2007-10-04 14:44:45 · 26 answers · asked by inquisitive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not married...does have erectile/climax difficulties...
2007-10-04 15:16:50 · update #1
1. He is very busy and stressed at work
2. He is getting older and needs Viagra.
3. He is not inlove anymore.
4. He is cheating and gets it somewhere else.
5. You need to pay more attention to him in other ways. Its a way of saying I want more attention, not just sex.
6. You need to shed a few pounds and work out.
Hope this helps and good luck
2007-10-04 14:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy gets older his sex drive will naturally decrease. However, there are more factors that contribute to the lack of a sex drive. Stress is a major one. If he is stressed out at work, or working a lot, worried about money ect..it could effect his drive.
As with any issue in a relationship, talk about it. Sit him down and explain how you are feeling, ask if he is embarrissed, or if he just has a lot on his mind. Be understanding and try to help him remove whatever it is that is slowing his sex drive.
2007-10-04 22:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by ckcool192000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you may have gotten fat and let yourself go. You might wear 'mom' jeans and have a cuntgut. Maybe cellulite ripples and indentations surround your thighs. Maybe you talk too much on the phone to your mom and sisters and ignore your husband. Maybe you pay too much attention to the kids. Maybe you are trying to control or change your husband. Maybe you insult and nag your husband. Maybe you spend all the family's money and run up the credit card. Maybe you want new cars all the time.
It could be any or all of these reasons. We guys are not that hard to figure out. When we don't want sex from you, you are screwing up somehow. We will go somewhere else if you don't shape up.
2007-10-04 22:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men in long term relationships often stop being the initiators of sex because it is open to them freely now, and if you keep on asking then he doesn't have to do any work at all. Its probably not an issue of attraction, there is just more stressors in married/committed life then when you are living apart and dating. Talk to him about it, or suggest that you two have a date night and reconnect.
2007-10-04 21:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Airam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of it could be age related. Men are at their sexual peak at about 18 and women start hitting their peak in their thirties. Another thing it could is that the sex has gotten routine. Guys like adventurous sex and spontaneous sex. My recomendation to spice things up is to wear something hot the next time he comes home and have sex somewhere outside of the bedroom. Anything different than the norm will spice things up.
2007-10-04 22:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by michael m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus on QUALITY instead of QUANTITY. Sex is like chocolate cake. It's not good if you eat it every single night! So instead of average sex 5-6 times a week, why not have incredibale amazing sex 2-3 times a week?
2007-10-04 21:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things can be imagined. I don't know him. Maybe he doesn't find you sexy anymore. Maybe he is tired of begging. Maybe he's discovered he's got two hands. Maybe he gets it elsewhere. Maybe he was Gay when you married him and only came out now. I'm not attempting to be funny or to offend you or insult him. It's a loaded question, a thousand possibilities. Most are way off. Why don't you ask him?
2007-10-04 21:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by ToolManJobber 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on your ages and if he has a physically demanding job. Or it could be that he has lost interest in the sex. with you. Maybe you should spice it up somehow. Or this could also be an indication of a change in his feelings for you.
2007-10-04 21:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_k_17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be he's "bored" with your sex life. Try spicing things up a little bit. You want sex more than he does b/c of your hormones. Most women are like that.
2007-10-04 21:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your probably married about 10 years.
2007-10-04 21:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Becky J 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋