2007-10-04 14:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by rhina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a woman and a mother and wife i have ask that same question over and over in my head. I can't for the life of me understand how something that only lasts such a short time can have so much power to where you loss all common sense and forget of the consequences. Sex is such a small word but it sure is dangerous. To all you men out there stop teaching young boys to think sex is their god given right to have as much and with as many girls as possible. It's not right and it is very disrespectful to us women.
2007-10-07 15:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the marriage wasn't good enough to stop them. And some men are just looking for a way out of the responsibility.
2007-10-04 23:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Blade_III 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically human being are not monogamous.. I believe you can be sexually attracted to someone else even if you’re in a strong marriage. In fact, sometimes it makes your marriages stronger. You probably give your marriage more after you deviate sexually, there’s a kind of guilt that makes you perform better. These are stark realities that you can speak of to some, and you can’t to others. Having said that, I also believe that roleplaying is a very important part of our lives.
2007-10-04 21:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Badmaash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although most women can't understand this we men have a physical need for sex. it can cause pain if we go too long without it. our scrotum actually hurts.
women on the other hand (some women) can go years without it and feel no loss of anything. They aren't the same.
so when our spouse decided to turn the spigot off we find someone else to fuffill our needs.
if you want to keep your man happy, keep your legs open more.
2007-10-05 15:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all in how you are raised. "Human's" are how they were raised to be (monogamous or not) or what they choose to be. ALL men are different. Some make stupid choices and regret them and some don't (regret them). There is no excuse for cheating in my eyes. Every situation has different decisions to be made. Just remember the kids.
There is no solution but your own.
2007-10-07 21:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jeeya~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wreck mine.My ex wife did.She did the cheating and I did the child raising.Funny how things can get reversed sometimes .
2007-10-04 21:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋