Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2007

What should I do when my husband ignores me and perfers to be alone? I dont think he is seeing any one else but the distance sure is making me lonely.

2007-10-04 17:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband looks down on me and my children now that he makes alot of money,everything is his, and he always tells me what he had paid for, his money this,his money that. A real control freak, and he calls the 800 numbers for singles all the time, he lies about everything. He makes everyone in my family thinks that he is such a good husband. He moved me and my children to another state and told me that we all needed a fresh start and he never move at all, I thought that this will help our marriage out -not, he had proimiosed that he will move in 3 months because he had a contracting job that he had to finish but he never moved in, didn't pay the morage, my children and i had to move into a townhouse with money that I got for pawning my wedding ring. This all was 10 months ago. Now he is asking me to move back home (Ohio) but now I'm in love with someone else and I want a divoied, Because I don't love my husband anymore,because of the lies, and wrong doing.

2007-10-04 17:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by MELISE M 1

If you found out that your spouse had an affair for 2 years and possably a child came of the relationship, could you forgive? What if they seem genuinly sorry...are they be sorry you found out or trully sorry for screwing you over for two years? Would it make you feel any better if the woman was about 60 pounds heavier than you and looked like a troll?

2007-10-04 17:31:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not married, but when i am i hope we play allllll the time

i had heard a lot of couples dont play...and theres NO way i could handle that

2007-10-04 17:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by Greg D 1

Does she want me? when she hears some one call me by my nick name she will repeat it sometimes and she walks pretty close and sync with me. I walked really close to her one day and as i walked by out of the corner of my eye i could see her eying me down and she constantly fixes her hair and clothes when im near. Today she hid something on me and i still cant find it but i know she is the one it moved it but she hasnt told me. I was sitting next to her and she kept brushing agiasnt me and she would keep her arm touching mine more a while like it didnt bother her at all we were touching. ME make eye contact quite often with blank expressions in croweded places

im 18 in high school this is all pretty subtle and we know eachother but not really good


she generally ignores me though

2007-10-04 17:15:27 · 4 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1

I am 23 and am married to a man - after 2 years of courtship. After almost 2-3 months of marriage, i was looking for some stuff on his PC and suddenly found a few pictures of another colleage of ours.

After a little questioning, he admitted that he went to dinner with that girl one day and took that photo. This was during the time that we were together as BF GF. He said that it a farewell party dinner (She was moving to another company) and he didnt tell me bcos he felt I will unnecessarily shout at him. I'm sure he was not in a relationship or anything with her - they were just friends. Now she is in in another country and married. But why did he not tell me?
Another time I found the email id of a girl in his pocket. He said that he had met her on a bus and had got talking to her and got her email id as they are both in the IT industry. These incidents were 1.5 years before marriage.
Can I trust him again? Should I take up this topic during our fights as a weapon against him?

2007-10-04 17:14:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If starting today, you could be paid $500 a day for every day that you refrained from touching your lover/significant other, how long do you think you would last?

2007-10-04 17:13:49 · 23 answers · asked by Been here before 3

My fiancee and I had an argument the other night. He was offered a considerable amount of money to go out of town this week for his job. He said that being separated from me for so long was worth it because he would be making so much more money than he would make if he did not go. I accused him of caring more about money than he cares about me, but then he argued that we needed the money. We're definitely not rich, but we get by on what we normally make. Why is making more money that important to him??? Is it just a guy thing?

2007-10-04 17:12:25 · 19 answers · asked by Been here before 3

Fathers, lawyers, attorneys, law students, custodial dads, PLEASE HELP! My husband is going to be going to court next month to try and get custody of his 12 year old son. I need ANY information I can gather on what we need to do, not do, and know before we go to court. Any secret Texas laws about custody? Just a brief history: My now husband was with the mother of his child on and off for the first 8 years of the childs life. It was not a good relationship. They often broke up. Now they have been separated for about 4 years. I am not married to him. During the course of the last 3 years the mother has moved around a lot, been fired from several jobs, gone through several short term relationships, and is now living with her mother. My husband and I have been together for 3 years. We both have stable, well paying jobs. We feel that he would be the best custodial parents because the mother is not very responsible. She does not spend time with him. Never buys him new things, or clothes, and never takes him places. She is not responsible with money and will more than likely never be able to send him to college when the time comes. She often comes to my husband for "extra" money in addition to the child support her is already paying. i.e. for clothes, school supplies, birthday/christmas gifts, etc. His son has openly admitted that the child support my husband pays her goes directly to her mothers bills because she also is apparently suffering financially. Sorry for the lengthy posting but we are DESPERATE. The child and I also have a really good relationship even though I am only the step-mom. I love him dearly and want nothing but for him to come live with us. I worry about his future if her doesn't. Thank you to any one that can help me. :) Leah

2007-10-04 16:52:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship with a man I love for nearly a decade. An old fling has asked to meet up for lunch to catch up. It would be nice to have a friend to chat with, but would this be weird of me?

2007-10-04 16:40:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left me for another woman four years ago. After we divorced, I text/email him whenever I felt down because I knew he would understand how I felt. Even though he had a gf and were talking about marriage. One day, he asked me to let him came back because his gf asked him to leave because of me. Will this relationship work on the second time?

2007-10-04 16:32:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, haven't even divorced once? And like been together for 10 years and still love each other?

It's just my parents were divorced and just about everyone I know is divorced. I had to go through it as a kid and it makes me sad sometimes. I don't even know what it is like to see a family with a mom and dad who genuinely love each other.

2007-10-04 16:29:11 · 15 answers · asked by asdf 1

2007-10-04 16:17:07 · 24 answers · asked by fritzgerald 1

My husband drives me crazy about the television. He always wants to watch those Sci Fi movies and stuff. He will not respect the fact that I do not like those. I end up watching them anyways because what else am I suppose to do. But, he will not watch any television programs that I like. The cable is in my name... do you think I should temporarily cancel it to teach him a lesson?

2007-10-04 16:14:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Know each other for 11 years and married for 7 years. He's going one after another women. He comes back in the morning with love bites. He even steal and sold my wedding chain cause to spend and visit his girlfriend. He allow his ex-schoolmate (a divorcee lady) to stay in house when I"m away to my parents house. I only got to know from his friend after 2 months and he admit when I approach. Now his affair with his own childhood friends wife who's staying opposite our house. My neighbours had seen him entering her house at night once the husband left. I have given him alot of oppurtunities but its a waste. I'm currently shifted to another state with my 2 kids and working in a private hospital. I have no idea yet what will be my married life's ending. Please advice what should be my next step.

2007-10-04 16:10:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sha S 2

Alright, well I have to work alot to provide for my family (wife and 7 year old daughter) so I normally work pretty late and I'm gone for a week or two every other month. Anyway, I had to work late quite alot this month so I took off early a few days ago to suprise my wife with a romantic dinner to one of her favorite restaurants, soon after getting home I walked in on my wife and another man in our bedroom. I didnt think that either of them noticed me so I left the room to go think so that I wouldnt do anything that I would regret. Now for the question, at first I thought about talking it over with her and to see if she would agree to go to marriage counseling with me, but we would most likely just end up separated for awhile and I wouldnt want my daughter to see her mother any less. Should I just act like this never happened and move on?

2007-10-04 16:06:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

especially pre-meditated murder, you can not get away with taking someones life. its wrong and useless. you might as well turn yourself in after you committ a crime of that nature because you will get caught eventually?

2007-10-04 15:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and i love him so much.. I am sure that he is the love of my life and i know that he loves me too.
We are planning to get married soon.
Sometimes i get this intense fear that he will fall in love with someone else..and that we will divorce..or that he will cheat on me ..or something bad will happed.. it trust him but what will happen in 1oyrs, 15yrs, 20yrs!! how can i know ??? will he fall in love wiht someone else??im so scared that someday he wil come up to me and tell me "im sorry but i dont love you as much as i used to, im seeing someone else!!!" im so scared!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-04 15:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my wife 2 months ago its over, and each time i give into the pressure of the family to stay cause its the right RELIGIOUS thing to do. Now in a moment of weekness ( we are seperated ) i have given her false hope that we will work it out. The moment i said that i KNEW i should not have.

How do i tell her its over and done. YOu can read more about my marriage issues from the other questions i have asked under my name.

2007-10-04 15:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by Jason F 1

2007-10-04 15:47:39 · 6 answers · asked by nctchandru 1

2007-10-04 15:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by farmboy 2

i met this wonderful guy from work, he was sweet and very attractive but he was married and he had 2 kids. whe i met him he had problems with his wife she almost cheated on him with his best friend he was so sad about it she told him everything because she was afraid to loose him he forgive her.
he said because of his kids and he used to love her so much, i remember that day he was crying that day he kissed me i was so scared because i felt that he was the guy i was looking for all my life but he belong to another person already. time passed by and we fall inlove to each other he told me he wanted tobe with me he told me that he loved me very much and that he didnt love his wife anymore I thought about his kids and told him no that i couldnt hurt his kids because i love him so much. Now i cant live without him i need him with me i just love him so much and i know hes the one i dont know what to do i think i lost him what should i do? I tried to forget about him but i just cant !!!

2007-10-04 15:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by sunshineb06 1

My narcissitic husband orginally admitted to a 1-time cheat he had with an ex-gf while we were still newlyweds. We seperated soon after & have been seperated for a couple months now. Once he was confronted by another person on the unfaithfulness he denied it. Then about a month ago he came to my crying saying he lied about the affair cuz he was mad at me & wanted to push me away. He said he could verify where he really was that night. Recently he's been asking me to come home. I told him last night that if he was capable lying to his new wife that he cheated, he's capable of still lying right now. So I told him if he had nothing to hide to call the girl right there. He wouldn't. Said he didn't want to involve her and she'd be upset. He said he'd call her & ask if it was okay to talk to her about it. I said, "how do when I know when I leave you won't ask her to lie for you?" He insisted he was innocent & refused to call her right then. Well I had her SN for AIM and contacted her today.

2007-10-04 15:28:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just wondering if I'm the only one.
He came home tonight, and started bitching before he even got both feet in the door.
After about an hour of that, I told him that if he didn't have anything nice to say to me then perhaps he should keep his mouth shut.
Then he stormed out of the house like a five year old.

2007-10-04 15:24:53 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

My fiance is pretty well off. He can really take care of me financial-wise. But he is such a workaholic, so he's always too tired for sex, I feel like I am only second place. My Ex is the opposite. He always had energy, we had so much fun. But he had no ambition, so I broke up with him. I think I love him more than my fiance. And he says he still loves me and wants me back. If money wasn't an issue, I would definitely pick my ex. But I don't wanna end up swimming in debt, cuz I still have to pay my student loans...Help please?

2007-10-04 15:19:47 · 37 answers · asked by smile 2

My boyfriend of a year cheated on me TWICE. And he still claims that he LOVES me and that he will never do it again.

Guys: why do u do this? how can u hurt soneone so bad and make it obvouis that u dont give a damn and still claim that you love them?

And say that u will never do it again when you've cheated twice!!?

2007-10-04 15:12:48 · 22 answers · asked by nicoℓe 4

He is 6 months behind on child support and I cant afford to talk to a lawyer right now but I was wondering what will happen to him if he doesnt pay.Will he go to jail? if so how long?

2007-10-04 15:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

For instance, if you met him/her at work, were your working for the same department? How long have you been married? Are you happy?

Please be descriptive. I have the time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-04 15:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is mad at me. We were talking on the phone for 5 minutes and at least she said "I love you" but I still feel her fury and sadness. I want to do something special for her, not just like a normal gift, (no poems, I usually give to her a lot of poems and that's not gonna to impress her) I want to do a big surprise, impress her with a special moment. I need your imagination, ideas and all your help! The love I feel for her is like the infinity. I love her to dead and I don't like to see her mad at me! and I need her smile back.

This is for tomorrow, I need your experiences please...Thank's

2007-10-04 14:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by Yulien 2

i mean about a serious relationship that been over ten yrs . how do you know when your time is being wasted ,because you try so hard but its like they let u do all the work.

2007-10-04 14:45:59 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy A 1