my hubby did that and i was wondering if it was?
2007-10-04 12:24:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, the mind and body are two different subjects. If he just asked a question for conversation or to further his knowledge....it isn't cheating. But if he is soliciting something, then it is cheating. His heart could belong to you, but his mind my drift....that IS normal. All men are like that, but that doesn't mean they will venture off to another women.
Give him credit for being honest. Most men keep things like this to ourselves.
2007-10-04 12:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by jrchairez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very disrespectful. It is emotional cheating, which is just as bad as physically cheating. If he loves you enough to make you the woman of his life forever, you deserve his complete respect. If he has sexual questions, he should be asking you. If he's asking someone else, then he's probably thinking about having sex with someone else, and that is completely inappropriate for married people.
2007-10-04 19:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say 'No". However...here's my question....and it should be yours so gimme the 10 points.
"What is your husband doing discussing your sex life and his with someone other than yourself?"
LOL....wanna know what happens if its a guy? When you meet this person...unbeknown to you...the images you husband has so thoughtlessly and disrespectfully discussed in detail about what he does with you...to you...and God knows what else...sees you performing each and every one of those acts. Yes...that includes that little incident where you were wearing the bunny suit and he had on the woman's underwear. Remember that?
Yeah...so...maybe you should kick hubby square in the groin and turn those family jewels into worthless heirlooms for the hot, dirty, steamy and exciting images he planted in the minds of people you don't even know and if you met them...would never know they knew anyway.
Be sure to thank him for that.
2007-10-04 19:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This one is easy. Would it be o.k if the tables were turned.? We get married in my opinion to have that intimacy with ONLY one person. I believe our daughters, mothers sisters, cousins and all females act and dress to get a response from men that they feel gets them attention. It is the men who cause our daughters to dress provocatively with their hoots and whistles but when it comes down to marriage or lets say your own daughter they feel or are treated like a slut. Porn in my opinion is wrong unless enjoyed as a couple. Discussing it outside the marriage falls in that category. Men say they like the slutty clothes but then you are looked down on when you do. I'm not saying all men do this but it sure messes up our young women and teenagers. I raised 4 daughters and thank god they are all strong now. But they went through this stage and when I hear a man or friend say jeez you need to dress in a better way, My response is, Then put down that porn mag long enough and try and talk with her like a young lady. Instead of what she See's on a daily basis and knows what you really say about women.
2007-10-04 19:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Maybe he was trying to get a womans point of view, nothing sexual between them but if there's a problem between the 2 of you he was wanting a womans perspective to try to figure some things out
2007-10-04 19:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by anna_f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. How can that be cheating????
Nothing was done between two people other than a question.
So if you ask a person of the opposite sex a question, IS THAT CHEATING?
2007-10-04 19:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the nature of the sexual questions. If he was asking advice on how to spice up your sex life, or what can he do to please you, I would say no.
However, if he was asking another woman what she enjoyed during sex, how often she had sex, does she masturbate ... I wouldn't say it was cheating, but I'd definitely say its inappropriate behavior.
I'd talk to your husband about it. Don't be judgmental, just ask his motivations. Take it from there.
2007-10-04 19:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by ◦Delylah◦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions are fine cheating is having psychicial or emotional relationship.
2007-10-04 19:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by backtothepast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one step closer to the cheating door, not to mention very
inappropriate unless it's with a councilor and, even then I'd
question him.
2007-10-04 19:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mo_Joe_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he's not cheating but looking to determine if his appetites are normal, take it as an obvious cue that he wants to open a sexula dialog with you, asking what they talked about (in a non-threatening tone) and let him know YOU want to weigh in on the subject
2007-10-04 19:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by katubabybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋