What should I do when my husband ignores me and perfers to be alone? I dont think he is seeing any one else but the distance sure is making me lonely.
2007-10-04 17:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talking to him only gets a funny glare and no answers. Im sure i should leave BUT i just dont want to have to start over again. SUCKS!
2007-10-04 17:46:35 · update #1
Ask him if he want a blow j and everything will be back to normal.
2007-10-04 17:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this a pattern of his or does he do it just when he's angry? When you say he "ignores" you, do you mean totally ignores you ... as in if you ask him a question, he won't acknowledge you? Have you discussed this with him?
I think you have to decide whether you want to put up with this for the rest of your life. At any rate, marriage counseling (with or without him) would really help you sort out your feelings and develop a plan either for staying or leaving.
2007-10-05 00:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to make your husband open up is during intimance. surely he will answer you and take advantages of that opportunity to express your feeling and better your communication. I have found out most married couple have problems communicating and they don't take time to understand their spouse before they conclude what they say thus have different meaning thab how it was mean.
2007-10-05 00:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is having problems at work. The stress of it is wearing him out mentally. To the point he just wants to settle in somwhere, between brain dead and comatose, when he gets home from work.
2007-10-05 00:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going out alone or is he at home and in another room? If he's going out, you may want to ask what's up. Otherwise he just probably needs a little time alone to decompress.
2007-10-05 00:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by chaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can
A) find some interests of your own and pursue them when he wants to be alone
B) Make a bigger effort to get his attention
C)Learn to suffer in silence...or
D) Tell him you don't like this and things must change or you are going to leave him...and then do it.
2007-10-05 00:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. Try to engage hm in conversation. Like "Why are you ignoring me?"
b. Be available to talk but have your girlfriends ready for a deep gab.
2007-10-05 00:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Danette T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people like their own space but you should just ask him why do he treat you in this manner, when you obviously like to be noticed - asking can only get you the answers you are looking for - good luck
2007-10-05 00:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋