married people even though i see it can be nice. I envy people who are well off and comfortable. I'm happily single, and can't stand having someone around all the time. I never wanted marriage since i was a kid, and hope i don't regrett it later. but i'm good now. There are lot's of problems in relationships and many end in divorce.
2007-10-10 12:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jim honey if I knew I would tell ya. I don't envy people here but I envy people I know. When I gave 199% to a man that I thought was the greatest all the while he was out cheating on me. and I am alone and he is married again. Friend cheats on her husband on a regualar basis and he hangs right in there and forgives her and she don't deserve that....not in my opinion. I decided that it was time to stop thinking that they had it all and I had nothing and started being thankful for what I do have. Great kids, good job, loving family and maybe that God let me find out he was cheating when I did cause I needed to come home to my home town so I could be here to take care of my dad till he died last year. Start being positive and see what happens.
2007-10-04 11:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very happy in my marriage, however it takes a lot of work and communication. people these days don't remember how to communicate with there partner. There afraid to hear the truth and sometimes you have to hear the truth to make your relationship work. Don't get me wrong there are days where im so glad there isn't a gun in the house, because i would of used it. Being in a marriage is like riding a rollercoster, there some couples that need to get off of the ride and there some couples that enjoy.
2007-10-04 11:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Maya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is only as successful as you make it takes lots of good effort and love to make it work but at the end of the day each day is so well worth the effort. One day you too will succeed in doing what a lot have right now.
2007-10-04 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
rA happy marriage is not luck.It takes hard work from both the husband and the wife.A marriage has to be worked on constantly.It is not something that just happens on it's own.In a marriage it is not happy 100% of the time.There are a lot of bad times too.You just have to hope that there are more good times than bad times.If there is a strong love for each other all things can be worked out.
2007-10-04 11:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Successful marriages don't happen because of luck.....they succeed because both partners are committed to one another and to their marriage. Maybe you should take some anger management classes....and perhaps a few on social behavior before even attempting to get into a relationship.
2007-10-04 11:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear God get over it already. Happy marriage's isn't something that just happens, you have to work at it put forth a lil effort.
I dont understand why you keep throwing yourself a pitty party either. It simple if your truly not happy then LEAVE. And dont throw up that you stay for ur kids, cuz if you really loved them you wouldn't put them through all this unnecceary crap.
2007-10-06 03:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋